Do you ever "mind f*ck" your lover?

Contributor: Kimbertrees Kimbertrees
I never been one for naughty text messages. I've seen how people ask to use your phone and then secretly (or not so secretly) go through your messages.
11/13/2010
Contributor: GeekWife GeekWife
I'd love to, but his cell is corporate sponsored now so I'm not sure who or what could see what I sent him. But I used to all the time.
12/01/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Just did this morning!
12/02/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
I always do!
12/08/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
i do this all the time. when i am at a show and my husband can't go with me or be with my when i am performing. makes things fun.
12/08/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
We text all day every day. We talk about our previous session, our next session, toys we want to try...it's all very hot and keeps us in touch with each other's desires.
12/08/2010
Contributor: Tart Tart
After my first lover took my virginity I turned to him and said, "you know I'm only 17 right?" He freaked! I love shocking people, or "find fucking" them. Its great fun. (I was 19 at the time).
12/20/2010
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by Tart
After my first lover took my virginity I turned to him and said, "you know I'm only 17 right?" He freaked! I love shocking people, or "find fucking" them. Its great fun. (I was 19 at the time).
Although this is how I define mind fuck, the OP meant something else.
12/20/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i used to do it a lot but he doesnt seem to care anymore. so do it a lot less now.
12/20/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I do it to him, while we're around company or when he's at work.
We're currently long distance, but I love it when he calls me at work, and he's trying to act all casual and I'm masturbating on the phone.
12/20/2010
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
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Originally posted by Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
Suggestive text messages, naughty emails, dirty photos... oh heck yeah. It's fun to get him all worked up while he is at work or I'm out, and then when we do connect... BAM... it's amazing.
oh I agree. Its fun and sexy...and oh yeah. I think you said it perfectly..
01/03/2011
Contributor: ToxicHeart ToxicHeart
Yes! I do it all the time since were in a long distance relationship. It's fun teasing him and what not
01/03/2011
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Used to quite often, but haven't had a cell phone for the last few months. Once I get another I will start doing it again!
01/03/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
My husband is away for the month, so I began playing little games to keep things hot! Tonight's game was called, Which Pussy Belongs to You, where I send him a series of very close-up naked pussies. Then, he has to guess which one of them is mine. So far he hasn't gotten them wrong! Or we have played Name Those Boobies where he gets 3 clues to guess who the boobs belong to. His prize, if he guesses correctly,is a picture of mine. Gotta love texting.
01/06/2011
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
ive done it a few times
01/06/2011
Contributor: 0letitgrow 0letitgrow
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
I just posted a quick little blog about this... and I'm curious how many of you here do this for your partner...

Every one of us has our own little ways to keep our lovers connected to us throughout the day... How do you do it? Do you ... more
Hahaha this post instantly got me thinking about the Dead Prez song Mind Sex. Good stuff!
01/06/2011
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
I have tried it before, but it never works for my wife. She does not like me to talk about it for the future. She just likes me to go after her when we have the chance.
01/06/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Sometimes we do, it's really fun to spice things up... the tension builds up all day and then when you're finally together it's like fireworks!
01/16/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
I sext my wife every now and then, and sometimes she responds in kind. She used to keep the texts and any.....um.....photos or videos I'd attach, but a few months ago, she accidentally showed my 8-year old one of the videos, so she deletes them immediately now. Fortunately, my son couldn't figure out what was on the screen-- especially since she was supposed to be showing him a video of him playing soccer-- so no harm done.
01/20/2011
Contributor: dbtracy dbtracy
My husband is in the army so we have alot of phone/texting sex
01/21/2011
Contributor: gumbyD gumbyD
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
I just posted a quick little blog about this... and I'm curious how many of you here do this for your partner...

Every one of us has our own little ways to keep our lovers connected to us throughout the day... How do you do it? Do you ... more
I try not to do sexual things that can be found by in laws...
02/09/2011
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
Of course!!! All the time!!!

New toys... means new pictures to send him!!!!
02/09/2011
Contributor: Sparfitt08 Sparfitt08
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
I just posted a quick little blog about this... and I'm curious how many of you here do this for your partner...

Every one of us has our own little ways to keep our lovers connected to us throughout the day... How do you do it? Do you ... more
Lunch breaks are the best time to get him thinking and get him looking forward to coming home. Once he asked me "Why do you get me all jazzed up when I'm at work at can't do anything about it?", I said it's to make him know that I'm staying awake for him to get home, and to hurry up and get home, it's also to let him know that I want him. We've been together for a long time(over 11 years), so keeping things fresh is key. Once, he almost came home on an "extended lunch break", sometimes we just have to watch how far we take our own imaginations ....
02/09/2011
Contributor: EvaChangeN EvaChangeN
I do it on ocassion
02/17/2011
Contributor: Astia Astia
Well, my husband doesn't have a cell phone, so =P

He's always next to me at his computer when we're not in class anyway so it would be pretty wasted on us anyway.
02/18/2011
Contributor: nicky51679 nicky51679
I txt my husband every one and a while, he loves it.
02/18/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Quote:
Originally posted by IrishLassie
oh I agree. Its fun and sexy...and oh yeah. I think you said it perfectly..
She definitely said it perfectly... ah yea... perfectly...
03/06/2011
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
I usually just text dirty words.
03/27/2011
Contributor: KrystalFayeO KrystalFayeO
I think the title of this post is the wrong use of that phrase... but I know what you mean... I have only recently done this... it gets me excited too... I just think my husband is awkward at times about saying sexy things and they come out sounding funnier than sexy
03/28/2011
Contributor: neon neon
I used to and want to more.
04/06/2011