Is watching your partner masturbate a turn on for you?

Contributor: Daemonin Daemonin
He loves hearing about when I do it and likes to watch and vice versa.
12/16/2011
Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee
I do love to watch her but I'm usually already started with my vibrator. It always ends in her fucking me
12/16/2011
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I always watch her masturbate, all the time
12/16/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
My husband says it turns him on that he knows that I masturbate on the nights he is at work, and he LOVES watching me do it too. And it goes both ways for us. What about you?
Neither of us has every watched the other do ANYTHING without jumping in to participate. Maybe for a second or two as a tease...but that is all it takes. On a weekend morning, sitting on the sofa, reading the paper, I might hike my leg up, opening my short nighty and, put a finger down that, but that is about all I could do before he will jump my bones!!!! HIS finger, or tongue or whatever, will be there in under a minute, no questions asked.
12/17/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Ghost
I love to watch!
Interesting. We have just never done that. All he has to do is touch himself and I am IN HIS PANTS. All I have to do is hike up my skirt or open my nighty or rub my crotch though my jeans and he is in there like a flash!!! I don't think either of us has thought to just sit there and not participate.
12/17/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I would absolutely love to watch - but she will not do it.
Oh my, I would do that for my hubby in a heartbeat...but as I said, the chance never happens. I reach down there and it is an invitation for him to JUMP RIGHT IN...which HE does and I LIKE. I guess if he were tied up and couldn't???? Hummm......there's a thought.
12/17/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by ConnerJay
Absolutely I love to watch. I have a real hard time being watched when my partner is in the room...I tend to be needy and request assistance. Haha
Toooooo funny. I NEVER have to "request"!!!!
12/17/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by MstrSlvCouple
My husband loves to watch me play with myself and my breasts and make myself cum. On the other hand, no pun intended, I do not really like watching him do it.
WOW that is an interesting dynamic.
12/17/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Moein
Why does my wife masturbate while I set beside her !!!

We haven't tried it before, but I think it is just waste of time and not fun.
I think we both feel the way you do. WHY play alone if we are BOTH right there???? We don't get it.
12/17/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Daemonin
He loves hearing about when I do it and likes to watch and vice versa.
If he is not home and I call him and say, "I'm putting in a nice, metal plug, with lots of lube, so I will be ready when you get here".....well, he ain't out late shopping that night, I can tell you. Yes, he likes hearing what I am doing, but only if we are apart.
12/17/2011
Contributor: STM STM
I love watching my hubby masturbate it is such a turn on. I also love catching my hubby off guard and masturbating in front of him.
12/18/2011
Contributor: Nazaress Nazaress
I like watching my boyfriend and he LOVES watching me.
12/18/2011
Contributor: cectru cectru
My fantasy is catching my partner watching porn and masturbating. Then continue watching him masturbate. Then maybe finish off with some couple play.
01/07/2012
Contributor: CrystaCat CrystaCat
I don't when my hubby is around when he is there I make him work! He says he doesn't masterbate when I ain't there, but I know it's a lie! He works in the oil field and h is gone seven days at a time! It sucks.
01/07/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I love watching her masturbate. Oh yes.
01/07/2012
Contributor: Lover of Leather Lover of Leather
It's a definite turn on, no doubt about it.
01/07/2012
Contributor: Red Riding Hood Red Riding Hood
I think masturbation in general is a beautiful thing. I love the idea of my partner pleasing themselves. The act is incredibly sexy and of course, I look at each and every detail of the deed. It's not just about seeing some guy jerk his cock or some girl finger herself. Seeing them get lost in pleasure and learning what they like is an awesome experience.
01/09/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I'd like to watch him sometime but he wont do it
01/12/2012
Contributor: SugarAndSpice SugarAndSpice
It's a turn on for me to watch him
01/12/2012
Contributor: Sir Sir
Sometimes it is good, sometimes it isn't. I prefer to have them do that for me when I instruct it. I do not really appreciate when they yearn for it, I prefer to give them the command.
01/13/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I'd rather play together
01/13/2012
Contributor: OroNomi OroNomi
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
My husband says it turns him on that he knows that I masturbate on the nights he is at work, and he LOVES watching me do it too. And it goes both ways for us. What about you?
This pretty much sums up our relationship when it comes to this matter. Aaaahhhhhhh.... Good times!
01/13/2012
Contributor: oopsy oopsy
Love watching!! I like sending dirty texts/pictures in hopes that it will inspire just this!
01/13/2012
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
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Originally posted by married with children
I find it a turn on.
Same here!
01/14/2012
Contributor: Lolitalia Lolitalia
Oh yes very much so.
01/15/2012
Contributor: NicNat NicNat
Whst turns me on the most is when he uses me to masterbate..
Like when he gets off work late and I'm already asleep, When he is masterbating his dick is always spaking against my ass.. I have woken up soo many times from it and it just gets me going for some reason .(:
01/16/2012
Contributor: Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
Love 2 watch.
01/16/2012
Contributor: Lover of Leather Lover of Leather
Quote:
Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
My husband says it turns him on that he knows that I masturbate on the nights he is at work, and he LOVES watching me do it too. And it goes both ways for us. What about you?
I love to watch, a major turn on.
01/18/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
An other option would be good. I am a female, and it depends.
01/18/2012
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
I had an ex who actually laughed at me for masturbating, and not in a nice way. He was low libido, and I think he had internalized at some point in his life that girls weren't supposed to like sex.

But me and my now-bf take great pleasure in watching or performing for one another.
01/18/2012