Bringing a third in to the bed room with out causeing drama

Engaging topic analysis of Vibrating penis ring:

JeJoue Mio, any one used one yet?
I saw that there was one review out for the Mio, but I don't tend to want to pull the trigger on a product unless there has been a handful of reviews,

white cock or black cock?
Which one is better?

Why are men obsessed with big breasts?
why are men obsessed with big boobs and asses? ok, yeah, i have large breasts... DD's but my husbands says it needs to be bigger, and says my ass...

Lube during Masturbation
When you use lube during masturbation what do you use? What toys do you use the most lubricants with? Do you patch test your toys?

What else besides a cock ring can prolong men's stamina?
is there any other tips to prolong my husband from getting off to quick during sex>

There really isn't a way to avoid extra drama if you were the one who got jealous last time.

My husband I have decided we are not going to pick anyone who has the potential to want to move in, hang out, or in any other way intrude on our life. Because after we do the damn thing; this person isn't welcomed into our relationship. After careful consideration and many discussions on this; we decided the best person is going to be a prostitute, but not just any prostitute.

A prostitute is going to come in and ask you exactly what you want and do it. You pay them for their services and that is the end of the relationship. However; the only legal prostitution is in Nevada. We are completely against supporting pimps, drug habits, and human trafficking. So, if you are too; the only places to go are the legal brothels in Nevada.

Those girls are tested weekly. They have an open mind. They aren't judgmental. And the last thing they want is to intrude on your relationship. They are their for the pure fantasy. That is why we have decided to set up a savings and travel to the Mustang Ranch. Their motto is to accommodate all budgets, so they are willing to work out a deal with you and you get exactly what you want. This is the only way I can see doing this.

I spent hours browsing their website to learn about them. Check out their site if you are interested. You have to Google "Mustang Ranch Legal Brothel." and it will come up. They even have all their girls on the site.

I have to agree with Beck about the jealousy. Some people have minds and feelings that work well with polyamory and other people (I'd say most people) have jealousies, issues and bad feelings that often occur that they really don't have control of.

There's no way to make yourself "not jealous" if you are the jealous type. There's nothing wrong with being jealous, I think being monogamous is just as valid as being poly. It depends on the person and the relationship.

But, if it "almost ruined" your relationship last time, my guess is the fantasy is better than the reality for you.

Also, it should be well determined before hand if any type of relationship will continue after the night in question. I think the "rules" need to be planned beforehand well, and that "texting her" should certainly be off limits. If this was a casual friend, these things may happen, but they can also happen with a stranger.

Beck laid out the best way to do something like this, but if you are jealous, (even though prostitutes don't get attached to clients in any way) you most likely will be even after this type of set up event. You may "like being with a woman now and then" but if it means the ruin of your relationship, maybe keeping it a fantasy is best.

My husband and I talked about this, with an other couple for a long time. Even though I have the capacity to be polyamorous, I don't act on it anymore. I don't think he has the capacity to be poly, based on his reaction to the men I dated when we had an Open Relationship years ago. We've pretty much decided that it will remain a fantasy for now, and supplement with toys, but leave our options open. As our "fantasy" is with an other couple, and I don't really have much of a desire to be with other women, the prostitute plan wouldn't work for us. It IS a great idea for non-jealous couples who want a third woman, though. Genius, Beck. I wouldn't have thought of it!

Double post.

I did want to say that some forms of jealousy within a relationship are sometimes healthy and normal, but to feel jealous when there is no reason to (say the woman didn't want any further attachment to either of you and your husband had no interest in her after the event) is perhaps "normal" but isn't something you can just ignore or overcome.

Some people are built for poly acts and relationships and others aren't. I'd say it isn't worth ruining your relationship to find out, if you have a history of this happening in the past.

It may be best to keep it a fantasy, for the OP.