How do you share porn with your man?

LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
Or do you?
Some women love porn, others hate it. Still others can't reconcile the idea of their husbands watching porn as "not cheating."

Today's article is about one woman's use of porn to feed her husband's "psuedo" hunt-for-women desire without having to open her marriage to other women.

I know we have a full range of situations in our community, from monogamy to poly, to *insert your label here*

So what's your take on her methods? How have you used similar ideas or compromises to maintain a good sexual relationship with your mate?
02/19/2010
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Quote:
Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Or do you?
Some women love porn, others hate it. Still others can't reconcile the idea of their husbands watching porn as "not cheating."

Today's article is about one woman's use of porn to feed her husband's ... More
I love porn, and so does my husband. surprisingly though, we don't often share, even when our interests are very similar. He was raised to think porn is a big dirty shameful thing, where as i was raised by two of the most open people in the northern hemisphere. So we have 3 collections of porn, "me" porn, "him" porn and "us" porn. On a few occasions i've noticed he's borrowed some of "my" porn and i'll usurp his we just prefer to not view it together, we'd rather do it ourselves than watch other people
02/19/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Or do you?
Some women love porn, others hate it. Still others can't reconcile the idea of their husbands watching porn as "not cheating."

Today's article is about one woman's use of porn to feed her husband's ... More
WOW what a wonderful article! It's a great way to keep things fresh while exploring fantasies and desires, it's something both my guys love doing with me! We tried this, Sigel and I, but we couldn't make the sensations real enough to satisfy either of us. It did bring us closer together once we had worked on some of our issues to be able to see what turns the guys on, it's sometimes easier to show someone rather than describe it. I say if it makes you happy and feel secure in your relationship GO FOR IT!
02/19/2010
Sammi Sammi
We love porn, and probably watch too much of it .

We typically watch it together, unless one of us is trying to get a review finished. I never thought of it as cheating or a desire for other women on his part (or for other men on my part) - it's more the act I think we're interested in. We do actually like the same kinds of porn for the most part.
02/19/2010
Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
We enjoy porn, both together and solo, however our tastes differ a bit in that I enjoy feminist queer/ dyke porn and he prefers to watch porn with a male porn star also involved. He says it makes him feel more like he's not intruding on the whole scene if there's a male involved. He also says he feels in some way like he is disrespecting the women in my preferred choice for porn because he is male if he watches. Coincidentally he also hates mainstream porn because of the (usually) over-enhanced women and their perpetually bored expressions. I respect that and as such tend to watch my queer/ dyke porn solo. He will watch on his own as well, perfectly alright with me (I actually got him into porn, he hadn't really cared for anything he'd seen before I showed him some less mainstream stuff.)

When we watch together it is a porn directed by someone like Tristan Taormino who is usually a happy collision of our preferences.
02/20/2010
Illusional Illusional
I can't get my boyfriend to watch it with me.. he was raised the same way and he doesn't want me to see him get turned on by the actress while I'm there, but I honestly think I'd be okay with it... I'm not sure though. But I think if we were both turned on, it should turn out alright, right?
02/23/2010
Epiphora Epiphora
LOL. "My man" doesn't want my porn. He likes his porn to be amateur, shot from far away, or just in picture form. I like my porn raunchy, intense, close-up, and professional looking.
02/23/2010
Hannah Savage Hannah Savage
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Originally posted by Epiphora
LOL. "My man" doesn't want my porn. He likes his porn to be amateur, shot from far away, or just in picture form. I like my porn raunchy, intense, close-up, and professional looking.
Same here! I'm all about the close-ups. Not to mention that our interests in porn categories can differ quite a bit.
04/06/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I watch all sorts of porn and so does my man. However, we rarely watch porn together. If we do it is to get us both in the mood or I offered to blow him while he watches porn.

I don't feel our relationship is is threatened by porn. He watches his porn and I watch my porn but we never share with the other what we have watched. I am not ashamed of the type of pron I like but my man isn't as open as I and I am afraid to freak him out with the deep dark desires I have.
04/07/2010
Liz2 Liz2
Overall, I probably watch too much porn but I rarely watch it with my b/f but I do with my g/f. My b/f enjoys basic hetero porn with "plots", and alone. He knows that I watch porn(lesbian, BDSM, naked wrestling, girls solo and hetero w/o plots) while masturbating at my computer but doesn't feel threatened. He kids me about my porn breaks but is rarely interested in my stuff.
04/07/2010
TheSexista TheSexista
We watch it together, unless he is off at work. He works in another country so i will often pick up a new flick and mail it as a surprise. Then we will have phone sex while his mind is at play watching the movie. Other times he will do his own thing.

I enjoy porn also, but seem to enjoy girl on girl more than male & female.
08/25/2010
Alura Une Alura Une
We don't really watch porn, He or I. Occasionally I will get a little urge to look at something on the internet, but he doesn't really seem to like videos as much as some other material--but none of these things he has time for at all as fap material. We do look at erotic/pornographic manga (--Japanese comics) and similar art together, but not as a sexual activity. It is usually a random thing we do while sitting at a computer together. We do buy art books, and pornographic manga periodicals (some are as big as phone books!!), but these are more mine than his and for artistic inspiration or because of the contribution of a favorite artist. Years ago, I used to buy this stuff for myself and my significant other but this and that happened (long story) and it became forbidden. But I kept wanting to look at new stuff at conventions and so we started buying again. We have a weird relationship to it now. It's not exactly sexual. It's more comfortable for us to share and talk about that way. We have a great appreciation of the art of the Japanese pop culture approach to porn and erotic art.
08/28/2010
smartbabi92 smartbabi92
me and my boyfriend both watch porn. at first i didn't like it but then i realized that when we do watch it together, or when i catch him watching at it he's not gauking at it like other people do (no offense to them) and then when we watched it together he didn't even noticed it and he was in to me. We share it sometimes but he usually shares it with me more than I will share with him. he likes the nice surprise of me sending him some porn every once and a while :]
08/29/2010
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
We watch it together now and I find it erotic to listen to other people having sex, as long as it isn't the cheesy porn talk that usually happens in the low budget movies.
11/19/2010
ishareporn ishareporn
Quote:
Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Or do you?
Some women love porn, others hate it. Still others can't reconcile the idea of their husbands watching porn as "not cheating."

Today's article is about one woman's use of porn to feed her husband's ... More
Yes, I always share porn with any one and I use this tool link and everybody are horny like me.
05/18/2013
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