Only have been with him so don't want any others. Unless of course he insisted on Tom Brady, which he despises, so no.
Would you / Have you ever had sex with another man at the request of your husband/partner?
04/16/2011
I haven't, but this is a big fantasy of my boyfriend's and someday in the distant future I can definitely see us exploring it in real life. For now it's just very sexy to talk about
04/16/2011
My guy would never ask me to do this. He's possessive. If it ever came up I'd feel like I'd done something incredibly wrong to upset him.
For me sex is still a huge deal. I have little experience and I don't think I could treat it that casually. I mean I haven't even spent the night with a guy yet (I've been freaking out about that, my guy wants me to live in the hotel with him for his coming visit).
I might do a threesome, but even then it'd take a LOT of reassurance and encouraging I think. But just going and having sex with someone else? I just couldn't do that.
For me sex is still a huge deal. I have little experience and I don't think I could treat it that casually. I mean I haven't even spent the night with a guy yet (I've been freaking out about that, my guy wants me to live in the hotel with him for his coming visit).
I might do a threesome, but even then it'd take a LOT of reassurance and encouraging I think. But just going and having sex with someone else? I just couldn't do that.
04/17/2011
i cant stand the idea, its just gross.
05/02/2011
I wouldn't mind sharing another woman with my partner.
05/06/2011
That's definitely something high up on the list of things my husband would never say. And even if he did I would still never do it. I don't want to be shared.
05/06/2011
no no no.
05/06/2011
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Right the fuck on.
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
I'll give this a big FUCK no. I'd leave a guy if he requested that. I want a guy who wants me all to himself and would fight for me if that was threatened-not give me away...lol.
05/06/2011
I have not tried this, as my hubby has not asked me too, but if he did I would
06/05/2011
I doubt that situation would ever arise in my case, so I answered no.
06/05/2011
i wouldn't...want him and only him just not for me
06/05/2011
No haven't but would consider it
06/06/2011
My husband would never, never ask me. However, if he did, I would probably do it. Especially if he was watching. Of course, it would have to be someone that I found attractive and who would understand all the emotional issues. Come to think about it, it would really be hard to find a man who could fit that bill.
06/07/2011
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Exactly what I was thinking! lol
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
I'll give this a big FUCK no. I'd leave a guy if he requested that. I want a guy who wants me all to himself and would fight for me if that was threatened-not give me away...lol.
By the way Lauren, I love the new hair color!
06/09/2011
My partner would NEVER! If he did, I'd kick his ass and get rid of him asap. That shit does not work with me!
06/09/2011
Although he probably won't, I definitely would.
09/16/2011
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In our case my husband and I are already in a sexually open marriage so yes. But the typical way it would go is if I was attracted to some guy or eyeing him my husband would say "You can if you want to baby". And yes I have a number of times and had a wonderful fantastic time. I can play with him in a mfm, in front of him in a m-f or away on my own. My husband is not at all jealous about sex - only about love and our time together.
Originally posted by
butterflygirlxo
Would you / Have you ever had sex with another man at the request of your husband/partner?
09/19/2011
No, I'm demisexual. He's the only man who's ever revved my engine, and I'm pretty sure random sex would break something in me psychologically, if not physically (penetration when you're not aroused is really un-fun.)
He'd never ask, though. He might ask one day if we can date a third, or I might ask if we can, we'd be open to that possibility but that wouldn't be "at his request".
He'd never ask, though. He might ask one day if we can date a third, or I might ask if we can, we'd be open to that possibility but that wouldn't be "at his request".
09/19/2011
I don't think I could do it..
10/09/2011
I voted "Yes" even though I would have preferred an "Other" option. I would depend on his movtives.
02/10/2012
Not necessarily the best planned course of action.
02/10/2012
have not, would not. and vice versa.
02/10/2012
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I agree!
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
I'll give this a big FUCK no. I'd leave a guy if he requested that. I want a guy who wants me all to himself and would fight for me if that was threatened-not give me away...lol.
02/11/2012
No way. He would never ask and I'd never do it
02/11/2012
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HELL no.
Originally posted by
butterflygirlxo
Would you / Have you ever had sex with another man at the request of your husband/partner?
02/11/2012
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So true.
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
I'll give this a big FUCK no. I'd leave a guy if he requested that. I want a guy who wants me all to himself and would fight for me if that was threatened-not give me away...lol.
02/12/2012
I'm the partner who wants to add another man to our sex life. He's let me know he's open to it, but it has to be the right person.
02/12/2012
I'd have to say no on many levels. First, our religion forbids sexual relationships outside of marriage, and I submit to that as part of my faith. Second, my husband would never, ever ask...after over 8 years together, he is just now okay with trying a vibrator, so I think other partners would be too much for him. Third, I don't think I'd enjoy myself with someone else. I have a super high sex drive and am the adventurous one in our relationship, but I only feel safe sharing my fantasies, wants,and needs with my husband. I'd be really self-conscious with anyone else.
That said, I think swinging and poly-amorous relationships work from some people, but it takes both (or all) people involved a tremendous amount of communication and trust.
That said, I think swinging and poly-amorous relationships work from some people, but it takes both (or all) people involved a tremendous amount of communication and trust.
02/12/2012
probably not
02/13/2012
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I have told my bf before, but I have always had a fantasy where he joins and or/or watches me with someone else. Guy or girl.
Originally posted by
butterflygirlxo
Would you / Have you ever had sex with another man at the request of your husband/partner?
It's a terrible thing to fantasize about, but I can't help it. I haven't done it or tried
02/13/2012