What is the longest you have gone with out sex being married?

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What is the longest you have gone with out sex being married?
07/07/2012
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Chilipepper Chilipepper
Well over nine years, almost ten ... from the wedding day to the separation.
My marriage was never consummated. :-/
07/07/2012
xMila xMila
3 months.
07/07/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
We were supposed to not have sex for the last two trimesters of each of my pregnancies, due to complications. We told the OB that simply wasn't workable for us. We worked out a gentle sex and aspirin therapy and did avoid sex for a day or so if I was having contractions. We didn't have sex for the 10 days or so I was hospitalized when I was in preterm labor with our first baby. Then an other week when I was hospitalized a few weeks later.

We were also supposed to go 6 weeks after each C Section, but we lasted 10 days the first time, less than a week the second and I gave him a blow job the second day home after our third baby was born. He just looked so lonely, lying on the big bed alone. I was sleeping on a blow up mattress with the baby, because my incision hurt too much and I couldn't get in and out of the water bed. So, after the baby fell asleep the second night, I invited him onto "my" bed for some quiet fun. I slept on that mattress for close to a month. We had some good times on it, when the baby was sleeping and carefully tucked into her crib (which was about the only time she slept in that crib.)

So, to answer the question; I think maybe 10 days, tops. Usually no more than a day or two goes by.
07/07/2012
SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
A few days. There may have been once when he was travelling for a week, but he doesn't really do that now.
07/07/2012
Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Well over nine years, almost ten ... from the wedding day to the separation.
My marriage was never consummated. :-/
OMG!!! WHY, HOW? I would freak out after the first week!
07/07/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Not counting pregnancy related issues - about 1 month. Luckily that doesn't happen anymore.
07/07/2012
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Quote:
Originally posted by Noelle
OMG!!! WHY, HOW? I would freak out after the first week!
Not having the esteem or self-respect to believe I deserved better. "He's the only one who ever expressed real interest in me." is not a reason to accept his proposal. I was also under the impression that the sex thing would "work out" but it never did - among many other wrong things in our marriage.

Children, don't let it happen to you. Have self-respect.
07/07/2012
meitman meitman
I think maybe about a month after our first child was born, but it may have been less. Outside of pregnancies we usually never go more than about a week without.
07/07/2012
Undecided Undecided
9 months
07/08/2012
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
13 months, that doesn't include the separation time. No longer married to her
07/08/2012
Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
3-4 month. I just lost my sex drive for a while. He still wanted it, but I just had no interest. It's better now though
07/09/2012
AriaRN AriaRN
2 weeks
07/09/2012
rockblenny rockblenny
Not counting pregnancy related & surgery recovery times, three weeks is the longest without some type of sex.
07/09/2012
LaSchwartz LaSchwartz
a month but it will be longer my hubby is at boot camp and later on he may be gone for up to a year give or take a week or two.
07/09/2012
js250 js250
2 months after I was in a car accident. Was in hospital two weeks and the multiple broken ribs made the thought of sex unthinkable, much less doable!
07/09/2012
hjtee hjtee
Six months...he was living in another province for work. I visited for a week, then we had another three months.
08/27/2012
tortilla tortilla
well over a year.......post-partum depression
08/27/2012
Castielskitten Castielskitten
A month. We both ended up with UTI'S and I had my period right after so we couldn't do a thing. We were majorly sexually frustated.
08/27/2012
jc123 jc123
6-8 months?
08/27/2012
Moniqua Moniqua
3 months?
08/27/2012
misty82 misty82
1 month
09/05/2012
itismedi itismedi
Jeeez people and I get whiny at day 5. How in the world??????
09/05/2012
Mamastoys Mamastoys
I had problems after my hysterectomy and we had to abstain for 8 weeks...well I did anyway...After 27 years, that is the longest.
I lost my sex drive for several years when I went through some depression. thanks to the medicines. I participated but didn't get much out of it..
I'm trying to make up fr it now!!!!!
09/05/2012
SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
Quote:
Originally posted by SneakersAndPearls
A few days. There may have been once when he was travelling for a week, but he doesn't really do that now.
Oh, no, wait, I lie. I guess about 5 weeks after the birth of our kids.
09/06/2012
mbrdr2012 mbrdr2012
Prob a month.
09/09/2012
SavingMyself SavingMyself
2 weeks, maybe a little bit longer during the first part of our marriage. He was out of work and I hadn't started school yet, so we were stuck in the house together constantly and in a bad place mentally.
09/13/2012
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