I don't understand how one cannot like anal. In both men and women it stimulates erogenous zones, in men the prostate and in women multiple erogenous zones are on the back wall of the vagina. So if your not enjoying it, your not doing it right.
I love anal sex but not to the exclusion of PIV sex. Anal sex can be awesome but it takes patience, lots of lube and real communication between partners.
I also love to give it with a strap-on as much as I love to get it!
I've tried it several times about a year ago and it was sometimes painful, sometimes pleasurable.
Now I'm taking it slow and starting with a small butt plug.
I always say to take it slow with plenty of lube and have lots of patience with anal... it's not a race and you can't just bang away like it's the end of the world.
The first person ever that tried to get there with me got punched...That being said. I enjoy it now with plenty of lube and a good partner that knows how to handle it.