This consideration would have to be made with a partner I trust, not just anyone. There would have to be guidelines listed as well to how things should go and what is allowed and not allowed, to ensure that everything goes over well.
Group sex in my biggest fantasy and I ave no problem with the idea of an open relationship so. Yes "I picked with a man because unlike most guys I find the idea of a MFM threesome, DPing, the F, to be more arousing then a FFM.
Well we are certainly not at that point in our relationship but I'd never say never.. but it would involve a lot of discussions and communicating to make damn sure it doesn't effect our relationship going forward... and I'm not really sure it's even possible... but it does heavily depend on the people involved of course.
We have had same room sex with others but never swapped. We have thought about a threesome and in fact I am in search of the right person to join in on our fun. It would only be a one time thing. It would be with a woman. Someone for both of us to have fun with. Neither of us have ever had a threesome and we want to try it. We've had foursomes and moresomes, but never fully swapped with the other people other than oral.
The situation would have to be right. I'm not trying to screw up a good thing. I'm not a jealous person, so I could deal with my wife having sex with someone else, but I'm not sure she could deal with me doing the same. I think that it would be pretty hot because I'm completely about pleasuring my wife, and I would do anything to give her the most pleasure.
tried it before but when i woke up the next morning it hurrrt so bad
That's exactly why I wouldn't do it. The thought of it is arousing but I know that in the throws of it I would be very turned on but after that all dies down... the next day for instance, I think i would be very worried and insecure. There is no way to tell just what will happen afterward. There could be a connection between any of us and I do not want anyone but my man nor can I handle the thought of him with anyone but me. And that goes for male or female.
My husband told me that he souldn't mind it at all if I wanted another girl with us and I was so pissed at him for even wanting another girl. It makes me feel so insignificant, like he wants someone else and not me. So no, because it can destroy a marriage or a relationship. And it is a sin to be with someone else who isn't your husband or wife.