Don't do it if you aren't completely comfortable with every aspect of it. I might do something of the sort, it just depends on the girl for me.
Girls only: Girl on Girl
03/12/2011
Never really had opportunity.
I have always been a little curious, though, but have accepted the fact, at this point in my life, it will probably never happen.
I have always been a little curious, though, but have accepted the fact, at this point in my life, it will probably never happen.
03/13/2011
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I am bi and have had many threesomes and they were all great fun. as long as you have a healthy mind and want to do it I see there would be no issues. but never do it for someone else!!!
Originally posted by
guard083
My guy is really wanting some girl on girl action and I'm very iffy on it. I was wondering how many girls have done this to maybe make myself feel a little better about this.
03/13/2011
I wouldn't do it just to impress my boyfriend, or for him.
If the attraction is there towards the girl and I'm single, I'll go for it.
If the attraction is there towards the girl and I'm single, I'll go for it.
03/13/2011
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Do not do anything that you do not want to do. I am Bi and love men and women, but I would not do something I was uncomfortable with for some "boyfriend"
Originally posted by
guard083
My guy is really wanting some girl on girl action and I'm very iffy on it. I was wondering how many girls have done this to maybe make myself feel a little better about this.
03/13/2011
Threesomes and moresomes are marvelous. But they aren't always drama-free (particularly if all the parties involved are inexperienced).
As a lesbian, I highly recommend girl on girl action. Watch some porn as research. What turns you on about it? Focus on the things that look sexy to you. When you're in the moment, remind yourself "that's what I look like." Make your boyfriend work to get you as excited about it as he is. Have him tell you girl on girl sex stories while he gives you a hand job (or a massage!).
Spend some time alone, exploring your body and imagining it's another woman's. Taste yourself.
Plan to start your threesome date in the shower or hot tub. Cleanliness will make for a helpful aid against unwanted squicks. Also if you are anxious then all your sences (like smell etc) will be exaggerated. Buy a shampoo and body wash that relaxes or arouses you just for the occasion.
Make sure you have the final say in the 3-some partner selection. She should be someone more experienced than you, so that she can keep the action going if you slide into passivity. She should be someone more interested in you than in your boyfriend. Someone you are not jealous of.
Ask your boyfriend if he's up to doing a threesome with another guy if you have either double-team fantasies or an interest in boy on boy action.
Personally I think in a society that is so homophobic that same-sex play should be on everyone's to do list.
As a lesbian, I highly recommend girl on girl action. Watch some porn as research. What turns you on about it? Focus on the things that look sexy to you. When you're in the moment, remind yourself "that's what I look like." Make your boyfriend work to get you as excited about it as he is. Have him tell you girl on girl sex stories while he gives you a hand job (or a massage!).
Spend some time alone, exploring your body and imagining it's another woman's. Taste yourself.
Plan to start your threesome date in the shower or hot tub. Cleanliness will make for a helpful aid against unwanted squicks. Also if you are anxious then all your sences (like smell etc) will be exaggerated. Buy a shampoo and body wash that relaxes or arouses you just for the occasion.
Make sure you have the final say in the 3-some partner selection. She should be someone more experienced than you, so that she can keep the action going if you slide into passivity. She should be someone more interested in you than in your boyfriend. Someone you are not jealous of.
Ask your boyfriend if he's up to doing a threesome with another guy if you have either double-team fantasies or an interest in boy on boy action.
Personally I think in a society that is so homophobic that same-sex play should be on everyone's to do list.
03/13/2011
My bf and I had a few threesome. They are amazing because other female know how to take care of another women
03/16/2011
if you're feeling iffy, don't do it. Maybe you can watch some videos of other threesomes to see what you think. Bottom line, if you don't want to, don't do it. =) good luck =)
03/30/2011
I've been with other girls and it doesn't bother me. One of them rocked my world! We're planning a threesome, just waiting to find the right girl for the job.
03/30/2011
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I made out and got quite touchy-feely. If there weren't two other dudes there trying to turn it into a 4some I would have gone further.
Originally posted by
guard083
My guy is really wanting some girl on girl action and I'm very iffy on it. I was wondering how many girls have done this to maybe make myself feel a little better about this.
03/31/2011
only if you want to
04/04/2011
Well I identify as a lesbian... so um, yeah girl on girl is kinda what I do.
04/05/2011
no 3somes as of yet
04/05/2011
I havent done any girl on girl
04/08/2011
i couldnt do a girl but she could do me!!!
04/08/2011
have not tried any of this, but want to.
04/16/2011
While I prefer to be on the recieiving end of oral from another female I have went all the way with a few. My best friend and I have a few double ended dildos that we pull out and use on occasion when the guys are busy.
04/19/2011
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My guy brought this up last night BUT I dont think i could do it because I would be afraid it would end the realtionship...
Originally posted by
guard083
My guy is really wanting some girl on girl action and I'm very iffy on it. I was wondering how many girls have done this to maybe make myself feel a little better about this.
04/19/2011
Currently engaged to a MtF transgendered person too. I love kissing women and love it all.
05/06/2011
I never have and probably never will but one thing I know for sure is that you have to be 100% comfortable with it yourself. Do it because you want to not because he is asking for it or because he really wants it and you want to make him happy. There are plenty of other ways to keep him happy, and he should respect the fact that you may not want to, or be ready for it.
05/14/2011
I've never done any of it. I would be open to it tho.. just depends on who the other person is
05/15/2011
I made out with a girl crush a few years back before my current boyfriend and I recently made out with a friend while I was really drunk...I was into it and so was she but we were not well matched in terms of kissing, it was funny when we talked about it sober. My bf doesn't know about it.
05/15/2011
i done it
05/15/2011
if your not open like that don't do it
05/15/2011
I personally love girl on girl action! My hubs enjoys the fact that I am bisexual and the out come of after having a 3some was amazing. My hubs took a shower and couldn't get it down and we would do our thing and he'd take a shower and still wouldn't and that happen about 4 different times. The after effects was amazing and the sex was amazing!!!
07/22/2011
Women are great so are men! Just try it!
08/09/2011
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I have done the girl-girl thing a couple times...not all that. Better for guys to watch or dream about.
Originally posted by
guard083
My guy is really wanting some girl on girl action and I'm very iffy on it. I was wondering how many girls have done this to maybe make myself feel a little better about this.
08/16/2011
I've made out with a few ladies ^.^
08/16/2011
I love girl on girl things. I'm also engaged to a MtF. So I'm all open for F/F relationships too.
08/16/2011
Trying to make this happen..with another female and my kinda new bf.I brought it up as its something ive always wanted to try.Although im a jealous person by nature so it might be alil weird watching my bf fuck another chick in front of me, but have discussed it all and to make myself feel better we are doing it with someone we dont know or live around us.But if you want to try it then do it.If its akward and you change your mind then stop but definitely make sureYOU want to do it for yourself to experience not for what your partner wants!
09/16/2011