How do you deal with Ex problems?

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Of course I am having ex problems how does everyone else deal with this? Has an ex ever tried to walk back into your life knowing you were with someone else and happy? If the person is persistent how do you spell it out to them that you dont want to be with them anymore? Apparently everything I said wasn't enough for him to understand.
08/21/2012
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Originally posted by hawaiian chick
Of course I am having ex problems how does everyone else deal with this? Has an ex ever tried to walk back into your life knowing you were with someone else and happy? If the person is persistent how do you spell it out to them that you dont want to ... More
Ignore them, my most current ex has tried this if they are contacting you via Facebook block them! If they are contacting you via your cell phone most companies have it where you can pay $5 or so a month to block numbers from contacting you as well. If comes down to you are feeling harassed tell them you will press charges. Good Luck
08/21/2012
hawaiian chick hawaiian chick
Thanks! I have been ignoring him for so long now and I finally snapped today! I blocked him from everything its just a pain dealing with them
08/21/2012
ChuChii ChuChii
Thats the best thing to do.
My ex fiance threaten to kill me, because I chose my current fiance over him.
And whats funny is that when we broke up, he was the one that left me. So we argued until my mom said something and we left it at that.. but now its been a year and 5 months, and we are on speaking terms .. but nothing more. With most of my exs im friends with them and thier new girlfriends.

But yes the best thing to do is block them and just erase them from your life.
08/21/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by hawaiian chick
Of course I am having ex problems how does everyone else deal with this? Has an ex ever tried to walk back into your life knowing you were with someone else and happy? If the person is persistent how do you spell it out to them that you dont want to ... More
Sometimes people only believe what they have in their heads. Too many people believe the stupidly romantic stories about how if you just persist long enough the object of your desire will suddenly realize how wonderful you are. The thing is you are happy and you have a new love. There were reasons you left this guy, I am assuming, that means you really have reason to want him to just pack up and go!

I worry when I hear about obsessed people...it's so easy to go from "I want you back" to "if I can't have you no one can". I hope this isn't the case and he's just annoying.

My advice would be to be VERY clear you are happy and no longer have room in your life for this other man. Then attempt to ignore him. If he persists begin keeping a record of the times he makes contact, what was said and what his reaction was. Most times you have to show a pattern of repeat offenses before a stalking case can be made.

This might be reactionary but at the same time I would hate to not say it and have anything happen, ya know?
08/21/2012
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