Do you and your partner masturbate together ....and if so, to orgasm?

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Do you and your partner masturbate together ....and if so, to orgasm?

js250 js250
My husband and I do this frequently and I would like to know if there are other people who enjoy this as well. If you do, how often?
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Yes we do. Yes...All or some of the time.
indiglo , OhMy! , ss143 , Airen Wolf , P'Gell , ToyGurl , extrafun , clp , SiNn , kendra30752 , cnspots , jc123 , JoanJett , joja , Inwitari , Woman China , Jackol , happily.his , big b , PropertyOfPotter , lovemuscle n cookie , The Mother of a SiNner , onesexydad , Elnoa , Wondermom , emiliaa , Redboxbaby , Kitt Katt , amandaco2011 , thebest , N&M , tooshy , Starkiller87 , fleshlightluvr1 , The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary , ellejay , bilovers79 , Loriandhubby , fredacarl , toxie m , Mr. E , MissMandii , sixfootsexxx , Checkmate , VelvetDragon , babycakess , PDXlady , Hallmar82 , XYCopperheadSly , thisisadeletedaccount , PassionCpl , xgamerx , AliMc , Suave Chocolate , Alyona , Katzer , swaggsohott12 , mjtheprincess , Kat and Aaron(aaron) , rom323 , Artishok , Kenneth Fort , damnbul12 , mtnluvr , Ian Power , 7Miles , Missmarc , TCO191 , The Curious Couple , Fun Lover , mandaj , General , Crissy1988 , Rokmai , MattBryant , SecretKinksters , Bubba29
77  (63%)
Yes we do. No, we finish in more traditional ways.
Bignuf , EtherBunny , married with children , newfoundlust , |Scheibe| , moonch1ld , jay28 , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , viola , aliceinthehole , momma22js , tlaskowski , BlooJay , Sunshineamine , Squeaky , LovesToPlay , prettynpink , squire , potstickers , Boyfriend , travelnurse , magicmaxx Mr.Mrs , Babylove09 , nikki0668 , higs , karenm , andykh
27  (22%)
Absolutely not!! Too personal and embarrassing.
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18  (15%)
Total votes: 122
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06/01/2011
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Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
My husband and I do this frequently and I would like to know if there are other people who enjoy this as well. If you do, how often?
Once in a GREAT while...but usually more of a tease to the other.
06/01/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
No... not because it's too personal/embarrassing, though. It just doesn't interest us...
06/01/2011
indiglo indiglo
We do it too, it's loads of fun for us!
06/01/2011
married with children married with children
sometimes we do. most of the time we just stick with sex.
06/02/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
My husband and I do this frequently and I would like to know if there are other people who enjoy this as well. If you do, how often?
We often do this as part of foreplay or postplay, but we don't typically do it to orgasm. Certainly not against it though.
06/02/2011
Naughty Student Naughty Student
We often mastubate ourselves in private just bcs it is time for ourselves, and it is sort of difficult to masturbate in front of our partner, it makes us both sort of shy.

We do masturbate one another, sometimes to orgasm and other times we move onto sex.
06/02/2011
ss143 ss143
Sometimes as a tease and we finish with actually sex and sometimes we will masturbate together or each other to orgasm
06/02/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
My husband and I do this frequently and I would like to know if there are other people who enjoy this as well. If you do, how often?
I do this with both of my partners though it's not really frequent.
06/02/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
My husband and I do this frequently and I would like to know if there are other people who enjoy this as well. If you do, how often?
Not all the time, but we do incorporate masturbation in our repertoire.

I can only come with a vibrator, but he helps by "manning" the dil or phallic vibe, kissing me, playing with me, talking dirty, etc while I use the Wahl. We get as close as we can and then switch to the Wahl, so does this counts as "masturbation" although he's 100% involved?

Also, sometimes, one of us us really tired and the other wants to come. I have no problem with him jerking off whenever I am not going to be having sex with him at the moment, or near the end (although, unless I'm really not feeling well or he tells me to just lie there and watch, I'll join in) if he needs to and My Man gets tired sometimes and I just have to finish.

Also, as we use withdrawal as a birth control method, he usually has his hands on himself when he comes. I don't know if it's "masturbation" or just "manning the pump at the last second."

It depends on what we are doing.
06/02/2011
ToyBoy ToyBoy
I have never done that, but I guess I have the mentality of "Why masturbate if you have a partner?" I'm not against it, just hasn't come up.
06/02/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
We don't do it all the time but we do sometimes. We really enjoy phone sex when he is away on the job, and at home we find it very sexy to watch each other going at it.
06/02/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by ToyBoy
I have never done that, but I guess I have the mentality of "Why masturbate if you have a partner?" I'm not against it, just hasn't come up.
You can learn a lot about what your partner likes by watching them masturbate. My Man is a bit older than I am (Uh, yeah, a "bit") so he had experience when we met and I was a virgin. So, then when he was teaching me to have sex, he'd ask me to masturbate for him, so he could see what worked for me.

The same works the other way. I realized he was MUCH rougher on himself than I was, used a different technique with his hands and he liked his balls played with etc. Watching him do what worked for him made me a better lover and visa versa.
06/02/2011
clp clp
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
You can learn a lot about what your partner likes by watching them masturbate. My Man is a bit older than I am (Uh, yeah, a "bit") so he had experience when we met and I was a virgin. So, then when he was teaching me to have sex, he'd ...
I highly agree!! You can take a lot of the mystery out of finding your partner's favorites spots by just watching them masturbate.

My sweetheart and I are in a long distance relationship, so for the time being, we rely on mutual masturbation. We do see it to completion.
06/02/2011
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
We do that a lot together, but we don't orgasm from it. To me, it's hard to orgasm from masturbation when there is another person in the room.
06/03/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
My husband and I do this frequently and I would like to know if there are other people who enjoy this as well. If you do, how often?
another form of foreplay we love it
06/09/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
My partner and I don't masturbate unless we're together. He likes to play with toys on me and I love that. I'd prefer him do it. I have no interest in masturbating alone. I'll play with a vibe while we're doing the forplay thingy, but usually it's not long before he's wanting to do it for me lol. It works out well because I really don't get anything from doing it to myself. The only thing good that ever comes of it is the thrill of him watching and I still don't wouldn't actually get too far on my own. lol
06/09/2011
jc123 jc123
I find it kind of embarrassing and can never finish, but my husband loves it so it happens pretty often. More often, I play by myself and then when I'm finished he comes into the room and I may or may not play while he does. He just likes me to be next to him while he's doing it.
06/10/2011
js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by jc123
I find it kind of embarrassing and can never finish, but my husband loves it so it happens pretty often. More often, I play by myself and then when I'm finished he comes into the room and I may or may not play while he does. He just likes me to ...
It has brought us much closer from the intimacy and the 'watching something too personal' feeling. I love the feeling of wet n hot I get from watching him stroke and cum. He gets the same way when I get pretty close. We both do the edging and when we finally let go it is INCREDIBLE!!Usually about 6-8 hours is the longest, but it is pretty fun, adds another element and removes the shyness factor.
06/12/2011
Inwitari Inwitari
Yes we do, and it's a lot of fun. Adds another level of eroticism to our sex life.
06/12/2011
Woman China Woman China
I know this is not really what you are asking... but I love having him come home and opening the door to me masturbating. Or tieing him up and making him watch.

I just hate being tied up and having to watch him and not being able to do anything about it. That is jsut way too frustrating for me!!!
06/12/2011
big b big b
some times love to watch my wifes face when she is
06/19/2011
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
We have before, but haven't for a while. Maybe it's time to do it again!
06/20/2011
The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
My husband and I do this frequently and I would like to know if there are other people who enjoy this as well. If you do, how often?
sometimes thats all me and my hubby have time for
06/22/2011
sandman sandman
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
My husband and I do this frequently and I would like to know if there are other people who enjoy this as well. If you do, how often?
We have before and I'm all for it, but she's a little more shy about it than I am. When we have though the sex has been great!
06/30/2011
Bonesdance Bonesdance
My wife will masturbate in front of me, but typically as a warm-up for sex (she always likes to come before intercourse). I've never masturbated myself to orgasm in front of her.
07/01/2011
Wondermom Wondermom
of course! mutual masturbation is hot, I don't think I would be with anyone that couldn't masturbate in front of me
07/01/2011
Miss Voluptuous Miss Voluptuous
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
You can learn a lot about what your partner likes by watching them masturbate. My Man is a bit older than I am (Uh, yeah, a "bit") so he had experience when we met and I was a virgin. So, then when he was teaching me to have sex, he'd ...
Wow, that's a great tip!
07/04/2011
Miss Voluptuous Miss Voluptuous
I haven't tried, but would like to do this! I think my partner would be open if I brought it up... especially if it was in some kind of voyeuristic scenario. (peeping in through the curtains perhaps)
07/04/2011
Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
Hell, yes! I love watching my husband masturbate, and I know he feels the same about watching me!!
07/08/2011
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