Secret fantasy?

Isreah Isreah
Do you have a sexual fantasy that you are too embarrassed or afraid to tell your significant other?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
145  (55%)
No
110  (42%)
Other (Explain)
7  (3%)
Total votes: 262
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01/18/2011
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Alura Une Alura Une
My partner is my best friend and I share almost everything with him. But there are some fantasies I would rather keep to myself.
01/18/2011
liilii080 liilii080
I have a few that I keep tucked away. I plan to tell him about them someday but for now, I enjoy them by myself.
01/18/2011
hive83 hive83
Quote:
Originally posted by Isreah
Do you have a sexual fantasy that you are too embarrassed or afraid to tell your significant other?
Years ago not any more , but i have to say it took over 20 years to realize this.
01/18/2011
Oxygen99 Oxygen99
Not really. Talking about our fantasies in fun. It's a turn on for both of us.
01/18/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I tell him everything but we never try more than the traditional stuff, I wish he would jump out of his comfort zone more often.
01/18/2011
Vaccinium Vaccinium
I'm totally open and honest with my wife about my fantasies. It's not true the other way around, though.
01/19/2011
KnK KnK
I think some things are better kept as fantasy. Some of my fantasies actually weird me out a little (sounds unhealthy, right?).
01/19/2011
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Some fantasies are too physically challenging anyway)
01/19/2011
Envy Envy
Yep, I keep a few to myself, and I'm sure he does the same.
01/19/2011
sweet seduction sweet seduction
I tell my hubby everything.
01/19/2011
Isreah Isreah
I wish that I could tell my significant other all of my fantasies, but some of them are considered very taboo or "wrong".
01/20/2011
vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
Not really anymore. I'm pretty vanilla, but I've finally worked up the nerve to bring up some of my other ideas.
01/20/2011
Eliza Eliza
Hah, I'm so boring. I really don't have a lot of fantasies, or at least what I would consider a fantasy. Typically, if there's something I want to do I have no problem telling her.
01/20/2011
IrishLassie IrishLassie
Yes i have a couple of fantasies that I havent told the hubs. He is my best friend and he is always telling me that I can tell him all my naughty fantasies or secrets, but I dont know its hard...I suppose one day I will tell him. We have several years yet.
01/20/2011
Waterfall Waterfall
I have lots of fantasies and I'm pretty sure my partners usually know them. Although I am usually quiet about my fantasies about a threesome with us and another guy, not sure why.
01/20/2011
guy4guyz420 guy4guyz420
too scared to even say
01/23/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Alura Une
My partner is my best friend and I share almost everything with him. But there are some fantasies I would rather keep to myself.
Ditto - they are fantasies for a reason. Some are just mental images that go beyond what your willing to do physically - like a 3-some in a secure monogamous relationship.
01/24/2011
Epicurean Epicurean
I have some that I keep to myself, not necessarily because I wouldn't trust a partner with them (although they are pretty...alternative), but more because it's fun to have some areas of my sex life that are "just for me"!
01/25/2011
CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
If I reveiled all of my fantasies to my wife, I'm not totally sure we would still be married. My wife is awsome, but a little too conservative to get too kinky. Maybe one day.
01/25/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I'm an open book
01/28/2011
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I have a few that I keep to myself because if I told her then they wouldn't be a "secret fantasy" anymore would they?
01/29/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
I keep most to myself now. I would love to share them with Hubby but I already tried one fantasy with him and it went very badly so...yeah I'll keep em to myself where they won't be destroyed by reality.
02/01/2011
indiglo indiglo
No, I've already told him. And some of them were fairly embarrassing and/or weird (to me, anyway). But he wasn't bothered by them in the slightest.
02/01/2011
markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by Isreah
Do you have a sexual fantasy that you are too embarrassed or afraid to tell your significant other?
I'm open with my wife and since all of them concern her, I don't have a problem.
02/01/2011
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
My husband and me talk about all our fantasies. He may have one I don't know about (I can't speak for him) but I definitely have no fantasy secrets from him.
02/01/2011
MeliPixie MeliPixie
I have a couple fantasies I feel I can't share. It's not like I'm afraid of what my boyfriend will say... It's just difficult for me to express myself, especially when I fear that what I say might be construed as asking for whatever my fantasy might be. And it's not like he's not willing to do what I want! I just have trouble asking :/
02/01/2011
Choolz Choolz
I have a bunch. None that my husband knows of. I know it's annoying and plain lame but he gets all insecure about it. If I were to tell him about a guy in a fantasy he'd start bugging about how I probably want him and blah blah blah. I just play it out in my mind during sex, still works for me.
02/01/2011
Mr. E Mr. E
We share all of our fantasies.
It is a valuable part of our playtime together.
02/07/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Isreah
Do you have a sexual fantasy that you are too embarrassed or afraid to tell your significant other?
I used to hide my fantasies because they are very violent and borderline illegal but since developing my relationship with both guys I can tell them anything without worrying that they will try to make them come true or that they will be too weirded out.
02/07/2011
Total posts: 99
Unique posters: 97