Would you leave your partner if you considered one of their major sexual fantasies "weird"?

LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Poll below
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
1  (1%)
No, I'd fulfill it with a smile
20  (12%)
No, but we'd compromise somehow
119  (74%)
Other
21  (13%)
Total votes: 161
Poll is closed
02/24/2011
  • Save 40% on Vibrators
  • Save 60% on 3 Toy Set
  • Get 3 holiday gifts for just $15
  • Get ready for  holidays. Get 3 toys for $30. Mix and Match!
  • Get 3 amazing toys for $60 only
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
SexyStuff SexyStuff
I guess whether I would fulfill it or not depends on how weird is weird. But I wouldn't leave him, fantasies are fantasies.
02/24/2011
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I'm a fairly open person and I do try to attempt everything at least once. I'm more than willing on just about everything actually, considering that our likes and dislikes match up fairly up well.
02/24/2011
Linga Linga
Unless it was one of my hard limits I would try it for my partner, chances are that I would end up liking it because my partner likes it but if I didn't and that wasn't respected then yes, I guess it would possibly become a big enough problem.
02/24/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm open minded so I would at least try it.
For me, the guys I go for usually have the same sort of fantasies or likes so I don't see any problems.
02/24/2011
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
"Weird" implies too much. I'm sure I could think of a few that I find weird, silly, etc. But they don't gross me out, so no I would not leave. It really depends. It also would depend on that persons wants. If they insisted we do this fantasy I might try (as long as it was not illegal) and if I could not handle it, then I would leave.
02/24/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyStuff
I guess whether I would fulfill it or not depends on how weird is weird. But I wouldn't leave him, fantasies are fantasies.
I agree completely.
02/24/2011
Red Riding Hood Red Riding Hood
It all depends on if the fetish is a hard limit or not.
02/24/2011
sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Poll below
No I would try to find a way to work with it as long as it wasnt too strange and then we would figure a way to work around it
02/24/2011
Liz2 Liz2
I would certainly talk about it, sometimes initially, what seems weird actually isn't.
02/24/2011
toxie m toxie m
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
I would certainly talk about it, sometimes initially, what seems weird actually isn't.
I agree. A lot of the time a bit of open conversation will help shed some light on initially forbidding issues. I've ended up really enjoying some things that I never thought I'd be into before I took the time to talk it out and understand it.
02/24/2011
Yoda Yoda
A person isn't defined by one weird fantasy.
02/24/2011
clp clp
It would depend on how much this 'weird' fantasy bothered me or disrupted the relationship. I consider myself pretty open-minded, but know better to say that there is no fetish/fantasy too extreme for me to want involvement.
02/24/2011
married with children married with children
no way, I would try my best to fulfill it
02/24/2011
Red Riding Hood Red Riding Hood
I wouldn't leave them at all. I'd leave them if they really tried to pressure me into doing something I was dead-set against doing. I guess that helps clarify my side a bit better.
02/25/2011
joja joja
I wouldn't leave them, but I wouldn't let myself be pressured into doing something I'm not interested in, either.
02/25/2011
Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
It really depends what it is.
02/25/2011
zeebot zeebot
It depends. If I'm not super into it but not freaked out by it, I'd probably try and do it anyway. If it was something super weird I wasn't comfortable with, I'd be ok with it so long as it stayed a fantasy.
02/25/2011
HoneyHoney HoneyHoney
Depends on how extreme. I would never do agree to anything that would harm my body in any way.
02/25/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
It really depends on the situation. I'll try almost anything once but I have my limits.
02/28/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
Depends, if its to weird then no not going to happen
03/04/2011
LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
He has considered many of my fantasies "weird". I recognize and respect that they are not within his comfort zone and just let it go, and I know he would do the same for me.
03/04/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
It really depends. Luckily I don't have this to worry about, but I could definitely see myself leaving if it was something that I could never bring myself to do and he was insistent.
03/04/2011
CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Poll below
we'd work together and make a compromise
03/04/2011
BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
It really depends. Luckily I don't have this to worry about, but I could definitely see myself leaving if it was something that I could never bring myself to do and he was insistent.
I should say, "insistent to the point of giving me an ultimatum... like, 'do this or we're over'" Ummm... see ya! But like I said, there is little to no chance of that happening.
03/04/2011
indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by joja
I wouldn't leave them, but I wouldn't let myself be pressured into doing something I'm not interested in, either.
Yeah, same here. It would definitely depend on how "weird" weird was. I wouldn't just pack up and leave though, that's for sure! If it wasn't something I'm dead set against, I'd probably even give it a try.
03/04/2011
TumorCrunch TumorCrunch
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Poll below
no such thing as weird. just different.
03/12/2011
Crystal1 Crystal1
If it was just "weird" (say, "I like the idea of pretending I'm a squirrel!") then no, I wouldn't leave them. If it was creepy, however (ie something involving children), I would have a hard time seeing them the same way.
03/12/2011
Vaccinium Vaccinium
It would take a fantasy that required felonies to be committed for me not to fulfill it.
03/12/2011
jankit jankit
Weird fetishes/fantasies are okay so long as they are not hurtful or exploitative. We'll work it out... but I might laugh. (I just can't take sex seriously.)
03/12/2011
Total posts: 88
Unique posters: 86