Getting my wife back into toys

mdglonetm mdglonetm
hey all i've been with my wife for almost 10 years and need advice. when we were dating and early in the marriage we were both into using and trying all sorts off toys....all sorts. anyway long story short it seems lately that she has no interest in even looking at them on this site. so here i am asking everyone what can i do to get her interested in them again?
02/11/2013
  • Weekly Special: Hot Vibes! Buy 1 Vibrator And Get 1 FREE
  • Better Price Sale - Save 50%
  • Better Price Sale - Save 70%
  • Better Price Sale - Save 60%
  • Better Price - Save 40%
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
shorejen9 shorejen9
Have you asked her why? Did she have a bad experience?
02/11/2013
epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
I have a friend that for some reason just doesn't care for toys she just likes her hands and her man better. To me this is just strange.
So maybe she was really curious and wanted to try them and afterwords found that she just really doesn't need them or want them.
Your going to have to talk to her to find out why she's not interested any more. or find out what she might be into now.
02/11/2013
Nova146 Nova146
How much has changed in the last 10 years? Ten years into my marriage, we had 4 kids. To say my sexual interests were changed by that would be a massive understatement. But even without kids, a lot can change in a person, and in a relationship, in 10 years.

Why did the toy play stop? What inspired you to want to start again?

In some situations, just buying a toy and bringing it into the bedroom can work. But there are numerous situations in which that would backfire, so be cautious.
02/12/2013
EastCoast36 EastCoast36
Following up on what the other posters said, my wife just doesn't seem that interested in dildos anymore. We used to play with them together on her, and with each one, she seemed to be really into it the first use and not so much after. I learned more about silicone and shapes and bought the Tantus Acute then Curve in the last year. Again she initially seemed into both, but now she doesn't seem that interested and almost seems like the Curve is uncomfortable for her. She does like the bullet styled clit vibes, especially during oral. I know this doesn't help with your question.
02/13/2013
Fun2 Fun2
Quote:
Originally posted by mdglonetm
hey all i've been with my wife for almost 10 years and need advice. when we were dating and early in the marriage we were both into using and trying all sorts off toys....all sorts. anyway long story short it seems lately that she has no ... More
I would just pick them out yourself. Then you can "show" her how interesting they are!
02/16/2013
Total posts: 6
Unique posters: 6