My depression kicks in when I'm jealous, and I don't think I'd ever use jealousy to try to turn my guy on... I can get more firey and consider it enjoyable when my partner or I will get hit on, but I don't consider that jealousy per se.
I don't mind a partner getting somewhat jealous over me, I find it sexy. But I don't deliberately set out to cause it.
I hate being jealous myself cause it makes me feel insecure and most guys don't like it.