Why do guys have this fantasy...

Contributor: Babylove09 Babylove09
I've always wanted to know why is it that guys have a fantasy of cumming on the others face or in their mouth?
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Saw it on a porn
25
Done it before
13
Other...
75
Total votes: 113 (103 voters)
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11/14/2012
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Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Because it's hot? I'm a woman, and I love facials and swallowing. Very intimate, very sexy, shows complete acceptance of your lover, the way your lover's body works, and that you revel in their pleasure and sexuality. That's how I feel about it.

I think there's also something about "marking" your lover that guys find sexy with facials or cumming on their partner. At least, I like to feel that I've been marked as his. He's indicated that he's doing that to me when he does cum on me, though that was a development that came later, because I was the one that told him I wanted him to cum on me in the first place.

Facials and cumming in your partner's mouth have been around long before pornography. Even if you saw it in a porn and got turned on by it, seeing it in pornography isn't enough to make it something you want--you have to be turned on by it, obviously. I think most men (and a lot of women) are visual...and what a visual it is, to watch yourself climax all over your partner. I like watching the moment of ejaculation, myself. It's a huge turn on, and makes me feel awesome to know that I made him feel that kind of pleasure.
11/14/2012
Contributor: luvslukin luvslukin
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Originally posted by Supervixen
Because it's hot? I'm a woman, and I love facials and swallowing. Very intimate, very sexy, shows complete acceptance of your lover, the way your lover's body works, and that you revel in their pleasure and sexuality. That's how I ... more
Agree..... totally!
11/14/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
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Originally posted by luvslukin
Agree..... totally!
I also agree, completely
11/15/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Babylove09
I've always wanted to know why is it that guys have a fantasy of cumming on the others face or in their mouth?
I don't get the fantasy.
11/15/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Not really a fantasy for me, just really hot
11/15/2012
Contributor: cricket cricket
hotttt
11/15/2012
Contributor: minstrel69 minstrel69
Quote:
Originally posted by Supervixen
Because it's hot? I'm a woman, and I love facials and swallowing. Very intimate, very sexy, shows complete acceptance of your lover, the way your lover's body works, and that you revel in their pleasure and sexuality. That's how I ... more
Great post, Supervixen! I have thought about this before and been unable to really come up with a reason why I like it. I just know I do. What you said is right on target (no pun intended).
11/15/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Supervixen
Because it's hot? I'm a woman, and I love facials and swallowing. Very intimate, very sexy, shows complete acceptance of your lover, the way your lover's body works, and that you revel in their pleasure and sexuality. That's how I ... more
Thirded or fourthed at this point.
11/15/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
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Originally posted by Supervixen
Because it's hot? I'm a woman, and I love facials and swallowing. Very intimate, very sexy, shows complete acceptance of your lover, the way your lover's body works, and that you revel in their pleasure and sexuality. That's how I ... more
agreed
11/15/2012
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Not mine. After it leaves my body, I could care less (pregnancy notwithstanding). They could spackle the wall with it for all I care.
11/15/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Not mine. After it leaves my body, I could care less (pregnancy notwithstanding). They could spackle the wall with it for all I care.


Now that's a utilitarian use for it!
11/15/2012
Contributor: Mikemanz Mikemanz
its hot
11/15/2012
Contributor: Ivanna Ivanna
i dont get it either but ehhh lol
11/15/2012
Contributor: Babylove09 Babylove09
Quote:
Originally posted by Supervixen
Because it's hot? I'm a woman, and I love facials and swallowing. Very intimate, very sexy, shows complete acceptance of your lover, the way your lover's body works, and that you revel in their pleasure and sexuality. That's how I ... more
I agree with you I am one for swallowing and having him cum anywhere on me. It is a turn on.
11/15/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
It's not really a fantasy of mine , but I would if I was asked to.
11/15/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Not mine. After it leaves my body, I could care less (pregnancy notwithstanding). They could spackle the wall with it for all I care.
Haha grody.

Anywho, I'm female and the thought of ejaculating on someone's face gets me hot and bothered, too, soooooo.....yeah.
11/15/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I much prefer to cum inside my partner. In my partner's mouth and for my partner to swallow, I do. To cum on someone's face just doesn't do anything positive for me but that's just me I guess.
11/15/2012
Contributor: neil i. neil i.
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Not mine. After it leaves my body, I could care less (pregnancy notwithstanding). They could spackle the wall with it for all I care.
Nothing personal, but you're not on my list of contractors if I redecorate my place.
11/15/2012
Contributor: meitman meitman
Quote:
Originally posted by Supervixen
Because it's hot? I'm a woman, and I love facials and swallowing. Very intimate, very sexy, shows complete acceptance of your lover, the way your lover's body works, and that you revel in their pleasure and sexuality. That's how I ... more
Very well stated. This pretty much sums it up for me.
11/15/2012
Contributor: sugar&spikes sugar&spikes
Quote:
Originally posted by Supervixen
Because it's hot? I'm a woman, and I love facials and swallowing. Very intimate, very sexy, shows complete acceptance of your lover, the way your lover's body works, and that you revel in their pleasure and sexuality. That's how I ... more
i agree
11/15/2012
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
I have been told that guys see it in porn and think real girl would like it too but I didnt
11/15/2012
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Perfect response, Supervixen. It not at all a fantasy in our house. It's very much a reality. Most sex sessions end with cum on either my face or tits.
11/15/2012
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
Quote:
Originally posted by Supervixen
Because it's hot? I'm a woman, and I love facials and swallowing. Very intimate, very sexy, shows complete acceptance of your lover, the way your lover's body works, and that you revel in their pleasure and sexuality. That's how I ... more
Yes, I agree, its about the acceptance of their cum and the visual. Great explanation!
11/15/2012
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Guys don't really have that fantasy. That's strictly a "porn thing" that started waaay back in the day and is just so much a staple that its reason has been lost to time.

"I don't know why you do the facial, you just it because that's what you do in porn." -The director behind the scenes on Lez Vampires 1.
11/15/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
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Originally posted by Istanbull
Guys don't really have that fantasy. That's strictly a "porn thing" that started waaay back in the day and is just so much a staple that its reason has been lost to time.

"I don't know why you do the facial, you just ... more
The responses to this thread would indicate otherwise. Yes, it's popular in porn, but it's not "strictly a porn thing." You really think guys never thought to cum on their partners before porn?
11/16/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
not entirely sure why it's hot... it just is, I'm female and I like it
11/16/2012
Contributor: hmb12 hmb12
I believe there's actually something hormonal with girls that the scent of cum makes them horny or turned on. It can be gross at first for some, but I've heard that most girls just naturally like the smell.
11/16/2012
Contributor: r00ster r00ster
Face. When a girl allows me to do it, I feel like it means she's submitting to me and that she's mine
11/16/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Supervixen
Because it's hot? I'm a woman, and I love facials and swallowing. Very intimate, very sexy, shows complete acceptance of your lover, the way your lover's body works, and that you revel in their pleasure and sexuality. That's how I ... more
You nailed it!!!
11/16/2012