Befriend her BF??

HerBabi HerBabi
Should I be friends with the girl I love's BF??
12/04/2010
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Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
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Originally posted by HerBabi
Should I be friends with the girl I love's BF??
Why not?

I do not think you should be his friend just because you are trying to get closer to her though. If you like the guy, then why not?
12/04/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by HerBabi
Should I be friends with the girl I love's BF??
I'm confused you are in love with a girl and are wondering if it's ok to be friends with her best friend or boy friend? (BF means both and in this context it's a bit confusing)

Either way I can't see anything wrong with it as long as you actually like the person or can stomach building some common ground between the two of you to build a friendship on.

For instance while my husband isn't best friends with my boyfriend they are working on building a relationship that is more than just friendly. It isn't easy sometmes but it's usually worth the effort.

Now if the persona is just not a good person or hurts your loved one then you are under no obligation to pretend to enjoy their company, though it is usually better to be polite and distant. If the friendship predates your realtionship with her then you should tread carefully.
12/04/2010
Jobthingy Jobthingy
Is this girl aware you are in love with her?
12/04/2010
Harlequin Harlequin
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Originally posted by HerBabi
Should I be friends with the girl I love's BF??
nothing wrong with that but you dont HAVE to and it also may look suspicious to your gf.
12/10/2010
Chevylady37 Chevylady37
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Originally posted by HerBabi
Should I be friends with the girl I love's BF??
y not?
01/17/2011
SoBlue SoBlue
Quote:
Originally posted by HerBabi
Should I be friends with the girl I love's BF??
No, Thats just an uncomfortable situation waiting to happen... Think about it hun, how are you going to feel seeing her with him? kissing him? ect...
04/01/2011
GravyCakes GravyCakes
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Originally posted by HerBabi
Should I be friends with the girl I love's BF??
i wouldn't say you HAVE to, just as long as your polite to her. but if you think yall would get along pretty well, then why not?
05/09/2011
LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
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Originally posted by Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
Why not?

I do not think you should be his friend just because you are trying to get closer to her though. If you like the guy, then why not?
agreed
01/04/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Do you mean boyfriend or best friend? BF can stand for either.

If it's her best friend, then I don't see why not. There's nothing wrong with having mutual friends, after all.

If it's her boyfriend... that might be considerably more awkward, but so long as you're not out to take her yourself, it might be okay.
01/07/2012
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