What sexual fantasy do you think is over rated and over used?

Hm. I'll never get sick of seeing facials. Or feeling them. I mean, if it's something you love, you're not going to get tired of it. Does PIV get overused? That's in almost everything, too... because so many people like it.

I guess, if I'm going to be hypocritical, I feel like bondage gets overused in terms of people acting like that's an end-all-be-all kinky thing. Not so much as in porn, but as in people saying "Ohhh, my new fuck buddy let me tie her up, she's *so* kinky." Not that there's anything wrong with it, I like being tied up as much as (but probably not more than) the average person, but it's possible for sex to be exciting and new without bondage, and it seems like people overlook that sometimes. That's just my thought. There are people for whom bondage *is* all that and a bag of chips, and that's cool too.

Maybe, what I mean more specifically, is how everyone equates bondage and kinky. Like if I tell a new acquaintance "I like sex a little off the beaten path," probably 60% of the time I'll hear "oh, so you want to be tied up / tie me up?" as a response. And, well, sure, but I can be content with or without bondage. There are other kinks that don't involve rope.

This pudding of which you speak: is it chocolate? Because that's the only way I'm going to get in on this.

More on topic, I suppose the only fantasy that annoys me in its frequency is the down-talking that occurs a lot in bondage porn (even in bondage which doesn't involve hitting, which is what I prefer). I find the idea of being tied up to be a turn-on, but not the thought of being talked down to while it's happening. But I'm not really going to complain, since I can always turn the sound down.

I think I always watch porn with the sound down... Is that even the case in the really pretty fancy suspension bondage scenes? In those it seems more like they're making art and less like they want to humiliate the subject. (I'm not a big humiliation fan myself.)

I'm not sure about the fancier bondage scenes. I suppose it's my own fault for not sifting further, really. I have seen a few bondage scenes that didn't involve humiliation, and they were WAY hotter than what I normally run into.