Are you happy with your sex life?

Contributor: Spilock Spilock
I'm definitely happy with our sex life. The standard sex acts usually work out well for us, not to mention the additions that toys have and will continue to bring. Good relationship on top of that.
04/13/2011
Contributor: FREE MR PERRY FREE MR PERRY
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Originally posted by dragons
With the way things are now in your marriage?
Loving it and hopefully spice things up more with edenfantasys
04/14/2011
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
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Originally posted by dragons
With the way things are now in your marriage?
Want more...
04/15/2011
Contributor: ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
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Originally posted by dragons
With the way things are now in your marriage?
i wish i would be able to have sex more...but other than that yes
04/15/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
He: Thanks to this website!

She: Sometimes I don't get in the mood for a while, but it's seriously been getting good lately
04/15/2011
Contributor: KennyMister KennyMister
very much so
04/25/2011
Contributor: DancerLove DancerLove
I am EXTREMELY HAPPY with my sex life now!! We had a rough start with some issues, but not it is amazing and couldn't ask for more.
04/26/2011
Contributor: Howells Howells
Not married but I need sex more often.
05/03/2011
Contributor: Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
Yes, but I wish we were together.
LDR
05/03/2011
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
mostly
05/03/2011
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
I voted yes, but it's provisional - things have really picked up recently, but for the last few years there have been more bad days than good.
05/08/2011
Contributor: mr conflicted mr conflicted
I voted no and thought I would ask for advice. My partner is not one to think of herself as attractive or very "sensual." I think she is and tell her so. Recently, our frequency has dropped to one per week and always on the same night. Now, there are no kids to deal with and while I understand one can be tired/not in the mood at times, the frequency is less than optimal.

Now, I am not thinking twice a day is what I want, but twice a week would be nice. Whenever we talk about this, the conversation is difficult for me. She is the victim of abuse and so I try to be really careful not to say anything that could be hurtful or make her think that I just want to scratch an itch. She tends to shut down when we talk about this and then so do I.

Recently the issue came up when she told me late on the "night of" that oh by the way, we can't tonight due to a heath issue. Now, health issues are perfectly legit reasons NOT to and i am not vexed at that. It is the offhanded way it was announced and the reality of it is that it will be at least a week before the next opportunity comes up. When I pointed that out it was taken the wrong way...

Anyway, have any of you had a similar issue? What things could I do to improve the mood level? We are not young but are both fit, no disease issues, etc. Popping in a dvd or a special "outfit" are right out, sooooo...

Your insight would be helpful
06/06/2011
Contributor: AlaskanBeauty AlaskanBeauty
Totally unhappy...
06/07/2011
Contributor: big b big b
most of the time
06/07/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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Originally posted by dragons
With the way things are now in your marriage?
heckyeah im happy with it im proud of my sex life
06/09/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
I'm very happy, but you know things could ALWAYS get better.
06/10/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee and I have an amazing sex life!
06/10/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by dragons
With the way things are now in your marriage?
I am loving our sex life now! Not too bad after 21 years, eh?
06/10/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
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Originally posted by dragons
With the way things are now in your marriage?
Ours has improved 100% over the past 2 years, when we "re-discovered' each other along with learning to play with toys. After almost 24 years of marriage its better than it has ever been.
06/10/2011
Contributor: shentel shentel
No I'm not happy with our sex life but that's what toys are for.
06/10/2011
Contributor: MN58 MN58
more than happy
06/10/2011
Contributor: pixieluv pixieluv
it's okay, but could be better
06/10/2011
Contributor: [Red] [Red]
I'm extremely excited about our sex life currently. We've confided some mutually satisfying interests and I'm eager to sink my teeth into them.
06/10/2011
Contributor: jc123 jc123
Our sex life has gotten a lot more vanilla the longer we've been together, but... things are good.
06/10/2011
Contributor: extrafun extrafun
I voted no, not because I dont like sex with my wife, because I do luv sex with my wife, I just feel like things have really fallen off a lot and that my sex drive is much higher than hers. Im also a lot more open to trying new things. Im still ok with where we are at put I would mind if things got spiced up a little
06/15/2011
Contributor: N&M N&M
I love the sex, wish it was more frequent. With kids and all, it seems to get put on the back burner
08/04/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
My sex life sucks right now, but that is because my fiancee has been pretty sick for a while. BUT I will say that I think we've grown sexually and emotionally because of having to deal with her illness.
08/04/2011
Contributor: Bry & Jenn Bry & Jenn
Very happy we make sure we keep it fun......
08/26/2011
Contributor: domsub1993 domsub1993
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Originally posted by dragons
With the way things are now in your marriage?
It's HOOOOOTTTTTTTT
09/07/2011
Contributor: mcl272 mcl272
i'm not married either but i'm 100% happy in every way possible!
09/07/2011