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What do you do to spice up your relationship/marriage to make it work or make it better?
At just 24 I'm surprised at this question. In our 20s and even 30s things were exciting enough without undertaking anything out of the ordinary.
But since you asked - and we've been at this for more than 20 years, I can offer a couple of suggestions.
Make dates - both social and sexual
Don't wait until the weekend to have sex
Have a lot of contact including massage - both soothing & intimate
Find out your partners fantasies and find a way to make some of them happen
Let him know your fantasies and help him find a way to make them happen
Add spice - lingerie, candles, incense, mood lighting & music
Toys (vibes & dildos), lubes, anal play/sex, pegging, light restraints (blindfolds & cuffs), light impact (crops and slappers), etc