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Andykh Andykh
Can anyone give me some good hot ideas for a 40th birthday for my wife?
10/22/2015
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Mr. E Mr. E
Birthday spankings?

But seriously 40 can be a big deal, make it special for her.

10/22/2015
Andykh Andykh
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Originally posted by Mr. E
Birthday spankings?

But seriously 40 can be a big deal, make it special for her.

Thats what I want is to make it special for her. She will be the hottest 40 I've ever seen
10/23/2015
NJ casanova NJ casanova
It depends on alot of things...
1. How much do you want to spend?
2. Kids/ can you get away?
3. How kinky is your normally life/do you want it to be?
4. Where you live?
5. does she work or at home mom?

Im on in NJ, so NYC is close, so that could be a last minute option for me.

I live by the mantra "GO BIG OR GO HOME", you got to make it memorable

An example:
What I was going to do for my ex's birhtday- After making sure the next few days were clear/kid at grandma's. Go to her work when she was about to get off. Walk in "a la Richard Gere" in a tuxedo w/ a single rose, like in (shall we dance). Possibly sweeping her off her feet, carrying her out like in (officer gentlemen) so her co-workers where envious of her "she'd love that". At the limo have champagne ready for the ride, not telling her what's up/where your going. During the ride tell her why you love her/how beuatiful she is, moments when, she took your breath away/you knew how lucky you were. We would arrive at the airport to shoot off to a Caribbean Island( it gets cold in NJ) for the weekend at a private villa/hut resort for peace/alone time.
10/23/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
It appears you are in SC. Is a trip to Vegas possible ? The sights,eats, shows lights, and atmosphere are an attraction to some.

Anything to make her happy and treat her like the queen she is.
Mine likes jewelry and nice romantic dinners.
10/23/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
Give her an experience. It can be something intimate like a special weekend together or it can be something fun like a skydiving lesson but either way, make this one memorable. If she is the hottest 40yr old you've ever seen, let her know.
10/23/2015
unfulfilled unfulfilled
Id take any of those suggeations. Today's my 34th. My hubby brought daisies (beats nothing.)
10/23/2015
NJ casanova NJ casanova
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Originally posted by unfulfilled
Id take any of those suggeations. Today's my 34th. My hubby brought daisies (beats nothing.)


How about wine/chocolate in a warm/bubble/sponge bath before foreplay marathon just for you?
10/23/2015
Andykh Andykh
Wow idk where to begin. All of u have given me some awesome ideas. I wished I had the money to do all of them for her. Thanks u all very very much. Feel free to keep the ideas rolling. Knock on wood maybe I can piece them all together and make her feel like the amazing beautiful princess she is to me
10/23/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by unfulfilled
Id take any of those suggeations. Today's my 34th. My hubby brought daisies (beats nothing.)
Happy Birthday! . Mine was earlier in the month. I hope you are enjoying a wonderful day.
10/23/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Andykh
Wow idk where to begin. All of u have given me some awesome ideas. I wished I had the money to do all of them for her. Thanks u all very very much. Feel free to keep the ideas rolling. Knock on wood maybe I can piece them all together and make her ...
All you need to do is make her feel special in your own special way. You don't need to spend a ton of money or any money to do this. She married you for a reason.
10/23/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Wish her our best.
10/23/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
Maybe a surprise dinner party for her? A nice evening out with all her friends?? My husband threw together a bday like that for me a couple years ago and it was so nice and unexpected.

A lovely little weekend getaway is always on the top of my list Our alone time is so few and far between so that is always treasured.

Of course, Vegas was mentioned and that's what I just did for my 40th Nothing beats a fun weekend in Vegas lol. It's like Disney for Adults. Miami would be my 2nd choice. But I'm a mover and a shaker
10/23/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Here's an idea. Popular in Australia.

A scenic hot air balloon ride, champagne and treats, great views and very romantic. Sure there is a company offering such a service in your general area.

Examples
10/24/2015
Andykh Andykh
Thanks again for all the awesome ideas. I have a lil bit of time being her birthday is in January towards the end of the month
10/24/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by unfulfilled
Id take any of those suggeations. Today's my 34th. My hubby brought daisies (beats nothing.)
Well as of the time of your post, the evening had not arrived yet.Perhaps he had a surprise for you. We'll keep our fingers crossed.
10/24/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Andykh
Thanks again for all the awesome ideas. I have a lil bit of time being her birthday is in January towards the end of the month
By the looks of the quick responses from members, it looks like everyone here really likes to party !
10/24/2015
Andykh Andykh
I see that and thank everyone very much for the ideas
10/25/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
You are welcome.
10/25/2015
NJ casanova NJ casanova
Quote:
Originally posted by Andykh
Can anyone give me some good hot ideas for a 40th birthday for my wife?
If you don't mind sharing...How did it go, what did you choose to do? I forgot to post that because of her kid did have a chance to do the trip. I ended up get her a "limited production" purse she wanted instead...Still $1,000


11/04/2015
Ciani Ciani
Maybe you could replicate your first date? Tell the how's and why's of how you fell in love with her and how that has grown? It doesn't have to be extravagant or expensive. What is something she really enjoys? Is there something she has talked about wanting to do? Something she wants but can't justify buying it for herself? Maybe give her a sexy lap dance
11/05/2015
TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
So romantic.
11/07/2015
Andykh Andykh
What are yalls thoughts on maybe getting her a stripper for her 40th birthday?
12/03/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Andykh
What are yalls thoughts on maybe getting her a stripper for her 40th birthday?
First, is that what she really wants and second, make sure the stripper knows how to perform and not just remove (I'm assuming you mean a male stripper) his clothes.
12/04/2015
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by Andykh
What are yalls thoughts on maybe getting her a stripper for her 40th birthday?
I second Inquisitor's comments. And clearly, based on the long length of my response, I have too much time on my hands, lol. Oh well, I wrote it, so I'll post it. Try not to mind me too much...

This is just my opinion/feelings, so please don't be put off...I would not recommend getting a stripper. Unless you know she is really appreciative of that, it could be risky and the last thing you want is an awkward situation for such a memorable milestone B-day. That's just not something I know that many women would really enjoy as a gift, let alone from their husband, that's all. (I also don't have a problem with it, so that's not coloring my response.) Now, if you were swingers and the stripper show could then segue into a threesome with said specially chosen performer (and consenting ahead of time, of course)...okay, not the average circumstance, lol. Nor do I get that vibe from your post here, but ya never know...hahaha. (I really don't judge that, it's just more like a plot line from some novel, eh?)

I think your thinking ahead of time and asking for suggestions shows how thoughtful you are! I would like to suggest the obvious, given where we are, and that's some sex toy purchase(s), or some lingerie? I just had to suggest that, but I don't know if you both use sex toys. If you have, then by all means consider a purchase, not as the main gift, but just as something sexy and fun. If it's not the main gift, the pressure is off for her to love the toy and should keep it playful. Now, should you want suggestions about toys, well, I am sure more than a few, myself included, would be happy to help

What struck me right off was when you said: "She will be the hottest 40 I've ever seen" I don't know any woman who wouldn't be deeply touched to hear her hubby say that and clearly mean it! I agree with the other poster who said be sure to let her know that.

Being alone with no other outside obligations/distractio ns, removing her day-to-day hassles/worries (such as childcare, housework, whatever) frees up her time to not think of anything but the two of you! Sometimes the most thoughtful thing is letting her know (through your actions) that you see all she does and you want to pamper her a little and she won't have to bother with the usual grind. It doesn't have to be extravagant or expensive. Time off and interesting company with the man who's genuinely interested in her and has thought about what she likes and tried to deliver it...well, that's something I think most busy married women would appreciate. I am not saying not to go big. Just remember that those little details can really compound your results. It's not as fun to be whisked off to a little trip when you are worrying about all the things you still need to take care of back home and how you'll never be able to catch up with it before the next work day, etc. The idea is to remove the stresses you can, then move in with the special stuff.

Does you wife like parties and social activities, or is she more happy spending time alone with you, say going to a B&B? What interests does she have that you could surprise her with? OH&W Lovebears mentioned his wife likes jewelry and in such a case, taking her to select what she wants (or surprising her with it) and then having her wear it while you go out to enjoy dinner, dancing &/or a show (whatever you both like) might sound easy, but it's what she likes, so deliver what you can. It's the hubby who only slaps a hastily bought, limp, bargain-bin grocery store bouquet at the wife as he comes in the house and disappears into his man cave who doesn't do himself any favors. If he got her her favorite flowers, even at the grocery store, and presented them in a caring manner, that might be all she wants. It's feeling as if you're an afterthought and a burden that breaks a woman's heart. You're ahead of the game just in thinking about it and planning! Women often just need to know you notice them, really see them, appreciate & love them. The more you can articulate that with words and actions, the better, regardless of money. As someone else pointed out, she chose you. Remind her why you were such a good choice

Oh, good grief...I wrote an advice column! Sorry, I did not intend to be preachy, if that's how I came across. I think your wife is going to be happy with whatever you do and I wish you both a wonderful experience! Please, if you're comfortable with it, tell us what you decided to do and how it goes
12/04/2015
Andykh Andykh
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Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I second Inquisitor's comments. And clearly, based on the long length of my response, I have too much time on my hands, lol. Oh well, I wrote it, so I'll post it. Try not to mind me too much...

This is just my opinion/feelings, so ...
Nothing wrong with being preachy lol. There was a lot of good advice in there. Yea to me she is the hottest soon to be 40 year old. She asked me if I was gonna give her a party and i said yes whatever u want. We both do use toys. She wants to do a sex toy party since she went to 1 not too long ago and she enjoyed it. So my thinking was maybe schedule her a toy party near that special day and hire the male stripper to come in during the party to add a lil bit more fun to it. I've still got plenty of time to plan something. I was just kinda seeing what ideas or suggestions are out there
12/04/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I second Inquisitor's comments. And clearly, based on the long length of my response, I have too much time on my hands, lol. Oh well, I wrote it, so I'll post it. Try not to mind me too much...

This is just my opinion/feelings, so ...
WW,

Glad to see you back to your old self. All good, all good. And so glad I'm not the only l_ n _ w _ _ d _ d person here.
12/04/2015
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
WW,

Glad to see you back to your old self. All good, all good. And so glad I'm not the only l_ n _ w _ _ d _ d person here.
@ OH&W,

@ andykh, well now, that changes things! If you go for the toy party with the stripper, please let us know how it went. Now I can see where you got the idea. Out of the thin air, it was a surprise to hear, but for that kind of party, it'd fit right in and probably be hilarious watching the women. I have never in my life laughed so hard as when I was in college and a bunch of us (from an all women's college, no less) went to see male strippers at this dive bar in the middle of the woods for ladies' night. These were not the type of pros you'd see in Vegas, etc. Some were in college themselves, I remember "Southern Comfort", hahaha, what a tool! I digress...my point was that women can be a lot of fun in a group like that when watching a male stripper, lol!

Glad you didn't get irked with my initial response
12/05/2015
Andykh Andykh
Quote:
Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
@ OH&W,

@ andykh, well now, that changes things! If you go for the toy party with the stripper, please let us know how it went. Now I can see where you got the idea. Out of the thin air, it was a surprise to hear, but for that kind of ...
Its all good. That idea just popped into my head after I made the original post.
12/05/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by Andykh
Its all good. That idea just popped into my head after I made the original post.
That's a better idea. Just know before hand that all ladies in attendance are open to the possibility of a male entertainer. In that context, I think that would help the sales person move some merch. The best part is, if the stripper is any good at his job, all you have to do is swoop in for the finish. If he isn't, then you and she get to kick back after it is all over and have a good laugh. Either way, you win!
12/06/2015
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