How often do you have sex?

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I'm just curious how often everybody out there is having sex with their wives/husbands/partner s. I've been with my girl for a long time, and we've gone through frequent and infrequent cycles, but I'm curious how often everybody does it and whether or not they're satisfied with that.
01/19/2011
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Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
Pretty much every day, and if not then no more than a day or 2 goes by in between unless one of us is *really* sick. It works for me
01/19/2011
Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
Pretty much every day for us, too, unless I'm on my period, away from home, on an impossible schedule, or am sick.
01/19/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Usually we have sex daily. Most days, multiple times a day. And period sex (not not Victorian or Renaissance) is becoming an absolute must for me; it really does squelch the bitchiness, as well as the pain! It really sucks that he is away now! Only 2.5 weeks to go! WooHoo! If we skip a day, someone is usually a grouch and it is not always me. God, I miss him!
01/19/2011
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
Pretty much every day, and if not then no more than a day or 2 goes by in between unless one of us is *really* sick. It works for me
That pretty much us. Once a day, sometimes more and there is rarely ever 1 or 2 days in between unless we are physically apart.
01/19/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
A few times a week. With our work schedules it works out best for us.
01/19/2011
PussyGalore PussyGalore
At least twice a day, sometimes three. If my ladyparts could deal, it would probably be more.
01/19/2011
GeekWife GeekWife
Reading this post makes me sad. I'm lucky if we get busy once a week, thanks to the joys of parenthood and a 60 hour work week for the hubs. And even sadder, that's only been since I've been reviewing for Eden. Before that it was every 2 weeks or less.
01/19/2011
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Every day that we're together. There's usually one or two days a week we don't see each other because of work, child custody schedule, etc. but if we're together, it's extremely rare that we don't.
01/19/2011
moonch1ld moonch1ld
Usually a couple time a day or more.
01/19/2011
Yoda Yoda
About twice a week. Three or four times if we're not too busy or trying to get pregnant, which we usually are.
01/19/2011
married with children married with children
about 5 times a week.
01/20/2011
That Guy That Guy
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Originally posted by GeekWife
Reading this post makes me sad. I'm lucky if we get busy once a week, thanks to the joys of parenthood and a 60 hour work week for the hubs. And even sadder, that's only been since I've been reviewing for Eden. Before that it was every 2 ... More
Could be worse. You could have a partner who works part time, no kids, and still only get busy once a week. Right? I...uh... hear that happens. Sigh.

Anyway, way to be, everybody else!
01/20/2011
Inkblot Inkblot
Not nearly enough. We have six kids and my sex drive has never really faltered, while hubby's has been low to begin with and now almost nada. We've had sex once in the past 5 months, the worst it's been. Hence, my need for toys. I'd be thrilled with a *compromise* of once per week, but he's really just not that into it. I've been asking him to get checked at the dr. for a few years now. All this said, we love the heck out of each other and make it work. I just wish the sex were more frequent because the quality when we do have it is usually divine. Gotta look for the bright spots!
01/21/2011
Desiree Tatro Desiree Tatro
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Originally posted by That Guy
I'm just curious how often everybody out there is having sex with their wives/husbands/partner s. I've been with my girl for a long time, and we've gone through frequent and infrequent cycles, but I'm curious how often everybody does ... More
Rarely.
He says he does want to, but never really tries for it.
Im not satisfied, and we talk about that. But We do have two small children, I do work second shift and he works first. He is sleeping when I get home at 11:30pm.
Im also in college, so really by the end of my day im tired so I dont care.
Would I love it if he came on to me, of course!! I would love to feel sexy, after two children and being 30 lbs heavier. But he just does not have the stamina.

Im the one who has to bring it up, and that does not make me feel good.
01/24/2011
CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
My wife and I have sex like 5 times a week. Sometimes its four times in one day and once for the rest of the week, sometimes its once a day everyday. There is really no pattern. I am constantly playing a game where I call POW. Any time I see my wife bent over, I run up behind her grab her hips and pow her. I'm playful with her all the time and it useally leads to sex pretty often. I refuse to grow up.
01/28/2011
xSexKittenx xSexKittenx
Wow, I'm jealous of those that have sex multiple times a week!

Sex is something that rarely occurs around here now. I'm lucky to have sex every two weeks! But it's because we are both extremely busy. The cool thing is that we are both happy though -- I don't feel rejected (anymore) and neither does he.
02/01/2011
madebymatt madebymatt
Sex might happen once a week. Not really sure why it's so rare but it's frustrating.
02/01/2011
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
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Originally posted by xSexKittenx
Wow, I'm jealous of those that have sex multiple times a week!

Sex is something that rarely occurs around here now. I'm lucky to have sex every two weeks! But it's because we are both extremely busy. The cool thing is that we are ... More
Same here...about once every other week...if I'm lucky.
02/01/2011
Kaltir Kaltir
It varies a great deal. Sometimes once a day. Sometimes a few times a day every other day. Etc.
02/07/2011
AW00 AW00
A few times a week depending on our schedules.
03/13/2011
MontereyJak MontereyJak
We have sex about 4-5 times a week, sometimes more if we are having a 3some or swap.
03/17/2011
minifreak minifreak
Right now its been a while
03/17/2011
mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by Jul!a
A few times a week. With our work schedules it works out best for us.
same here. my husband works 10 hr days which sucks but its better $, so if hes tired we don't, but lately its been 3 - 4x a week which is great because it use to be 1 - 3x a week at most. the less i complain about anything whether it be his schedule or life the more hes in the mood =]
03/17/2011
mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by Hallmar82
Same here...about once every other week...if I'm lucky.
we were like that with hubby's old job cuz he was so stressed with not getting 40 hrs, with new job its been alot more than that which is nice
03/17/2011
mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by Desiree Tatro
Rarely.
He says he does want to, but never really tries for it.
Im not satisfied, and we talk about that. But We do have two small children, I do work second shift and he works first. He is sleeping when I get home at 11:30pm.
Im also in ... More
i bring it up all the time too in different ways but he initiates it alot of the time. i have two toddlers so i know what ya mean
03/17/2011
Skitlz Skitlz
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Originally posted by That Guy
I'm just curious how often everybody out there is having sex with their wives/husbands/partner s. I've been with my girl for a long time, and we've gone through frequent and infrequent cycles, but I'm curious how often everybody does ... More
A couple of times a week, would like more but hard with little kids in the house.
03/17/2011
Ansley Ansley
Quite frequently, more than twice a week. The last six months have been hell on us personally, making it difficult to get as much time to be intimate as we would like.
03/17/2011
DancerLove DancerLove
Wow, my husband and I have sex well around 4 to 5 times a week. I also have to understand that we are newlyweds and it won't last very long, lol, so I need to enjoy it while it lasts. <3
03/17/2011
DancerLove DancerLove
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Originally posted by DancerLove
Wow, my husband and I have sex well around 4 to 5 times a week. I also have to understand that we are newlyweds and it won't last very long, lol, so I need to enjoy it while it lasts. <3
But also, we've been having sex every day for two weeks now. That reason being, we had a huge fight a month ago and we spent a week separated and now we are back with each other and its better.
03/17/2011
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