Casual sex vs. Masturbation: when you're single and need to scratch that itch, which is more satisfying?

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Casual sex vs. Masturbation: when you're single and need to scratch that itch, which is more satisfying?

biancajames biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Masturbation- effective and uncomplicated
biancajames , CreamySweet , Love Perpetua , plaidvulva , Jon S , Rossie , dbm6907 , thisisadeletedaccount , EdenUser , hotcherry , sexykiss , sextoyreviewland , Lavendar , bettle590 , michael scofield , Kroo , Neotigress , Gluesnffr , Aisling , mpfm , christyknits , Supervixen , theothers1 , skeeterlynn , PepperPot , zaftigzoo , Meido , AK Bunny , MzL , Tork48309 , malantha , TheirPet , Harpina is gone , potstickers
34
Casual sex- exciting and unpredictable
CreamySweet , ViVix , Trysexual , melissa1973 , marigolds6
5
Depends on my mood
luvslukin , Danneh , melissa1973 , MissK680 , skeeterlynn , AK Bunny , closed account , SecretKinksters
8
Total votes: 47 (43 voters)
Poll is closed
12/04/2011
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CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
Either?? Both!!! I think both!
12/04/2011
biancajames biancajames
Quote:
Originally posted by CreamySweet
Either?? Both!!! I think both!
That's what the depends on my mood option is for
12/04/2011
plaidvulva plaidvulva
When it comes to being single, masturbation is just fine. You can end it as soon as you want, you can stretch it out as long as you want. You can go slow, fast, rough, softly. You can use toys, you can use your fingers, hell, you can use your pillows! And, at the end of it, you don't need to pay anyone, engage in any awkward conversations (unless you're walked in on I suppose), no need to worry about what the other is thinking, no worries, no problems.

However, if you actually are in a relationship, forget solo action, double team your genitalia!
03/07/2012
dbm6907 dbm6907
i'd rather masturbate.
03/07/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
Casual sex for sure!!
07/18/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
Masturbation - I can depend on myself to know my own wants and needs and respect my gender identity in bed, which is hard to get a guarantee on from casual sex partners, and in "scratching that itch" I won't expose myself to any other potential itches of the STI variety.
07/20/2012
luvslukin luvslukin
mostly masturbation, but sometimes with the right connection casual sex is hot. If it's casual, it's bet if both people know it's casual. I don't like using someone for sex. I mean if I think it's casual, and they think it's going somewhere, that's not enjoyable for me.
07/20/2012
EdenUser EdenUser
Masturbation, I don't believe in casual sex.
07/20/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
masturbate
07/21/2012
sextoyreviewland sextoyreviewland
Masturbation has a higher likelihood of being great. Casual sex, especially with someone new, doesn't have such a guarantee.
08/09/2012
txchris txchris
Masturbation is easier for me but if the situation and person right is right I will do casual sex.
08/12/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
Casual..even if it was just petting or masturbating together would be more exciting.
08/12/2012
Lavendar Lavendar
I would go masturbate, casual sex is too risky to me.
08/12/2012
michael scofield michael scofield
wacking off
08/16/2012
Chilipepper Chilipepper
The starvation for affection can really bitch up things when one is not into "casual" anything.
09/01/2012
Neotigress Neotigress
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
I honestly have trust issues, so casual sex just doesn't work for me. There has to be a wee little foundation (not a lot but some) for me to want to have sex with someone.
09/01/2012
Gluesnffr Gluesnffr
Masturbation
09/01/2012
Aisling Aisling
I've never had any luck with casual hookups, alas, never happened across anyone I've wanted to do that with.
09/04/2012
Artishok Artishok
Masturbation
09/04/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
Casual hook ups are never any good for me--maybe I've just never found the right person, maybe I'm cut out for it, but every casual counter I've had has been with a sexually clueless dullard. Sounds mean, I know, but it's true. I'd rather masturbate.
09/08/2012
MissK680 MissK680
It really does depend on my mood, some nights I want sex and other nights I'm completely content with the rabbit. I'm not sure if I want a relationship or not, so I have no problem with a one night stand or fwb.
09/08/2012
skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
Usually just toys. I like to make sure my body is clean. But every now and then after being single for so long, real sex is very nice. But then it just makes me want more.
09/10/2012
PepperPot PepperPot
Definitely masturbation--too worried about STDs and too greedy with my orgasms to leave them to chance
09/10/2012
AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by biancajames
Would you rather hookup or plug in? Both have pros and cons.
Generally masturbation, but I can see the allure of casual sex too.
09/21/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
Usually Masturbation.
10/07/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
Either...masturbation on web cam is something in between and safe.
10/07/2012
Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
Masturbation. Because it's uncomplicated and gets the job done.
10/07/2012
closed account closed account
can i pick both?
10/30/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Both
10/30/2012
Total posts: 30
Unique posters: 28