Married sex life with toys

Soulsekrou Soulsekrou
Does the woman or man in the marriage use toys more?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Man
Thong man , magicmaxx Mr.Mrs
2  (4%)
Woman
Checkmate , Pete's Princess , wicked weasel , mpfm , Rossie , Hallmar82 , BrittaniMaree , KrissyNovacaine , PropertyOfPotter , oneeyedoctopus , EastCoast36 , junipersgame , srexom , Bubba29 , Ducky32 , Adnerbmw , Dolphin Lady , MrsHouseWife , TJtheMadHatter , never shy , Herzer , Mrs. Tickle and Giggle , Stagger13 , libbyv , bayosgirl , Oriental husband and wife , Sincerely Yours, N , rom323 , freshmonkey , C&K0143 , Missy27 , doc , R.N. Sallie , Teaser , Sassy Pam
35  (66%)
Other
Gunsmoke , Mr. E , Ciao. , angel42539 , js250 , dancingduo , Kitt Katt , marmouse , SecretKinksters , married with children , gehuwd , SaiDiscordia , Bignuf , mfmtrios , Redboxbaby , CinnamonNights
16  (30%)
Total votes: 53
Poll is closed
05/29/2013
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Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
There are way more toys for women than for men. Also, more women have the ability for multiple orgasms than men do. If your partner needs time to recharge, you can still keep dancing with the assistance of your toys.
05/30/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Other - generally I use the toys on my wife - we call it 'driving'. However when we use multiple toys - we often both drive. I will double-penetrate her with fingers and/or toys - while she applies a clit vibe.

Since we've started doing anal play and pegging - she's doing the driving.

All of the above!
05/30/2013
Mr. E Mr. E
We use them together most of the time.
05/30/2013
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
We both use toys but my wife uses vibes more than me.
05/30/2013
Ciao. Ciao.
We're married, and I use toys more than my female partner.
05/30/2013
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
he uses them on me and I have a few masterbators for him
05/30/2013
angel42539 angel42539
both of us!
05/30/2013
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I use them more than my husband, but we use them together a lot too.
05/30/2013
js250 js250
We both have our own toys but we use them at the same time. This would be a both of us...
05/30/2013
junipersgame junipersgame
On an individual basis, I probably use toys more (although he does love his sleeves!). More often than not, however, we use toys together to enrich our sex life.
05/30/2013
EastCoast36 EastCoast36
I really only have two toys for me, a fleshlight and a silicone ring. They are seldom used. The first time I used the fleshlight, we tried it was together. I think my wife was really curious and to my surprise it was fun, but she has not mentioned it again, and I haven't felt like bringing it out. So, it is maybe a once every other month alone time toy.

I have been buying toys for her for a while now, and to be honest, it seems like her interest in them goes down by each year. Funny thing is, the toys are getting higher quality. I started with just a slimline vibe, then a jelly. I know better now. Next I thought it would be hot to watch her play with dildos that bordered just on the edge of large. At first it seemed like it turned her on, but every time following the enjoyment dropped. The hitachi wand I bought almost never gets used. I have tried to find a few beginner anal toys for her, and she hasn't really wanted to get into it.

The only things we seem to play with are a Tantus Acute and Curve with a clit vibe. Actually, the vibe is the only thing it really seems like she enjoys. The others I believe are as much a show for me. I would like to be wrong, but I'm almost certain she doesn't use any of them alone. Hard to complain if she is happy with me. Still, it turns me on fantasizing about her getting herself off with toys.
05/30/2013
srexom srexom
in ours the woman.
05/30/2013
dancingduo dancingduo
Mostly couple toys. So other?
05/30/2013
Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
We usually play together, but I do like to sneak in some alone time when I can.
05/30/2013
Dolphin Lady Dolphin Lady
Quote:
Originally posted by Soulsekrou
Does the woman or man in the marriage use toys more?
I use the toys more than my boyfriend. Matter a fact on the marriages that I have had I like the toys more than he did.
05/30/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We're not married, but are as close as we could possibly be. We both use toys equally.
05/30/2013
TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
I am the one who plays with toys. My husband doesn't care for them. In the 6 years we've been together, we've only used toys four times together.
05/30/2013
never shy never shy
I do but my husband uses them on me
05/30/2013
never shy never shy
I do but my husband uses them on me
05/30/2013
married with children married with children
she has more toys, but I use them on her more then I use toys on myself.
05/30/2013
Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
Quote:
Originally posted by never shy
I do but my husband uses them on me
Same here
06/02/2013
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
Quote:
Originally posted by Soulsekrou
Does the woman or man in the marriage use toys more?
It would actually be a combination of both, he uses on me but I assist.
06/02/2013
Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Soulsekrou
Does the woman or man in the marriage use toys more?
Just about all of our stuff is for her.
06/03/2013
libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Soulsekrou
Does the woman or man in the marriage use toys more?
i do (woman)
06/03/2013
libbyv libbyv
and hubby loves using them on me
06/03/2013
bayosgirl bayosgirl
Definitely me. The only toy my husband 'uses' is our cock ring, and that's more for me.
06/03/2013
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
Quote:
Originally posted by Soulsekrou
Does the woman or man in the marriage use toys more?
Throughout the years she has. Only recently have I started exploring toys for men. I guess when one gets older more thrills are needed. I also need the assistance toys give. I think women are harder to satisfy and please then men.
06/09/2013
Thong man Thong man
I would guess that I use my anal plug more than she uses her toys. I usually wear it a couple times a week
08/10/2013
SaiDiscordia SaiDiscordia
Quote:
Originally posted by Soulsekrou
Does the woman or man in the marriage use toys more?
Equally because usually he is using them on me.
08/12/2013
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