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Was sex better with your partner before or after you got married? If it was better, what do you think changed and if it's worse, same question.. what do you think changed?
That depends on *when* in the marriage. Before marriage and in early marriage, awesome. During those hectic years of raising babies + long work hours (for both of us) + extra college classes and general chaos, not so good. Packed schedules and tired bodies took its toll. Now with the kids raised and us back to the basics, it's better than ever.