Who's Idea was it to start using toys?

Mrs. Tickle and Giggle Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
My husband and I are extremely new to the whole toys thing, and it was his idea. I am wondering about you lovelies out there. Who idea was it? How did you initially react?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Mine
70  (70%)
Significant Other
19  (19%)
Other? Please explain
11  (11%)
Total votes: 100
Poll is closed
06/04/2012
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Megan Jean Megan Jean
My idea! I was the one to introduce him to toys.
06/04/2012
Lil' Missy Lil' Missy
I voted mine. But then remembered he wanted me to try a vibrator, I didn't like it, then two years later I wanted to try one that wasn't as cheap as the one we bought a while ago.
06/04/2012
Calla Calla
I had toys before my boyfriend and I got together.
06/04/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
Our first toy was my husband's idea. I didn't even want it. Finally, we tried it and.... I changed my mind. He bought me my first half dozen or so toys.
06/04/2012
Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
We got one for a friend as a gag gift and wound up getting us one too.
06/04/2012
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Our first toy was my husband's idea. I didn't even want it. Finally, we tried it and.... I changed my mind. He bought me my first half dozen or so toys.
This is what our situation is turning into. He talked me into the first one and know he happy with buying more.
06/04/2012
LoveBug721 LoveBug721
Quote:
Originally posted by Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
My husband and I are extremely new to the whole toys thing, and it was his idea. I am wondering about you lovelies out there. Who idea was it? How did you initially react?
before I even met my bf
06/04/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My idea - luckily she was open right from the beginning.
06/05/2012
Bittenflame Bittenflame
She had one, so we got to talking and mutually decided that toys would be fun
06/05/2012
js250 js250
Definitely my husband's--one of the best ideas he has ever had!!!
06/05/2012
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I brought it up first, but we talked about it before dating.
06/05/2012
Talena Talena
It kinda just happened
06/05/2012
indiglo indiglo
I already had some toys when I met my man. Nothing nice and certainly not a "collection". I think I had 2, made of PVC or Jelly. But it was only after we were together that I came to Eden and started getting involved here and growing my collection. I can't remember how that happened exactly, but he was on board from the get go!

His feeling is that every woman should own some nice toys. I tend to agree!
06/05/2012
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
We did not talk about it, I just surprised her one night by wearing a cock strap. Afterwards she asked about the bigger size and I showed her the strap. She did not say much about it but I was sure she enjoyed it so I wore it more often. Fast forward a few years and I bought her a small G-spot vibe and asked her to give it a try. She does not use them solo much but she enjoys it when I use them on her. She also uses them on me and has no problem with that.
06/05/2012
sktb0007 sktb0007
My idea : )
06/05/2012
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
My husband and I are extremely new to the whole toys thing, and it was his idea. I am wondering about you lovelies out there. Who idea was it? How did you initially react?
It was mine since I was the one wanting to use the toys. I picked my own first toy out and still do. I always have. My first one was some crap plastic cheapo traditional vibe, which rarely got used. Second wasn't much better. Lol. Then I finally started finding what worked for me and I know best what I would like. He LOVES using the vibes on me and their only purpose for me is foreplay and the occasional mini road trip. I rarely use them in place of sex and I think it's more fun that way. It was my idea, but he's always been happy to try these new things I bring into our lives
06/05/2012
Moniqua Moniqua
Mine.
06/05/2012
Terri69 Terri69
It was mine
06/05/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
My fiance's. He actually bought me my first toy. I was a total prude before him. I was curious but I would NEVER dare get a sex toy. I'm glad that I felt comfortable enough with him and got one, it has opened up different things sexually for us. I LOVE using the We-Vibe II or the Mio c-ring together. Now I think (well I KNOW) I know more than he does lol.
06/05/2012
brevado brevado
How can you say no to adding toys? ;-)
06/05/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
My two male best friends suggested I buy some toys because they knew I had never had an orgasm before. I didn't know what to get so between the two of them they suggested trying one of each of these things bullet, pocket rocket, wand, rabbit, and dildo. I didn't know about EF so I ordered them somewhere else, but none of those options worked. I was reading The Orgasmic Diet at the time and they mentioned the Eroscillator so I googled it and EF came up. Been corrupted (I mean hooked) ever since. Thank you my two best friends!
06/05/2012
amazon amazon
It really wasn't a hard sell, and we haven't looked back since.
06/05/2012
Rossie Rossie
I was the one who initiated trying toys. My husband gave my first glass dildo a quick stare and didn't say much about it, he was still a little hesitant using toys on me a few years back.
06/05/2012
Allstars316 Allstars316
It was me who wanted to try one out. Have never looked back since
06/05/2012
tA tA
Both of us did, I think...
06/05/2012
leanright69 leanright69
My idea. I introduced her to the joy of toys. It took time and much encouragement before she became comfortable with toys.
06/05/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Mine, I introduced her
06/05/2012
ninja250 ninja250
It was his idea
06/05/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
Well we both own toys but I was the first one to bring it out during play. They're really receptive and now we suggest what we'd like to try out to each other. I'm going to need a bigger toy bag soon!
06/06/2012
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Unique posters: 72