My Fantasies...

Contributor: Samanti Samanti
Ever since I was younger, I always loved the Dominance and the the Bondage and all that fun BDSM stuff... I always thought I was just too kinky and I was always afraid to tell anyone, until I met my husband. I have told him ALL of my fantasies, and we have enjoyed and explored almost all of them. I have now realized that this is something that was necessary for me to actually enjoy my sexual life. I lost my virginity at 14 and I hated sex until I met my husband and we tried some Samanti Fantasy Time. Has this happened to anyone else? I think that honesty and extra time can really create a strong sexual and emotional balance in a relationship. What about everyone else?
07/17/2010
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Contributor: trios trios
Quote:
Originally posted by Samanti
Ever since I was younger, I always loved the Dominance and the the Bondage and all that fun BDSM stuff... I always thought I was just too kinky and I was always afraid to tell anyone, until I met my husband. I have told him ALL of my fantasies, and ... more
Yes!

My wife and I have been married for 7 years and we just had baby #3.

Now that I am getting older, I feel that anything not addressed earlier in our lives needs to now, or else time will slip away.

I recently wrote my wife a letter explaining why I have been into the fantasy of MFM threesomes, and what turns me on. This was due to complicated emotional occurances when she didn't understand exactly why I felt the way I did. Anyhoo, writing a letter to her helped me to express myself safely honestly and to make sure I included every item that I wanted to get in, and then we discussed after.

In writing about my own turn ons and reasons why, I realized that I had been neglecting her turn ons, which included spanking, BDSM, etc! Now she is more than okay, but happy to indulge in MFM threesome fantasies in the bedroom with dildos and I am researching how to be a good dominator.

It think that it is a blessing to be able to realize the need for communication, and to successfully come to an understanding with each other. "better late than never" is so true!
07/18/2010
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
Quote:
Originally posted by Samanti
Ever since I was younger, I always loved the Dominance and the the Bondage and all that fun BDSM stuff... I always thought I was just too kinky and I was always afraid to tell anyone, until I met my husband. I have told him ALL of my fantasies, and ... more
I fully agree. I too hid most of my fantasies from past boyfriends. I thought for a long time that there was something wrong with me, and that I was some kind of deviant. But I met my fiancée, and after actually opening up not only did I learn that he had the same tastes in bed that I did. Our entire relationship as a whole became more solid.
08/01/2010
Contributor: Tim 46311 Tim 46311
Quote:
Originally posted by trios
Yes!

My wife and I have been married for 7 years and we just had baby #3.

Now that I am getting older, I feel that anything not addressed earlier in our lives needs to now, or else time will slip away.

I recently wrote my wife a ... more
I like this keeping both your fantasies in mind.
01/01/2011