You've got a Cheating Spouse, and...

Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I wouldn't stay. I don't care about the percent of people who cheat. I'd rather be alone than be with someone who would betray me like that.
08/26/2012
Contributor: chikisses chikisses
I would probably leave pissed. I would want to hear the whole story though.
08/26/2012
Contributor: Chefbriapink Chefbriapink
love makes you do crazy thingsIdk.
08/26/2012
Contributor: thelittlepretty1 thelittlepretty1
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Originally posted by Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
You are in a suppose to be monogamous marriage, and find out your spouse has been unfaithful. Know the kicker is they did not tell you, even after the father of the girl beat him up he still did not tell you. You find out when the prosecutor calls ... more
I put other because for me, it's not the act of sex that bothers me. It's the lying and betrayal that hurts. I feel that as a grownup in a relationship, you have the responsibility to let your partner know about any issues before you cheat. I was cheated on and stayed. We used that as a wake up call, got help and now I can honestly say our relationship is much better and our communication has been the best it's ever been. Now that's not to say that when he goes out, I don't wonder, but I go deeper and have faith.
However, your case is much different because your spouse is facing criminal charges. Going through the justice system is going to be taxing enough without even dealing with infidelity and the way you found out. If you truly love someone and they love you, it will work out. Only you know in your heart what is right for you and your situation. I wish you only the best for your future.
09/09/2012
Contributor: Mrs. Tickle and Giggle Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
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Originally posted by thelittlepretty1
I put other because for me, it's not the act of sex that bothers me. It's the lying and betrayal that hurts. I feel that as a grownup in a relationship, you have the responsibility to let your partner know about any issues before you cheat. I ... more
I hear your point, but if this did apply to me there is no way I would have stayed, but she did and thus my question. I am looking to get insight other than my own as to the logic behind such a foolish decision.
09/09/2012
Contributor: mbrdr2012 mbrdr2012
I couldn't stay! If you are unhappy, leave..divorce, whatever, there is no excuse for cheating!
09/09/2012
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i honestly have no idea....its a very hard hypothetical question to answer
09/09/2012
Contributor: sugar&spikes sugar&spikes
never
09/11/2012