I don't understand how one cannot like anal. In both men and women it stimulates erogenous zones, in men the prostate and in women multiple erogenous zones are on the back wall of the vagina. So if your not enjoying it, your not doing it right.
I love anal sex but not to the exclusion of PIV sex. Anal sex can be awesome but it takes patience, lots of lube and real communication between partners.
I also love to give it with a strap-on as much as I love to get it!