My husband must have some self esteem issues because he doesn’t like the idea of me having toys. We have not even been married two years and our sex life is pretty sparse. His last serious relationship was not a good one in many ways but apparently she was the best sex ever, I don’t even compare. Sadly this means he really isn’t all that into sex anymore (and he is only 25) so I sometimes have to look to toys. He thinks it’s because he isn’t good enough and that is not it. What should I do???