The penis size

As I tell all who ask, size is not the most important factor or only factor in sex and relationship. Size doesn't make sex good or bad. But it can make it worse if other areas are lacking... if you know what I mean. Reply

Size is not the most important aspect for me and I really wouldn't put the focus on the inches.
What most men have is almost certainly enough to satisfy a woman and there are many more important things than penis size. Reply

I can not say that size does not matter at all, but in my experience, penis size is never the reason I'm not happy. Reply

I agree with the gals above - you could be hung like livestock, but if you're not treating me right and showing love (not just lust!) I'm not going to be impressed. And in general, guys seem fixated on length, whereas even a woman who's raring to go is, I believe on average, no deeper than 6". There's a cervix back there, and I think a lot of gals would agree with me that getting that smacked is no fun at all. Reply

If you're either a size queen, or have an incredibly small vagina, it's possible that size is a deal breaker, especially for a one night stand. But seriously? How much of your relationship is going to be having sex? I mean, in my ideal life, it'd be a few hours everyday, but in the real world? Maybe, at tops, a few hours a week. PLUS, not all sexual experiences involve teh Penis, so really, how much time in any relationship are you ACTUALLY going to be hanging out with it? Not so much.

So what *is* important is how well you two mesh, how you get along, if you can deal with each others imperfections, etc.

Best of luck! Reply

I don't think penis size has any importance on a relationship unless both parties are only in it for their own sexual gratification.. but if that's the case, what kind of relationship is that? I love the penis and I love it regardless of what shape, length, color, girth, etc it is. Reply

I've been with a variety of sized males, and, though I will say I like a fuller feeling, it's not a relationship killer if the guy's smaller. Reply

I've noticed that size gets a lot of attention...way more attention than it should. I don't think most women care about the size that much, girth or length. I have only been with men of average size (5-6 inches length and 1 1/2 inch diameter for girth) and it was never an issue. Granted the man who's penis I've loved the most was the man I chose to marry, but it had very little to do with the size of his cock. It was the tenderness and passion that he displayed, the confidence and the willingness to please and show his pleasure.

Another issue that I do believe makes a lot of difference is shape, and by that I mean a curve. I've never had the pleasure of being with a man who's penis curves downward, but I've been with men who were straight and my husband who's penis curves upward or towards his abdomen when erect. It doesn't seem like a big deal, but allows for easier g-spot stimulation during different positions. I actually can achieve a G-spot orgasm from missionary position, as long as my husband doesn't finish too quickly ;) Reply

I agree that penis size doesn't, or at the very least shouldn't, be, anything close to a deal-breaker in a relationship. The depth of a vagina is usually around four inches, beyond that it's all stretch. And considering it's stretch *into* her body, there's not a lot of that. Width-wise there is a good bit more give and take. I would say I've experienced problems with either end of the spectrum. I had a lover who was smaller and totally unwilling to put forth effort to please me, and a lover who I had such bad communication with that he was jabbing at my spleen. Ultimately, it wasn't the size of their cocks that made these relationships ones I left, the problems in bed were symptoms of issues in the relationship as a whole. My current lover is deliciously average, but if things between us were not as good as they are I would no doubt be unhappy with the sex we have. For me the more compelling things about a penis are the girth and curve of it, far more than length alone. Reply