Do you like anal penetration?

Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
i wouldnt say love it but it nice. prefer vaginal penitration. what kills me about anal is the first couple of min. cause oh my goodness it hurts. but oncve im past that. WOW!!! feels amazing
If you can say "oh my goodness it hurts" then you need to change the way you go about it. You know you like it, so find some ways to relax more before "taking the plunge".
09/17/2010
Contributor: butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
My boyfriend and I was just playing around and we decided to give it a try the first time it felt amazing but the second time we did it, it hurt to I don't know if there just wasn't enough lube or I was relaxed enough.I may try it again later down the road when I feel better about it.
09/19/2010
Contributor: xxFinallyxxLoved xxFinallyxxLoved
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Originally posted by Sera
Do you adore it, or do you hate it? How were you first introduced to it, if you've tried it? Would you try it, if you haven't?
I enjoy it, it makes me feel quite good for some reason. If I don't do it often, it feels a little weird and it's a little painful.
09/24/2010
Contributor: Ropeguy Ropeguy
I tried it on my own years ago and really loved it it was only recently that I started with my girlfriend and now anal play (plug and p-spot glass toys) are always part of our play.
10/07/2010
Contributor: wondertoes wondertoes
No interest!
10/08/2010
Contributor: GeekWife GeekWife
I am proud to say that's something I saved special for GeekHubbs He likes it and he knows he can get good squeals out of me if he does anything back there. I have to be REALLY in the mood for it though.
10/15/2010
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
Never tried it 'cause poopy! It just doesn't appeal to me at all.
10/15/2010
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
I hated it when I first tried it but, I love it now!!
10/15/2010
Contributor: Eeyor89 Eeyor89
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Originally posted by Sera
Do you adore it, or do you hate it? How were you first introduced to it, if you've tried it? Would you try it, if you haven't?
I was scared the first time I did it, and it did hurt, but I love it now.
10/15/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I don't necessarily adore it or hate it. It isn't a part of my regular routine but occasionally it's craved. I think it has wonderful potential. Probably would be more pleasing and a part of routine if hubby was gentle. He tries to go slow but between being thick and the fact that he doesn't have the control it can prove to be painful if left to his own needs. I get more from anal when on my own. Less to worry over and it increases the rest of my play time.
10/15/2010
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
tried it, didn't enjoy it
10/23/2010
Contributor: missyross missyross
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Originally posted by Sera
Do you adore it, or do you hate it? How were you first introduced to it, if you've tried it? Would you try it, if you haven't?
Before I was with my husband I hated it. My ex used to force it, hurting me, but if you find the right one that will take his time to make it pleasurable for you, its the best. Better than vaginal sometimes.
10/28/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by missyross
Before I was with my husband I hated it. My ex used to force it, hurting me, but if you find the right one that will take his time to make it pleasurable for you, its the best. Better than vaginal sometimes.
Key is sometimes. Men and women, remember that anal stimulation is usually best if it's mixed in with other sex play, so you don't have a diet of only anal.

Granted this doesn't apply to all couples.
10/28/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I didn't vote. I've tried it but it's not that I find it disgusting. It's really really painful for me to be penetrated due to a condition called IBS. Depending on the day I can be in a lot of pain rectally and I just prefer not to do it when I'm feeling better because it's rare that my ass doesn't hurt!

I do, however, on a good day, enjoy a good rim job! He can lick me or finger me there and I'm A-OK! So, it's not disgusting, but painful for me. And it sounds like I'm missing out. Maybe someday the condition will clear up and I can partake in this wondrous adventure.
11/01/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Bunnycups
Never tried it 'cause poopy! It just doesn't appeal to me at all.
You should try a water enema/douche kit. This is going to be one of our next purchases. He loves it and I love doing it for him, but I am often not, erm, a fan of the "aftermath"
11/01/2010
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I've tried it... I have to admit it though, it is an acquired pleasure... I used to hate anal sex... but now, I am more comfortable with it.
11/01/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
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Originally posted by Sera
Do you adore it, or do you hate it? How were you first introduced to it, if you've tried it? Would you try it, if you haven't?
My husband loves it...I love how it feels once im relaxed, but sometimes it seems impossible. And sometimes it hurts...even though he is very patient and we go super slow. I love small toys though
11/16/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
I've tried it, and I don't love it, but I do love it.
11/20/2010
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I've had this forced on me before, so I refuse to allow anyone to go there on me ever again. If my boyfriend wants me to use a prostate massager or something on him, though, I will do that.
11/21/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by clp
I love anal!! Both for myself and for my partner. It is a required and important aspect of my sexuality. That has a lot to do with how I developed as a youngin', the way that I approached sex and sexuality as I grew up, and also just my ... more
CLP,
Thanks for the link. It has been really hard for my husband to believe me when I tell him I thoroughly enjoy him in my ass. For the majority of our marriage I was adamantly against anything near my ass and just recently I was able to break through that wall and allowed myself the pleasure of anal sex. This was a choice I made for myself. My husband and I read the article together and I believe now he understands me.
11/22/2010
Contributor: Shumway Shumway
I used to think that it was disgusting, but the wife has slowly worn me down, and I've discovered it can really intensify my orgasms. I'm still a little unsure about using larger objects, but I'm getting there
11/23/2010
Contributor: Anne Ardeur Anne Ardeur
I am fairly open to the idea, but my husband is not interested.
11/23/2010
Contributor: KnK KnK
it hurts at first, then it's lovely. Then later it hurts again. The aftermath is what makes me not do it so often.
11/26/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by KnK
it hurts at first, then it's lovely. Then later it hurts again. The aftermath is what makes me not do it so often.
Think about what sort of hurt it is (BTW there should never be hurt). If it's an ache/bruse-y sort of hurt than you've been thrusting too hard, if it's a soreness then you haven't had full lube coverage.
12/26/2010
Contributor: Lsassy Lsassy
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Originally posted by Sera
Do you adore it, or do you hate it? How were you first introduced to it, if you've tried it? Would you try it, if you haven't?
Well I have never tried it, and honestly im not sure if my husband has tried it either. We have never talked about it. But I know we need to spice up our love life. I recently had children, so I have been thinking about it. I just dont know where to begin, or even how to bring it up.
12/27/2010
Contributor: The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
I never really thought of it until it was spontaneously introduced to me one day. I was a bit nervous as it was happening; however, I have to say I was pleasantly shocked!
12/27/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Lsassy
Well I have never tried it, and honestly im not sure if my husband has tried it either. We have never talked about it. But I know we need to spice up our love life. I recently had children, so I have been thinking about it. I just dont know where to ... more
Really, just being honest about what you want is the best way to approach it.

When we first started with anal play, My Man just said, "I love your ass so much. I'd love to fuck your ass. Can we think of a way to make it work?" Years ago, when I was younger, I was like, "No way." (although he did occasionally rim me, and although it kind of scared me, it was very exciting.) But, things changed as our sex life had a Renaissance in the past few years.

We talked about it a lot, and I read things from Nina Hartley and Tristan Taramino about how to perform safe and pleasurable anal sex. Seeing and feeling his reaction to seeing anal scenes in porn really made me want to try it, because I saw how excited he got. I had certainly fantasized about it, but was scared, because I thought it would hurt.

LOTS of preparation is necessary. We got a few toys and I HATED them then. Him training me, by just using a finger at first, very gently and very slowly and working up to taking more and eventually his entire penis, over a period of a few weeks or months worked best for us. I didn't like anal toys until after we had full on anal sex, but some people prefer to warm up with toys.

Just talk to him, maybe the next time you have the kids in bed early (or before they wake up for the day, that's how we have sex a LOT) put on a video with some anal sex in it, and maybe talk about how fun it looks.

Take it slowly. Use lube, every time for every penetration, even his fingers. If it hurts STOP, something is wrong. There is a difference between a stimulating stretching feeling and actual pain. There should be NO pain. And anything which goes into an ass, whether it be a finger or a toy or a penis, may NOT go into a vagina without thorough washing beforehand! And did I mention lube? A good THICK waterbased lube is my favorite. I like Sliquid Ride H20 Sliquid H20 Ride It's our favorite all around lube and what we use for anal most of the time. We also will use LELO Personal Moisturizer as our second choice. LELO Personal Moisturizer Lubricants Both are glycerin and paraben free.

But, you have to talk to him about it.
12/28/2010
Contributor: ToxicHeart ToxicHeart
Anal penetration is not at all that appealing to me... Doesn't interest my boyfriend at all either. I really don't think I would enjoy it. Nothing wrong with it just not my cup of tea.
12/29/2010
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Love it!....in fact it kind of is an obsession these days.
01/02/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Loveeeeeeeeeeeeee it!
01/02/2011