Women's thoughts on man using a dildo on wife

motorcycle rider motorcycle rider
I am married and at times I end up cumming too fast and the wife is not done yet. We have a few toys but no dildos, so my question is what do you ladies think about a man buying a dildo, a softer realistic type, to use to finish her off with some good ole hard thrusting. Too weird?
12/03/2013
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Rossie Rossie
No, it is not weird to finish her off using a dildo. I'm curious...do you two do a lot of foreplay? Rather than using a dildo to finish her off after you cum, how about giving her some fabulous foreplay by stimulating her G-spot with a dildo or vibrator (along with great oral), and then use your cock to finish the job and climax together? I don't know what other ladies like, but I prefer to orgasm with my husband's cock inside me instead of with a toy, as the feeling is much more intense and intimate. And you should ask your wife what her preference is, when it comes to determining the firmness of a dildo, because she's the one being pleasured by it.
12/03/2013
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Rossie
No, it is not weird to finish her off using a dildo. I'm curious...do you two do a lot of foreplay? Rather than using a dildo to finish her off after you cum, how about giving her some fabulous foreplay by stimulating her G-spot with a dildo or ...
This is pretty much how I was going to respond, too.
12/04/2013
Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by Ansley
This is pretty much how I was going to respond, too.
Thanks Stormy, I'm glad you feel the same way!
12/04/2013
motorcycle rider motorcycle rider
thank you ladies !!
12/05/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
As a man who was once in your position - I offer the following:

1. With my wife there was a progression from accepting clitoral vibes - to vibes that could be used for penetration - then to non-vibrating dildos. After experiencing the benefits - my wife is very enthusiastic about using them.

2. We switch - I always use the dildos and other toys to give my wife from 1-3 orgasms before I go for a climax. This way, how long I last is of little consequence - and it's often the case that she has another orgasm while I'm having mine. There is a book written about this technique. "She Comes First" link. They use to sell the book on EF - but I can't find it now - this is an Amazon link.

Just as an example - my wife had Thanksgiving week off and we went wild. She had 16 orgasms in 5 days - compared to just 4 for me. I just consider it the payoff for women giving birth and dealing with a life time of periods.

3. I have found with age PM is no longer a problem. In fact reduced sensitivity now makes orgasms for me a hit-or-miss proposition. Enjoy what you have - and let her go first.
12/05/2013
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
We incorporated dildos is some of our love making sessions. Normally its always foreplay with some type of clit stimulation. Then sometimes a dildo or vibe like the Jopen VR 7. After she has had enough it is then my turn. Always try to take care of her first. Once I'm done, I'm done. So always take care of her first. Dildos are like secret weapons; never cum and done and above average in size.

As long as she wouldn't mind one, I recommend them.
Oh, by the way, have you tried doing kegels to last longer ? If done seriously for few months will help one last longer. That's better than the thurst and stop to rest method. Or maybe a cock ring. Opps ! Did I really say that ?
12/05/2013
motorcycle rider motorcycle rider
thanks guys...all good info! appreciate the feedback.
12/05/2013
Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
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Originally posted by motorcycle rider
I am married and at times I end up cumming too fast and the wife is not done yet. We have a few toys but no dildos, so my question is what do you ladies think about a man buying a dildo, a softer realistic type, to use to finish her off with some ...
Go for it!!! My partner and I love it.
12/05/2013
Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
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Originally posted by Rossie
No, it is not weird to finish her off using a dildo. I'm curious...do you two do a lot of foreplay? Rather than using a dildo to finish her off after you cum, how about giving her some fabulous foreplay by stimulating her G-spot with a dildo or ...
ill agree with this! Its not weird. if you know that you cant make it happen but can finish her with a dildo then more power to you. i feel that there are not enough men out there and care if their girl cums or not. so bravo to you for being one of the men that cares.
12/06/2013
Oliver Klozoff Oliver Klozoff
I'm in a similar situation.
Thanks everyone for the feedback!
01/12/2014
edeneve edeneve
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Originally posted by Rossie
No, it is not weird to finish her off using a dildo. I'm curious...do you two do a lot of foreplay? Rather than using a dildo to finish her off after you cum, how about giving her some fabulous foreplay by stimulating her G-spot with a dildo or ...
I couldn't say it better Rossie.
01/12/2014
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Totally not weird! My fiance usually starts me off with toys and I love it. Sometimes he even uses the more slender toys to add to his cock while he is inside of me and it drives me wild.

Now, here's a twist, I am usually completely out of stamina way before he is. Meaning, it can take him up to 3 hours before he climaxes and I've long since had several.

He usually has to finish himself off, which makes me feel bad haha, but in the end, we are still happy with the end results.
01/12/2014
LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
Definitely not weird. Pretty hot.
01/14/2014
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by motorcycle rider
I am married and at times I end up cumming too fast and the wife is not done yet. We have a few toys but no dildos, so my question is what do you ladies think about a man buying a dildo, a softer realistic type, to use to finish her off with some ...
Nothing weird at all. If it brings you both happiness, then, by all means, do it.
02/09/2014
werewolf werewolf
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Originally posted by motorcycle rider
I am married and at times I end up cumming too fast and the wife is not done yet. We have a few toys but no dildos, so my question is what do you ladies think about a man buying a dildo, a softer realistic type, to use to finish her off with some ...
There's nothing weird about that at all, IMO.
05/10/2014
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by motorcycle rider
I am married and at times I end up cumming too fast and the wife is not done yet. We have a few toys but no dildos, so my question is what do you ladies think about a man buying a dildo, a softer realistic type, to use to finish her off with some ...
We are both here tonight and realized that we need to add to our prior post. We suggest you do what we do, and shop here..together! Find out what toy turns her on! That way you can use that toy on her and it will certainly show love and fun, not "weirdness" at all.
05/10/2014
Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
No not at all, sometimes my hubby finishes before me he will use our strapon and finish the job.
05/12/2014
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