After an incident in the bar, my husband realized that it was a turn on for him to watch me flirt with/hit on other men. We've decided that we might take this a step further, and actually plan these sorts of things. We are going to go to the same bar, and he is just going to sit across the bar from me, and watch me. This has of course, led to conversations about how far we would take things... threesomes with another guy (we've already had them with other women), him watching me have sex with someone else, etc. but we aren't sure how far we would be comfortable taking things.
Have any of you done anything like this? Do you have any tips, or ideas?