How to spice up our sex life?

BelleIsabelle15 BelleIsabelle15
I have been married to my husband for 3 years, been together for 4. Lately, sex has become a little boring and I can't get off like I once did. I don't know what's wrong with me, its as if I am in some kind of funk.

Has anyone gone through this? Suggestions?
03/14/2011
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Remigirl Remigirl
Yessss! My husband and I have been married for three also but together for six years. I read somewhere that the third year of marriage is now becoming something like the seven year itch. Its my understanding that a lot of marriages go through this stage around this time (at least I hope so) and then come out of it. But anyway, I've tried many MANY things! Lingerie can help for awhile but it gets to be a pain to dress up every night. I even tried an all natural spray that was suppose to help boost libido. That didn't really work for me at least but you might give it a try. Its made by a company called Liddell Laboratories. I tried their allergy spray and it worked great so I thought that might help to but it didn't. Two things that have worked is trying to get my husband to have sex at different times in the day other than at night. I find that the both of us get so tired at different times that we end up getting upset if the other is too tired to do it. Also, I tried a tea called Get Passionate from Republic of Tea. I know it sounds crazy but it really did help. I know you said your bored but it also may have something to do with hormones and these kind of products may help to balance them out. Good luck and I hope this helps!
03/15/2011
pookalicious pookalicious
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Originally posted by BelleIsabelle15
I have been married to my husband for 3 years, been together for 4. Lately, sex has become a little boring and I can't get off like I once did. I don't know what's wrong with me, its as if I am in some kind of funk.

Has anyone gone ... More
The things that typically works best when we get into a slump are new positions and new places in the house, wining and dining, and just trying to switch things up from the usual.

I think sex slumps happen in a lot of marriages, so just try to relax and remember why you love and enjoy your husband and go from there. Also, sort of random, but when I was depressed, sex suffered, so be sure to look out for signs of other things going on as well.
03/15/2011
Laurinnichole Laurinnichole
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