People need to know the difference between forgiveness and forgetting. Yes, forgiveness is possible, but no one forgets stuff like that. My husband, I have found, has cheated on me or has tried to and I haven't forgiven him for that and I probably won't for many many years. He thinks that I need to forget it and since it's in the past, that I need to leave it in the past and basically, excuse it. He thinks that I should be able to excuse that stuff. But It is EXTREMELY hard to forgive, but yes, it is possible. I can be a forgiving person, but I dont' know how I could do that right now with him having a lot of other problems go with it. Let's just say, for lack of better terms, my husband is a manwhore. He knows he is. He brags about how many girls he's been with, and by girls, I mean girls, not women. He thinks its funny. He just says that they were experiments so he can be great for me. Hah, LMAO. But honestly, I dont really know if I can. I'm scared to forgive him because I know that he might do it again. That's the kind of person he is. He isn't the one girl committed type. He needs more than one to be happy it seems like, or whatever I know from his past. It's really scary. and unfortunately, I am only 20 years old and I'm already going through this.