If you have a sexual fantasy about something, do you always feel the need to act it out, or do you prefer to keep fantasies as fantasies? Do you prefer to keep your fantasies to yourself, or do you like to share them with your sex partner?
How great is the separation between fantasy and reality?
06/28/2012
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My fantasies tend to be pretty vanilla, so I've almost always been able to act them out with a partner. Sometimes the partner didn't even know I was acting out a fantasy of mine.
06/28/2012
There are some that I would really like to try out, but I haven't gotten my husband on board yet. We've only done a couple things that would be considered acting out a fantasy. Would like to get more into it at some point.
06/28/2012
When the fantasies start taking over, you've got a problem.
06/28/2012
I share most of them with my partner and act quite a few of them out. Some fantasies I do not wish to make a reality.
06/28/2012
As wide as a Martian canyon ...
Never get to be with anyone long enough to be that comfortable with them. Though they always seem to demand to know mine.
Never get to be with anyone long enough to be that comfortable with them. Though they always seem to demand to know mine.
06/28/2012
We role play a lot of things, but we don't necessarily bring other people into it in a physical form. This is why our toy collection is so large!
06/28/2012
I only had one fantasy really that I could remember and it was about a car. I brought it up and it was totally worth it.
06/28/2012
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There are some I'd like to try but know they will never happen so it's a mix of both.
Originally posted by
cryinglightning86
If you have a sexual fantasy about something, do you always feel the need to act it out, or do you prefer to keep fantasies as fantasies? Do you prefer to keep your fantasies to yourself, or do you like to share them with your sex partner?
06/28/2012
Some of mine are great to be acted out and some will remain fantasies.
06/28/2012
Some fantasies (ex threesomes) I like to keep to myself, others I like to share with my wife all the time.
06/28/2012
It depends not only on the situation but on the fantasy itself. Even in a world without consequences, there are still some fantasies I wouldn't want to act out.
08/15/2012
Some fantasies aren't really meant to be acted out but we can still enjoy them in our minds.
08/16/2012
I keep them separate.
09/28/2012
Depends, most of the time I act but like when I comes to 3somes I dont.
09/28/2012
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sometimes it's not as good as it needs to be
Originally posted by
cryinglightning86
If you have a sexual fantasy about something, do you always feel the need to act it out, or do you prefer to keep fantasies as fantasies? Do you prefer to keep your fantasies to yourself, or do you like to share them with your sex partner?
10/01/2012
Sometimes the fantasy is so good that reality could never measure up to it.
10/01/2012
Most of the time I look for opportunities to act them out but some just wouldn't be practical so they will remain fantasies. I'm pretty open about sharing the details with partners tho!
10/01/2012
I definitely act out my fantasies with my boyfriend. I am sure there are some thoughts though that I've had and have not acted out, but some of them involve situations I cannot be in right now. For example, I'd like to make love on a small boat, and I cannot act that out just yet.
10/01/2012
I tell him my fantasies, but some are way too extreme or complicated to act out.
10/01/2012
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It depends on the situation. I have been working on fulfilling all of mine!
Originally posted by
cryinglightning86
If you have a sexual fantasy about something, do you always feel the need to act it out, or do you prefer to keep fantasies as fantasies? Do you prefer to keep your fantasies to yourself, or do you like to share them with your sex partner?
10/04/2012
Totally depends on the situation. Some I could like to fulfill. Some I am definitely okay leaving in the fantasy realm.
04/10/2013
Most of the time, I'm willing to act them out, but a few require situations that are unlikely in my current relationship (incompatible kinks, more people, etc).
04/15/2013
For the most part my fantasies are best left as fantasies.
04/29/2013
Most of my fantasies are something that I've no real interest in acting out.
05/05/2013
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