I wish I was better at fantasizing than I am. I still have the hots for my ex J. but its been 14 years and he's happily married now with a couple of 3 year olds.
But he will probably always be my fav eye candy and if I had more pics from our relationship I would use them as much as possible. Thing is when he got married he stopped answering my fb messages. Now I'm down to 3 silly pics, pathetic yes but my memories of our sex life are still the hottest I've ever felt and even if I have stronger orgasms now with him it was a full body top of my head to the back of my heel sort of thing.
Since my ex-boyfriend was my first real true love.. of course I sometimes fantasize about him, but it's not as often as it used to be! I also don't get as many dreams either, though that's not really a surprise since most of my dreams now contain my current significant other and the same can be said for my fantasies too!