Alone with a toy or together with a not so good partner?

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Alone with a toy or together with a not so good partner?

AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
This is for you single folks out there. Which would you honestly prefer; a great evening of orgasms alone with your favorite toy or a not so great night of sex but have the companionship of someone else?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Alone but satisfied sexually
Retro.old , MaryExy , sasweetheart89 , Ms. Spice , sarki , Kdlips , Dawn (Lilac Distraction) , Ghost , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , NaturalWoman , FaerieLove , Kim! , CherryDyke , livingadnauseum , Callisto , Midway through , ily , Menarae , mudpie , LavenderSkies , Shellz31 , Ahatmadeofshoes12 , sweet&lush , Interesante , Apirka , Ciao. , lilyflower , ladychristie , mpfm , hall5885 , marrythenight , Raigne , ghalik , Willowe , breebree , Kiwi Green , Azule , AlianneCimorene , potstickers , mjtheprincess , Stagger13 , novanilla , tortilla , skeeterlynn , Genderfree , Xarien , sktb0007 , Pink Lily , Bodhi , Nyx (Under the Covers) , Bittenflame , Kirill1171
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Not so satisfied sexually but I'm not alone
Sir , bayosgirl , Ryuson , xylia , zracer , darthkitt3n , SilverIsis , Callisto , Gunsmoke , Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama , Lickable Lollie , geliebt , Kindred , ViVix , Incendiaire , ihavenipples , The Geek , True Pleasures , humblepie , kittenfacery , theavocadopit , jennifur77 , BG529 , AngelMelody , RedKyuubi
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This is for any other option I didn't list :)
Sir , KC Kitten , PassionQT , CherryDyke , toxie m , Lover of Leather , funluvinmama , The Geek , Freckles , AlianneCimorene , libra777 , Modern^Spank^Anthem , closed account , AliMc , MissCandyland , Ivanna , blackmagicxxx , RememberMe , WhoopieDoo
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Total votes: 96 (91 voters)
Poll is closed
07/29/2011
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Sir Sir
I would rather be with someone than alone. However, if they were not pleasing me in other ways, then I would rather be alone. Sexually, I don't need to be pleased. Emotionally, I do.
07/30/2011
Love Bites Love Bites
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
I would rather be with someone than alone. However, if they were not pleasing me in other ways, then I would rather be alone. Sexually, I don't need to be pleased. Emotionally, I do.
And don't those go hand in hand? If the emotion isn't right, then at times the sexual aspect won't be right either? Just wondering >.<
07/30/2011
sarki sarki
Alone with the toy
07/30/2011
Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Bites
And don't those go hand in hand? If the emotion isn't right, then at times the sexual aspect won't be right either? Just wondering >.<
I think that you took what I said and made it backwards.
07/30/2011
Kdlips Kdlips
satisfied sexually
07/30/2011
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I just wanna "do me"! hahaha!
07/31/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
Being with someone, no doubt about it!
07/31/2011
xylia xylia
sex is not that important. it's more fun if it's done with somebody
08/01/2011
FaerieLove FaerieLove
If I want to cum I would rather be alone and satisfied.However, if its sex for a connection and intimacy than I don't care at all about cumming.
08/21/2011
PassionQT PassionQT
I enjoy the company of others, but I have the best orgasms when I'm alone with my toys. And I have someone! But we're a bit off the beaten path and doing what works for us.
08/21/2011
CherryDyke CherryDyke
Why not everything! this is such a sad question.
08/29/2011
SilverIsis SilverIsis
If the relationship is emotionally satisfying and there is open communication then not being sexually satisfied would more often then not be a temporary problem as you work out the kinks as it were.
10/16/2011
Callisto Callisto
Right now I'm single with no real prospects so my first choice isn't very viable. I'd rather have the confidence and sexual fulfillment of satisfying my own needs alone. If I was with someone but not completely fulfilled.. i don't think it'd matter.

Now if I could just get my sex drive back in gear.
10/16/2011
RonLee RonLee
Why not your favorite toy when you're alone and then when you have a partner... using your favorite toy together?
10/16/2011
Midway through Midway through
I'd rather be alone..than lose sexual satisfaction.
10/16/2011
Menarae Menarae
If I'm looking for sexual satisfaction, then yes, I'd much rather be with myself than fumble around with someone sub-par. I've done that, and it wasn't that much fun for me (though he seemed quite content.)

Stimulating company is another matter entirely. I'd rather be with someone interesting than be on my own most days, but I'd rather be alone than bored and with someone else.
10/19/2011
mudpie mudpie
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
I would rather be with someone than alone. However, if they were not pleasing me in other ways, then I would rather be alone. Sexually, I don't need to be pleased. Emotionally, I do.
I agree, and I'd add that sexual and emotional satisfaction often go hand in hand for me. I'll be a lot more forgiving of a partner who's not particularly skilled, but who I like. So my answer to this poll is that I'd rather be alone with a toy, because if I'm not having fun with the partner, I probably don't like them that much.
11/07/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
This is for you single folks out there. Which would you honestly prefer; a great evening of orgasms alone with your favorite toy or a not so great night of sex but have the companionship of someone else?
Alone but sexually satisfied over a not so good partner.
11/15/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'd rather be alone with a fantastic toy that could fully satisfy me than to be with someone who has no idea how to pleasure.
But I don't HAVE to have someone in my life. I do fine without a partner.
02/07/2012
Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
I have great orgasms by myself so I would rather masturbate then settle for bad sex with someone I'm not really into.
02/16/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
This is for you single folks out there. Which would you honestly prefer; a great evening of orgasms alone with your favorite toy or a not so great night of sex but have the companionship of someone else?
If I were in a relationship, I'd have the not so great sex because I like sleeping with someone.
02/19/2012
sweet&lush sweet&lush
Alone but sexually satisfied. If my toys satisfy me more than my partner there's a problem.
02/26/2012
Interesante Interesante
I'm a bit of an introvert at the best of times, so I would absolutely prefer being alone and satisfied.
03/12/2012
Apirka Apirka
I'd rather be alone and satisfied than with a bad lover.
03/22/2012
ladychristie ladychristie
I have had the privilege of a not so great partner the memory of him makes me giggle, it was a night I should've chosen a toy.
03/27/2012
funluvinmama funluvinmama
At this point a hot bath is the most I could choose. I need a really good toy to honestly answer this one. My current toy doesn't satisfy and neither does my hubby during sex.
03/29/2012
The Geek The Geek
Depends on if they're inexperienced or just don't care. Also, I think that I might actually enjoy getting her off as much as me getting off, and I can't really give my toy an orgasm
04/16/2012
True Pleasures True Pleasures
I'd probably rather be with a not so great partner than a toy.
04/16/2012
breebree breebree
why be unhappy
04/25/2012
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