Friends with benefits. Would you ?

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Friends with benefits. Would you ?

OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Fwb. Is that mostly for single people ? Does anyone think this would spice up relationships. Or a recipe for disaster? If your SO allowed it, would you ?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
TheToyGuy , CuriousJ , FleurDevereux , mfmtrios
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C&K0143
1
TheToyGuy , NJ casanova , FleurDevereux , Jarhead1341
4
TheToyGuy , C&K0143 , FleurDevereux
3
Andykh , sXeVegan90 , C&K0143 , MsKole , Vnessa , OH&W, Lovebears , Lvstoplay , Sexy Housewife , squid1two
9
TheToyGuy , Sexy Housewife
2
TheToyGuy , Lioncub , FleurDevereux
3
TheToyGuy , FleurDevereux
2
Inquisitor
1
Total votes: 29 (17 voters)
Poll is open till 9/30/2019 2:00 AM
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Inquisitor Inquisitor
Personally, the only time I would do this is if I were single. I'm not condemning anyone who has it like this, but, I just wouldn't be able to deal with any stress if I was in a relationship.
10/10/2015
sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I'm in a committed relationship, so I personally wouldn't do this. I feel like if you have an open relationship and you feel like this is a great way to spice things up in the bedroom/relationship, I have nothing against those who do that. However, I personally, am very happy with one other, and that is my partner.
10/10/2015
Andykh Andykh
I have to agree. The friends with benefits would do nothing but harm a committed relationship.
10/10/2015
RonLee RonLee
Many years ago... my then GF and I broke up and I was still unattached, she would call me for sexual satisfaction when her new BF couldn't. It was also an ego stroke during a time that I needed it.
10/11/2015
NJ casanova NJ casanova
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Fwb. Is that mostly for single people ? Does anyone think this would spice up relationships. Or a recipe for disaster? If your SO allowed it, would you ?
I think it's for singles, I think if you "need to" spice things up swinging/threesomes would be the only way. I think a FWB, will only lead to jealousy and/or hooking up behind the partners back(an affair).

FWB is the only way for me since My-ex,was the one. I care about all my FWBs,and want them to find what I had/lost, since I can't be that for them. Basicly I'm a real life Noah from the "Notebook"
10/29/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Personally, FWB is a way of life. I have fuck buddies, girl/boyfriends, sex friends and FWB. All know their role, all know what we are getting into. There are rules.
11/03/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Personally, FWB is a way of life. I have fuck buddies, girl/boyfriends, sex friends and FWB. All know their role, all know what we are getting into. There are rules.
TG, do you mind if I inquire if you are hitched ? Guess not since you said gfs/bfs.
11/03/2015
MsKole MsKole
I personally would do this if i were single, but im engaged and my fiance and i have both talked about it and both agree it is not for us.
11/03/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
For me personally, I think FWB are for single people just looking for a good time. I think it's just a recipe for disaster when committed couples try to stray outside of their current relationship to add a fling. It's not something I would condone in my marriage. That being said, each relationship is different. So, I don't pass judgment on those choosing to go this route. Does more sound merrier? Sometimes. It can come at a price though.
11/03/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
TG, do you mind if I inquire if you are hitched ? Guess not since you said gfs/bfs.
I'm actually engaged. We have a very open relationship with certain rules and things we follow, but she is the love of my life and I cannot wait to marry her and settle down together.
11/04/2015
NJ casanova NJ casanova
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
I'm actually engaged. We have a very open relationship with certain rules and things we follow, but she is the love of my life and I cannot wait to marry her and settle down together.
Congrates for finding your "1" and is down with having FUN the way you like it
11/04/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
I'm actually engaged. We have a very open relationship with certain rules and things we follow, but she is the love of my life and I cannot wait to marry her and settle down together.
Congratulations. Set a date yet ?
11/04/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Vnessa
For me personally, I think FWB are for single people just looking for a good time. I think it's just a recipe for disaster when committed couples try to stray outside of their current relationship to add a fling. It's not something I ...
I think for some single people. They know they are not destined for a successful relationship but enjoy each other in bed.

Or in the shower, woods, beach etc.
11/04/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Congratulations. Set a date yet ?
Yes, next year in August.
11/04/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by TheToyGuy
Yes, next year in August.
Yippe skippe ! Going to be big or small ? Wedding that is.
11/06/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Yippe skippe ! Going to be big or small ? Wedding that is.
Big wedding, small reception, massive after party a week later.
11/06/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
I think it is more risk than it would ever be worth if you're in a committed relationship. There's a difference in three or four people being in a relationship together, where they are all committed and understanding what's going on, and a more open relationship where at least one person is free to sleep around. I think that commitment is very important within any romantic, long lasting relationship.
11/06/2015
FleurDevereux FleurDevereux
My husband and I are both open to this and have both indulged.
Example: One of our best friends from high school is one of my fuck buddies right now. We have been for about the last year. He comes over quite often, shares the bed with us, and stays for a few nights usually. My husband is out picking him up tonight, as a matter of fact.
This is just one example because it is relevant to tonight and it tied in with this conversation.
The reason it works is because we are all open and completely honest with each other.
11/11/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by FleurDevereux
My husband and I are both open to this and have both indulged.
Example: One of our best friends from high school is one of my fuck buddies right now. We have been for about the last year. He comes over quite often, shares the bed with us, and ...
Wow, sounds like the two of you have a great relationship. How long have the two of you been together. (if you don't mind my curiosity"

And btw, have your seen Black Orhid's thread on mmf ? Could you comment if you have engaged in it.
link
11/11/2015
mfmtrios mfmtrios
Quote:
Originally posted by FleurDevereux
My husband and I are both open to this and have both indulged.
Example: One of our best friends from high school is one of my fuck buddies right now. We have been for about the last year. He comes over quite often, shares the bed with us, and ...
you are very lucky to have this set up!
Nov 9, 7:27 pm
Total posts: 21
Unique posters: 12