I've been embarrassed about asking my partner to roleplay sometimes, because I ask him to behave like characters from shows or movies, haha.. I was embarrassed and scared that he might think I didn't want HIM.
Have you ever felt ashamed or embarrassed of your fantasy?
01/07/2012
I do feel ashamed of one of mine, which is why he does not know it.
01/07/2012
I think there was a time where I was entirely ashamed and embarrassed of a lot of fantasies. I think at one point, I just grew up and realized there was no harm in it. I will say that it also depends on who I talk to. There are some people I have no probably speaking about things with and others that I just can't stand to let know those aspects of myself. I think it's just a privacy thing, though. Many factors, not just shame.
01/09/2012
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I have never been ashamed but maybe a lil embarrassed especially when one involved a very good looking male co worker..
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Curious poll!
01/09/2012
I easily embarrass with pretty much everything.
01/09/2012
bsgs
i have a couple that i havent told my wife just because i dont know how she would react. she says she has no fantasies, and i cant tell if she really has no fantasies, or if she is worried about how i would take them or if i would judge her
02/01/2012
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Maybe you should try to tell her one of yours just to see? Maybe if you open up, she may let something out herself. Just let her know your concern beforehand so maybe it will prep her a bit?
Originally posted by
bsgs
i have a couple that i havent told my wife just because i dont know how she would react. she says she has no fantasies, and i cant tell if she really has no fantasies, or if she is worried about how i would take them or if i would judge her
02/01/2012
Some of my crazier ones, yeah!
02/07/2012
I've never felt embarrassed or ashamed because my fantasies are pretty tame.
02/23/2012
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Same here! I mostly don't let it bother me, but every once in awhile guilt creeps up on me!
Originally posted by
SexyStuff
I have because of my conservative religious background
02/23/2012
I have a couple of taboo fantasies that I'm embarrassed and ashamed to share, but I've shared a ton of other crazy fantasies and not felt bad in the least bit.
02/26/2012
im all about the anal, but my wifes wants absolutely nothing to do with it. So i have found that me wanting to satisfy my personal needs means that I have to wait until she is out of the house.
02/26/2012
When I was younger, there was a brief period where you could basically show me almost anything in a sexual context and it would turn me on. I'm pretty embarrassed about most of the stuff I thought up during that time. Thankfully it doesn't happen to me anymore.
02/26/2012
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I agree! I think what some people don't understand is that fantasies are just fantasies. Like rape fantasies for example, just because someone has a rape fantasy they like to role play with their partner, doesn't mean they'd ever actually want to be raped in real life.
Originally posted by
Seventeen
I'm quite convinced that anything I think up is nothing to be ashamed of. Though sometimes I wonder what made me think such, I usually just enjoy it.
Fantasies are just that! Fantasies! - and in my opinion, very good for you :3. ... more
Fantasies are just that! Fantasies! - and in my opinion, very good for you :3. ... more
I'm quite convinced that anything I think up is nothing to be ashamed of. Though sometimes I wonder what made me think such, I usually just enjoy it.
Fantasies are just that! Fantasies! - and in my opinion, very good for you :3.
Fantasizing is important I think. less
Fantasies are just that! Fantasies! - and in my opinion, very good for you :3.
Fantasizing is important I think. less
03/07/2012
Yup. It took years, literally YEARS, before I came out to my husband about my age-play fetish. When I did though he was super supportive and now I'm an out and open age player, at least to other kinksters.
03/07/2012
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never been embarressed over it.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Curious poll!
03/08/2012
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i used to get ashamed/embarrassed, but that's too much trouble and idgaf
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Curious poll!
03/08/2012
I am so embarrassed about my fantasy so much that I won't even mention it here.
03/08/2012
Both ashamed and embarassed.
03/27/2012
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ive had them where I've thought to myself "Where the hell did that come from!?" haha
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Curious poll!
04/04/2012
i've had some that i was a little shy to talk about, but that's all
04/04/2012
I've never felt ashamed of what comes from my imagination!
04/05/2012
i've been embarrassed
04/06/2012
I've never been ashamed or embarrassed of any of my fantasies.
04/06/2012
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i had the same fantasy and felt ashamed but recently my bf confessed to experimenting with a guy so im no longer ashamed
Originally posted by
PeachieClean
My first sexual partner asked what I fantasized about and then left horrified. I didn't think wanting him to watch me fuck another chick was a bad thing, but I felt really bad at that point.
04/06/2012
I would feel embarrassed if someone other than my partner found out about some of my fantasies, but I'm pretty comfortable sharing them with just him.
04/07/2012
Love receiving anal, fantasize about men........ And no one knows. I'm not telling or even try asking.
04/07/2012
I have been in he past, conservative religious upbringing but not anymore.
04/14/2012
I'm somewhat embarrassed about my love of anal play since my husband is not into it.
04/14/2012
Nope, nothing to be ashamed about
04/14/2012