Which do you prefer, A well lubed none Vibrating flesh colored Dildo, or a Vibrating purple house of pleasure! Let's see what the numbers say!!
I generally stay away from the flesh colored dildos - I like mine in bright colors and wild shapes. But I'd prefer most any dildo to a vibrator. I find the sensatio created by vibrators to be too intense.
A G-spot vibe or something such as the G-Ki is really nice anally, but I also like dildos (though I tend more towards the non-realistic ones)
I can't use traditional vibrators, because I don't have a vagina, and most traditional ones I've seen don't have a flared base. but I'm getting a vibrating butt plug soon, that I'm super excited about.
For my playtime I like a combination of both because my living situation forces me to have to be quick, so I don't have the luxury of building up an orgasm with a dildo alone.
But with looks I prefer realistic dildos over the colorful/wacky shaped vibrators. They are just so much sexier to me, not to mention that the act of thrusting on a toy is way more erotic than pleasing myself with a vibrator, in my opinion.