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I have three children and I'd have to say it definitely changes things. I swear children are born with sexual radar sensors and the second the first piece of clothes comes off they are crying or at the door lol Once you work around their
I have three children and I'd have to say it definitely changes things. I swear children are born with sexual radar sensors and the second the first piece of clothes comes off they are crying or at the door lol Once you work around their schedules and they give ya enough peace to carry on with a sex life all is well.
Physically I think it does change a bit - at least for me. I'm not the skinniest thing anymore and that bothers me more then the hubby but I'm working on it. Another thing that may be unique to me was that I tore badly with my son and had to be stitched back together all the way from front to back and after healing that made intercourse extremely painful but did manage another child almost immediately so when I had him the doc cut and re-stitched me properly. Thank God.
My sex drive has changed as well. Now that all three of mine are in school (no more barging into Mommy and Daddy's room) I tend to be more horny and less likely to get off without intensity. One day I hope to be able to scream again - being quiet with the kids is mandatory or they would be in the room - kinda puts a damper on me when I really want to cut loose.
But all in all it's just as enjoyable and for me it's probably more so now.
I've got to agree about kids having sex radars. You check on them and double-check on them and they're fast asleep. So you start having some fun and just when you get into it, there's a little cry.
Luckily, our 7 year old hasn't walked in on us yet, but he's surprised us a few times by getting out of his bed in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom. (Previously, he would call for us even though he was capable of doing it on his own.)
If the risk of getting caught turns you on, though, there's nothing like having 2 kids in the other room capable of entertaining themselves while the two of you quietly have a little fun under the covers.