Has your husband/partner ever requested that you participate in a threesome with another woman?

Contributor: cnspots cnspots
I said yes but it is something I want to do anyway and never said anything until he brought it up.
01/03/2011
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
He was drunk and it was kinda just a silly idea for him. Though I'm pretty sure he would've gone through with it if I had agreed.
02/12/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
I answered yes, but it wasn't a verbal request. We just happened to be in the right place at the right time... I would jump at a verbal request, honestly, this is a major fantasy of mine!
02/22/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
...and I'd love a MMF as well, but for totally different reasons...
02/22/2011
Contributor: Shayna! Shayna!
said something about it but never requested
03/16/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
No I have suggested it though. Actively looking too!
09/10/2011
Contributor: Babylove09 Babylove09
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Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
Has your husband/partner ever requested that you participate in a threesome with another woman?
He recently asked i said no... I wont share him and when i brought up MMF he said no! So just being us 2 is totally fine with me.
11/13/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
Has your husband/partner ever requested that you participate in a threesome with another woman?
Nope.
11/13/2012
Contributor: subwayrailings subwayrailings
yeah but he was an asshole
11/15/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Well not really, as I was shut down as soon as she had a clue as to what I was asking. It was the old...you never know unless you ask.
11/15/2012
Contributor: loveme loveme
Yes, that's a fantasy of mine too. But the only way I would do it is if we traveled somewhere far and did it with someone we meet there. That way I know there's no chance of him seeing her again. But even then, it would be hard for me to handle seeing him do someone else.
11/15/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Yes lol
11/15/2012
Contributor: apryls apryls
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Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
Has your husband/partner ever requested that you participate in a threesome with another woman?
No, he didn't I did
11/15/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
Has your husband/partner ever requested that you participate in a threesome with another woman?
He knows that would be a serious no go. We both consider it cheating to have either of us with another partner, even if we are "there". Just a good fantasy with way too many ramifications if it really happened. Plus, I am solidly heterosexual, so my interest in another woman would be about minus zero.
11/15/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Madeira
I've had FFF three ways with my partner. I've only had MFF threesomes with someone I wasn't dating.
Wow. Too much for me to mentally sort out, let alone the emotions that might bring in.
11/15/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Sammi
If anything,he'd request it as MMF.
And he would not be jealous of seeing another man pleasure you? OR worse yet, you enjoying another man??? I think these things sound good, in theory, and blow up in real life. I have known two couples that "went there" and in both cases the end result, immediate or years later, were not pretty, or worth the three hours of thrills.
11/15/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
He's never asked....but I have
And he denied you?
11/15/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Yoda
I would never request this. I can't see it as anything but damaging in the long run.
Bingo.
11/15/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
He's talked about it and I was seriously pondering the idea for a while bcs I find women very sexy and I am very open minded but I value my relationship and I don't want to do something that could potentially screw it up.
I only know two couples who tried this and indeed, they "screwed it up" in the worse way. One relationship was destroyed in short order and the other went to divorce a few years later and in both cases, no question, the "threesomes" had a big part in the relationship damage.
11/15/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
no hes never asked but he would love to see me with another girl
Oh...as a fantasy, I bet any guy worth is hormones would love that visual. In reality it is another issue entirely. My hubby says that "sure...how cool would that be, but I understand that it would be as uncomfortable to you as it would be for me to be going down on another guy. As heterosexuals, it would be a huge turn off...even without the cheating aspect". Nope...no interest in doing this.
11/15/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
My partner has brought it up as one of her fantasies, but has never actually asked me to.
Some fantasy's are best kept as just that.
11/15/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
Yea, he's asked, and I've said I would with the right person... but it would be a FFM, not MFF if you know what I mean, lol...
We would never do it, and so neither of us would ask (he is right here next to me), but if I did agree to anything, it would only be another guy so I could experience the real feel of a guy in each hole at the same time. However, I know I would not want the real feelings that would entail, so it will always just be hubby in one end and a toy in the other (unless Real Doll comes up with a full action robot???!!!)
11/15/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Hell no, I'd leave him if he did. Thank god he doesn't like sharing as much as me and wouldn't want to do this. He is one of the rare guys who does consider girl on girl as cheating. I think this too.
I don't think he is rare in that, LaUre3n. We brought this very issue up at our Friday Night Dinner Group talk once and interestingly, all members there....twenty six (thirteen couples) thought that any three way was cheating. Period. No question, no grey zones.
11/15/2012
Contributor: Fun2 Fun2
I've never asked her that, but I would be OK with it . I would be OK with the other way around though to.
02/17/2013
Contributor: souviet souviet
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Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
Has your husband/partner ever requested that you participate in a threesome with another woman?
No.
02/17/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
One of my exes did.. I definitely said NOPE. I actually get offended being asked that question.
02/17/2013
Contributor: ImaGodiva ImaGodiva
I wouldn't ask either.
02/17/2013
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
nah, if anything, it's more likely to be a guy than a girl.
02/17/2013
Contributor: Andrey2052 Andrey2052
Yes
02/17/2013
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
couldnt see him ever asking that
02/17/2013