Is it ok to have toys shaped like porn stars' sex organs in a long-term relationship?

Contributor: glitterbombs glitterbombs
I don't see how it's worse than any other type of sex toy. If anything, it could open the door to discussions of fantasy and roleplaying.
08/10/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
No reason to be jealous of a toy, unless you don't get any because of it.
08/11/2012
Contributor: joelb42 joelb42
It is just an object. I don't see there being any problem with it. I would not mind if my wife wanted a toy shaped like a specific persons private parts. She said she would not have a problem with me getting one either. Not sure that we would ever actually get one though.
08/18/2012
Contributor: <3BF <3BF
I really think it would matter. Even if my lover was obsessed with a porn star and wanted all their products that is no worse then having a crush on any famous person and it would be silly to get jealous over a toy unless it was actually cutting into your mutual sex time.
08/18/2012
Contributor: SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
Every time I run across this thread I think about it. I have mixed feelings over it. Me, personally, I don't think I'd be happy about it if he got the toy because he really, really liked that porn star, but I wouldn't start a fight over it. If he bought it sort of randomly, I wouldn't care at all.
08/25/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Of course it's okay because it's not real.

You know, I would hope that your spouse or long term SO means more to you than just they're genitals. Those toys are masturbation devices and are part of fantasy play. It can't replace a person. If it can, then your relationship is in serious trouble, and the Ron Jeremy dong in the bedroom is the least of your troubles..
08/28/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
They've got to be shaped like something and unless you are willing to do a clone a willy kind of toy, it's going to happen. It's not like they have to fantasize about the porn star instead I their partner when they use it.
09/23/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
If my partner had one, I wouldn't mind at all. It's just a toy.

I'd also be a bit confused if my boyfriend had a problem with me having one as well.

I think we've actually joked about me getting one of the James Deen cocks.
12/12/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
For us a toy is a tool to get the job done...no personal connection to them.
05/07/2013
Contributor: Wickedly Yours Wickedly Yours
Quote:
Originally posted by Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
I wouldn’t care.. it’s just a toy.
08/27/2020
Contributor: Swing Curious Swing Curious
Quote:
Originally posted by Shumway
Here's one for you married couples and life partners. I've been seeing a lot of toys on the site molded from porn stars' genitalia. I'm curious what people think about owning or their spouse owning one when in a long term relationship.
My wife made the suggestion that I get a Fleshlight so I picked out the Lisa Ann model. We are in a long-term monogamous marriage and play with all kinds of toys together and separate. I keep fantasies related to my screen name as fantasies and not goals. She knows it and we are both extremely happy where we are at.
02/14/2023
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
It’s 2023 now. This post started in 2010. Look at today’s dildo’s. Majority are bigger than porn stars. And tons of themed ones. Monsters, canines, horses, imaginary creatures etc. Then there’s the thick line of ultra realistic’s

Neither of us would care if the other used creative dildo’s. As a matter of fact encourage it. Remember life is short, enjoy it while you can.
03/04/2023