Have you ever felt ashamed or embarrassed of your fantasy?

Have you ever felt ashamed or embarrassed of your fantasy?

 
 
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shcoo shcoo
I've been embarrassed about asking my partner to roleplay sometimes, because I ask him to behave like characters from shows or movies, haha.. I was embarrassed and scared that he might think I didn't want HIM.
01/07/2012
Beck Beck
I do feel ashamed of one of mine, which is why he does not know it.
01/07/2012
Red Riding Hood Red Riding Hood
I think there was a time where I was entirely ashamed and embarrassed of a lot of fantasies. I think at one point, I just grew up and realized there was no harm in it. I will say that it also depends on who I talk to. There are some people I have no probably speaking about things with and others that I just can't stand to let know those aspects of myself. I think it's just a privacy thing, though. Many factors, not just shame.
01/09/2012
poetprincess poetprincess
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Curious poll!
I have never been ashamed but maybe a lil embarrassed especially when one involved a very good looking male co worker..
01/09/2012
True Pleasures True Pleasures
I easily embarrass with pretty much everything.
01/09/2012
bsgs bsgs
i have a couple that i havent told my wife just because i dont know how she would react. she says she has no fantasies, and i cant tell if she really has no fantasies, or if she is worried about how i would take them or if i would judge her
02/01/2012
Red Riding Hood Red Riding Hood
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Originally posted by bsgs
i have a couple that i havent told my wife just because i dont know how she would react. she says she has no fantasies, and i cant tell if she really has no fantasies, or if she is worried about how i would take them or if i would judge her
Maybe you should try to tell her one of yours just to see? Maybe if you open up, she may let something out herself. Just let her know your concern beforehand so maybe it will prep her a bit?
02/01/2012
HannahPanda HannahPanda
Some of my crazier ones, yeah!
02/07/2012
Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
I've never felt embarrassed or ashamed because my fantasies are pretty tame.
02/23/2012
kittycatgirl kittycatgirl
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Originally posted by SexyStuff
I have because of my conservative religious background
Same here! I mostly don't let it bother me, but every once in awhile guilt creeps up on me!
02/23/2012
cottonxcandy cottonxcandy
I have a couple of taboo fantasies that I'm embarrassed and ashamed to share, but I've shared a ton of other crazy fantasies and not felt bad in the least bit.
02/26/2012
Dreaus Dreaus
im all about the anal, but my wifes wants absolutely nothing to do with it. So i have found that me wanting to satisfy my personal needs means that I have to wait until she is out of the house.
02/26/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
When I was younger, there was a brief period where you could basically show me almost anything in a sexual context and it would turn me on. I'm pretty embarrassed about most of the stuff I thought up during that time. Thankfully it doesn't happen to me anymore.
02/26/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
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Originally posted by Seventeen
I'm quite convinced that anything I think up is nothing to be ashamed of. Though sometimes I wonder what made me think such, I usually just enjoy it.

Fantasies are just that! Fantasies! - and in my opinion, very good for you :3. ... More
I agree! I think what some people don't understand is that fantasies are just fantasies. Like rape fantasies for example, just because someone has a rape fantasy they like to role play with their partner, doesn't mean they'd ever actually want to be raped in real life.
03/07/2012
MimiPhryxus MimiPhryxus
Yup. It took years, literally YEARS, before I came out to my husband about my age-play fetish. When I did though he was super supportive and now I'm an out and open age player, at least to other kinksters.
03/07/2012
leelee leelee
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Curious poll!
never been embarressed over it.
03/08/2012
tigertiger tigertiger
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Curious poll!
i used to get ashamed/embarrassed, but that's too much trouble and idgaf
03/08/2012
mlmac mlmac
I am so embarrassed about my fantasy so much that I won't even mention it here.
03/08/2012
MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
Both ashamed and embarassed.
03/27/2012
jmex83 jmex83
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Curious poll!
ive had them where I've thought to myself "Where the hell did that come from!?" haha
04/04/2012
dhig dhig
i've had some that i was a little shy to talk about, but that's all
04/04/2012
Marcianpro Marcianpro
I've never felt ashamed of what comes from my imagination!
04/05/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
i've been embarrassed
04/06/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I've never been ashamed or embarrassed of any of my fantasies.
04/06/2012
gloomybear gloomybear
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Originally posted by PeachieClean
My first sexual partner asked what I fantasized about and then left horrified. I didn't think wanting him to watch me fuck another chick was a bad thing, but I felt really bad at that point.
i had the same fantasy and felt ashamed but recently my bf confessed to experimenting with a guy so im no longer ashamed
04/06/2012
dks210 dks210
I would feel embarrassed if someone other than my partner found out about some of my fantasies, but I'm pretty comfortable sharing them with just him.
04/07/2012
Not-so-chubby-hubby Not-so-chubby-hubby
Love receiving anal, fantasize about men........ And no one knows. I'm not telling or even try asking.
04/07/2012
namelesschaos namelesschaos
I have been in he past, conservative religious upbringing but not anymore.
04/14/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
I'm somewhat embarrassed about my love of anal play since my husband is not into it.
04/14/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
Nope, nothing to be ashamed about
04/14/2012
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