I did not - my wife on the other hand did. I think she viewed sex as an obligation - not something 'good girls' enjoyed. When the kids came along, they were the perfect excuse. Luckily in her 40s she got over it.
Not after marriage but definitely did after having kids. At least for me, it was dead! It has started to come around and I think I am beginning to peak. Maybe because the kids are not as young anymore or maybe it's time for my peak. Hubby is thrilled. It's been far too long!
It's certainly not as desperately passionate as when we were living hundreds of miles apart (except when one of us has to travel for work), but we now have a MUCH better understanding of each others' needs and desires. Overall, it's definitely better.
We did go through a rough patch a couple of years ago, when I injured myself (skiing) and took months to recover. I stopped exercising, and found my libido plummeted. And a few months ago, my wife's work was just insane; she wasn't getting enough sleep and had zero interest in sex for a few weeks (which sucked!). But as long as we're both physically active and well-rested, all's well.
After marriage did you get a little to comfortable and loose your spice/sex drive/etc.?
Sadly yes. After 45 years and then I found out the high blood pressure medication killed my desire. For some reasong the last few months it has come back with a bang. Now health problems stop my husband and financial issues hold us back. Thus I am trying to use the toys to help myself.
Not at all. I think he is the hottest thing. I would do him all the time, but alas I must work and take care of all the other stuff life brings. He is a wonderful person and I love him for so much more than sex. Sex is definitely the most fun part though.
In my first marriage my sex drive plummeted. He was very mean and verbally abusive. He was also very lazy and did nothing around the house. It is hard to get desire up for someone you do not respect and is putting you down.
Since we've been together our sexual relationship has slowly declined. The quality is still top notch, but the quantity is lacking. I'm way more sexual than him, now or ever. Thank God, for dildos and vibrators...that's all I'm saying. lol
My husbands libido is really low and hes on some meds right now that lower is even more. its horrible. i feel terrible about my body and him not wanting to have sex does not help me at all. we are going through a bit of a rough patch sexually right now. Its pretty crappy
Yes, lots of things in life can cause your libio to wax and wane. Stress, hormone issues, having children, working a lot, etc.
My husband and I have been married for 18 yrs. When we were first married our love life was great, then I had children and with each one I think they took the energy of out me. My youngest is 6yrs old and she had been born with complex medical conditions so for a long time, up until recently , like three weeks ago recently that I've come back to full swing and then some. LOL
The most important thing is that you love each other. Moods change, libios change, but in the end as long as you love each other, that won't change.