Have you ever talked a lover into doing something they really didn't want to do at first?

Bignuf Bignuf
What was it? Did it work out for you? Did it work out for them? Did you "go there" ever again?

Tell us the story. Please share.
08/09/2013
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SaiDiscordia SaiDiscordia
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Originally posted by Bignuf
What was it? Did it work out for you? Did it work out for them? Did you "go there" ever again?

Tell us the story. Please share.
If you are talking about doing something that is a hard limit for them, no. If they have some to me and said that they wanted to "try" something that used to be a definite no, I will oblige. Now, soft limits? Those I try to push all the time. It is about being gentle, not hounding them on the issue, and to slowly introduce the activity with something perhaps less invasive. If you want to start doing some bondage play you are not going to put them on a St. Andrew's cross the first night! You start with something like bringing home some fuzzy cuffs from the gas station because it was funny they sold them there. One friend won a pair of metal cuff that kids play with from a pizza place and joked about it to her hubby only to later have him say that he was open to the idea when they got home. Be the neck, not the head of the relationship and you can turn the head any way you want.
08/12/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
This is a kind of repeat of another question - but here foes.

For 23+ years I have tried to convince my wife to have anal sex with me - and for about 10 years I've tried to get her to peg me.

This year has become a turning point for both. The surprising thing to me is that she would rather have anal sex than peg me.

Using the Liberator Wedge to raise her hips and using her Mystic Wand for clitoral 'enhancement' - she has become quite orgasmic during anal sex - so now we do it nearly every week.

We use the RodeoH panty harness and O2 Revolution dildo for pegging. She drops in her Mimi vibe behind the dildo - and gets pretty turned on from the experience. After I orgasm, she plops on her back begging for her favorite dildo - usually the Vixskin Johnny or Maverick.
08/12/2013
Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
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Originally posted by Bignuf
What was it? Did it work out for you? Did it work out for them? Did you "go there" ever again?

Tell us the story. Please share.
Did oral on my first girlfriend. She had never heard of it and was afraid, it worked out fine after I got her to just relax and enjoy it. Sometime later I convinced her to return the favor, that took some talking to get her to do it, it was my first time, and hers.
08/13/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
It took some time for him to convince me to peg him, but now I love it...maybe more than him! Lol!
09/08/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
This is a kind of repeat of another question - but here foes.

For 23+ years I have tried to convince my wife to have anal sex with me - and for about 10 years I've tried to get her to peg me.

This year has become a turning point for ... More
Sounds like you have it going on. It's all about never stopping to explore and have fun doing it. There is always something new and worth trying around the corner...together.
09/09/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by SecretKinksters
It took some time for him to convince me to peg him, but now I love it...maybe more than him! Lol!
Wow. That is a wild admission.
09/09/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Gr8pumpkin
Did oral on my first girlfriend. She had never heard of it and was afraid, it worked out fine after I got her to just relax and enjoy it. Sometime later I convinced her to return the favor, that took some talking to get her to do it, it was my first ... More
She had never heard of oral sex? In this day and age, that is pretty rare, I would think. A friend has a grade school child, in a private, very "upscale" school, in fact, and she came home the other day, wanting to know if "mommy gave good BJ's to daddy"!!!! This woman is a pediatric nurse with a long history of dealing with children. Handling that question was not an easy one for her...at all. Oh, and yes, this third grader was not just using the "term" BJ, she had gotten all the details down very correctly, at school. That is why it seems odd anyone of dating age would have never "heard of this".
09/09/2013
sexcandy12 sexcandy12
i had to talk my wife (girlfriend at the time) into pegging, she wasnt much into the thought of it, but once she agreed and we tried it. She fell in love nd enjoyed doing it, unfortunately out toy got lost in a recent move and havent been able to purchase a new one yet! but soon enough
10/06/2013
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