Would you leave your partner if you considered one of their major sexual fantasies "weird"?

Would you leave your partner if you considered one of their major sexual fantasies "weird"?

LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Yes
1  (1%)
No, I'd fulfill it with a smile
20  (12%)
No, but we'd compromise somehow
119  (74%)
Other
21  (13%)
Total votes: 161
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02/24/2011
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SexyStuff SexyStuff
I guess whether I would fulfill it or not depends on how weird is weird. But I wouldn't leave him, fantasies are fantasies.
02/24/2011
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I'm a fairly open person and I do try to attempt everything at least once. I'm more than willing on just about everything actually, considering that our likes and dislikes match up fairly up well.
02/24/2011
Linga Linga
Unless it was one of my hard limits I would try it for my partner, chances are that I would end up liking it because my partner likes it but if I didn't and that wasn't respected then yes, I guess it would possibly become a big enough problem.
02/24/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm open minded so I would at least try it.
For me, the guys I go for usually have the same sort of fantasies or likes so I don't see any problems.
02/24/2011
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
"Weird" implies too much. I'm sure I could think of a few that I find weird, silly, etc. But they don't gross me out, so no I would not leave. It really depends. It also would depend on that persons wants. If they insisted we do this fantasy I might try (as long as it was not illegal) and if I could not handle it, then I would leave.
02/24/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by SexyStuff
I guess whether I would fulfill it or not depends on how weird is weird. But I wouldn't leave him, fantasies are fantasies.
I agree completely.
02/24/2011
Red Riding Hood Red Riding Hood
It all depends on if the fetish is a hard limit or not.
02/24/2011
sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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No I would try to find a way to work with it as long as it wasnt too strange and then we would figure a way to work around it
02/24/2011
Liz2 Liz2
I would certainly talk about it, sometimes initially, what seems weird actually isn't.
02/24/2011
toxie m toxie m
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Originally posted by Liz2
I would certainly talk about it, sometimes initially, what seems weird actually isn't.
I agree. A lot of the time a bit of open conversation will help shed some light on initially forbidding issues. I've ended up really enjoying some things that I never thought I'd be into before I took the time to talk it out and understand it.
02/24/2011
Yoda Yoda
A person isn't defined by one weird fantasy.
02/24/2011
clp clp
It would depend on how much this 'weird' fantasy bothered me or disrupted the relationship. I consider myself pretty open-minded, but know better to say that there is no fetish/fantasy too extreme for me to want involvement.
02/24/2011
married with children married with children
no way, I would try my best to fulfill it
02/24/2011
Red Riding Hood Red Riding Hood
I wouldn't leave them at all. I'd leave them if they really tried to pressure me into doing something I was dead-set against doing. I guess that helps clarify my side a bit better.
02/25/2011
joja joja
I wouldn't leave them, but I wouldn't let myself be pressured into doing something I'm not interested in, either.
02/25/2011
Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
It really depends what it is.
02/25/2011
zeebot zeebot
It depends. If I'm not super into it but not freaked out by it, I'd probably try and do it anyway. If it was something super weird I wasn't comfortable with, I'd be ok with it so long as it stayed a fantasy.
02/25/2011
HoneyHoney HoneyHoney
Depends on how extreme. I would never do agree to anything that would harm my body in any way.
02/25/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
It really depends on the situation. I'll try almost anything once but I have my limits.
02/28/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
Depends, if its to weird then no not going to happen
03/04/2011
LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
He has considered many of my fantasies "weird". I recognize and respect that they are not within his comfort zone and just let it go, and I know he would do the same for me.
03/04/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
It really depends. Luckily I don't have this to worry about, but I could definitely see myself leaving if it was something that I could never bring myself to do and he was insistent.
03/04/2011
CSEA CSEA
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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we'd work together and make a compromise
03/04/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
It really depends. Luckily I don't have this to worry about, but I could definitely see myself leaving if it was something that I could never bring myself to do and he was insistent.
I should say, "insistent to the point of giving me an ultimatum... like, 'do this or we're over'" Ummm... see ya! But like I said, there is little to no chance of that happening.
03/04/2011
indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by joja
I wouldn't leave them, but I wouldn't let myself be pressured into doing something I'm not interested in, either.
Yeah, same here. It would definitely depend on how "weird" weird was. I wouldn't just pack up and leave though, that's for sure! If it wasn't something I'm dead set against, I'd probably even give it a try.
03/04/2011
TumorCrunch TumorCrunch
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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no such thing as weird. just different.
03/12/2011
Crystal1 Crystal1
If it was just "weird" (say, "I like the idea of pretending I'm a squirrel!") then no, I wouldn't leave them. If it was creepy, however (ie something involving children), I would have a hard time seeing them the same way.
03/12/2011
Vaccinium Vaccinium
It would take a fantasy that required felonies to be committed for me not to fulfill it.
03/12/2011
jankit jankit
Weird fetishes/fantasies are okay so long as they are not hurtful or exploitative. We'll work it out... but I might laugh. (I just can't take sex seriously.)
03/12/2011
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Unique posters: 86