My hubby wants to try anal?

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My hubby wants to try anal?

Sweet-n-sensual Sweet-n-sensual
I know a lot of people do it, but it kinda seems weird to me. Anyone have any thought on this?
03/22/2013
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Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
I would love it if my boyfriend would let me use a strap-on on him! It's a fantasy of mine to have strap-on sex with a guy. But everyone is different, so I respect your apprehension.
03/22/2013
eri86 eri86
On you, or you on him?
03/23/2013
kendra30752 kendra30752
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Originally posted by Sweet-n-sensual
I know a lot of people do it, but it kinda seems weird to me. Anyone have any thought on this?
On you? He wants to try anal on you or he wants you to do it to him?

It only comes down to one thing: are you comfortable participating? figure that out first. If not, there's nothing wrong with that. If it's something you need to consider for a while, tell him and consider away. You only said "it seems weird to me," you didn't give details as to why or what part of it seems weird. Scary weird? Just not into the idea weird? Those are the important questions to ask before anyone could give a super helpful answer.
03/23/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife put off having anal sex with me for 23+ years. She finally agreed several months ago - and is now quite enamored with it. We can't go back - but it seems such a waste.

It's 60% mental, 20% lube & 20% patience. You have to want to enjoy it - or it'll never work. Think of it like when you were learning to drink beer. At first it didn't taste that good - but once you get use to it, it's quite good.

Lube and patience will help you avoid pain - speaking of beer (or the adult beverage of your choice) - will help you relax which is also useful.
03/23/2013
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
If you don't try the experience, you will never enjoy the pleasure that is offers!
03/23/2013
RonLee RonLee
Gunsmoke gave good advice, but I'd say it's more 33% mental, 33% lube & 33% patience.
Perhaps so that it feels more equitable to you Whatthechuck, you could ask your hubby if you could peg him as well.
03/23/2013
edenguy edenguy
Wine & lube

(wine for drinking; lube for butts)
03/23/2013
19WolfMan51 19WolfMan51
I Love Anal.....But Only With A Guy That Knows How To Fuck My Ass Right! It Hurts If The Guy Just Puts A Little Grease On His Cock And Shove It In Then Fucks Till He Cums. Then Says Did You Love That?
Time And A lot Of Lube And Slide It In! I'am Ready!
03/23/2013
Zandrock Zandrock
I do not think it is weird to like anal. It is quite common actually. But it is also not uncommon to be put off by anal. I would sit down and talk with him and ask him more about it. Having him explain his viewpoint might help you understand and potentially be more comfortable with it, or have him be more comfortable with no anal.
03/23/2013
bayosgirl bayosgirl
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Originally posted by Zandrock
I do not think it is weird to like anal. It is quite common actually. But it is also not uncommon to be put off by anal. I would sit down and talk with him and ask him more about it. Having him explain his viewpoint might help you understand and ...
I agree. Communication is the key.
03/23/2013
Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
lol im just jumping to conclusions over here! Either way, on you or on him, you have to be ok with it. And go slow, if you decide to try it. And use lube.
03/23/2013
Msmueller Msmueller
I was really apprehensive at first.... but it's become a lot of fun and really pleasurable for both of us
03/24/2013
Trysexual Trysexual
good advice here..it's not weird. IF you do it right it's very pleasurable
03/24/2013
edeneve edeneve
I don't like the idea of SHARTS.
03/24/2013
Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
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Originally posted by Sweet-n-sensual
I know a lot of people do it, but it kinda seems weird to me. Anyone have any thought on this?
It's not weird, just an avenue you've yet to explore. Maybe start with small toys and just briefly, working both of you up to actual anal penetration.
03/25/2013
dancingduo dancingduo
Chances are he has experienced some sort of orgasm with his p spot and wants to replicate with you.
03/29/2013
OFWife OFWife
My advice is lube it up and try. If at any point you don't like it, stop. You will never know unless you try it. My husband and I tried anal sex several times about 12 years ago and it was ok, but hadn't done it again until recently and have done it quite a few times. I actually like it much more now. Clitoral stimulation helps during anal sex also.
04/02/2013
andykh andykh
ive tried to hint to my wife to use her toy I bought her on me sometime but she thinks its gay and that im gay for asking that. does anyone have any suggestions for me to ask her or should I just drop it all together?
04/21/2013
sixinfirst sixinfirst
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Originally posted by Sweet-n-sensual
I know a lot of people do it, but it kinda seems weird to me. Anyone have any thought on this?
I love it when my wife probes my ass with the anal T and any other vibrating probe. She's also done me with one of her dildos and says it turns her on. I'm ready for her to strap one on and give it to me but she's not quite there yet, mentally. She thinks it would be weird, but I think she's getting closer to wanting to go for it. We spend two or three nights a week just sitting in the recliner and on the couch playing with ourselves. She slides a probe in my ass for me to control while she moves to the couch and settles in with her own vibrating toy while we watch porn. We love to put ourselves in the movies and play the role. We'd never do anything with anyone else but when we're in the movies we really swing!!!!
05/04/2013
Mr. John Mr. John
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Originally posted by Sweet-n-sensual
I know a lot of people do it, but it kinda seems weird to me. Anyone have any thought on this?
You are going to find so many differing opinions on this subject, that you are going to really need to rely on yourself for the right answer.
05/04/2013
angel42539 angel42539
it took me forever to try when I finally did I really liked it!
05/10/2013
evie.amor evie.amor
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My wife put off having anal sex with me for 23+ years. She finally agreed several months ago - and is now quite enamored with it. We can't go back - but it seems such a waste.

It's 60% mental, 20% lube & 20% patience. You have to ...
Gunsmoke has such good advice! Take a drive by yourself and think about if it is something you are open to trying. Ask yourself what you're concerns are about trying it, what are you apprehensive about? Then talk with one another and make sure you're both comfortable with it.
Trust each other to stop if something doesn't feel right, use lots of lube, and relax. Have a glass of wine first.

But first figure out if it's something you really want!
05/11/2013
Jennifer87 Jennifer87
First time I tried it I was totally drunk, but I think it really helped me relax. We take time with it each and every time we do it. We make sure we are both relaxed, not in a rush, and lots of lube. He always starts off by lubing me up a little bit while I give him oral and then proceeds to finger my ass or use a toy with lube, then after about 5-10 mins of that he slowly enters my ass and after a few minutes he can go at it how ever he wants! I'm on the those people that love rough sex! But with anal it does take time and it has to be a choice both of you make not just one or the other...
05/13/2013
extrafun extrafun
We have started to play with it and I the male love it when my uses a toy on me anally
05/16/2013
Thong man Thong man
My wife has no interest in any anal play on her. She is willing to give some attention though.
08/01/2013
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