Hardest Part of being Single?

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Badass Badass
What do you think the hardest part of being single is?

For me it has always been the lack of cuddles, lack of sex, and paying bills solo, what is it for you?
Feb 8, 10:33 am
BobbiJay BobbiJay
Lack of two person sex. Also not having someone there to share your day with.
Feb 8, 11:34 am
JR JR
(EdenFantasys)
Someone who's got your back and will be there for you.
Feb 8, 12:11 pm
Antipova Antipova
(Eden Cooks)
Picking what to wear in the morning...

That might sound kind of pathetic, but I pretty much dress only for my partner's eyes. When I'm single I just wear men's clothing in public and nothing when I'm at home, and feel like I'm not doing a good job of presenting myself.

Lack of partnered sex is a bummer, but there are always fuck buddies.
Feb 8, 12:19 pm
JR JR
(EdenFantasys)
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Originally posted by Antipova
Picking what to wear in the morning...

That might sound kind of pathetic, but I pretty much dress only for my partner's eyes. When I'm single I just wear men's clothing in public and nothing when I'm at home, and feel like I'm not doing a ... More
I'm kinda the same way with facial hair too. I'll let it grow out, but if a partner likes it short, I'll shave.
Feb 8, 12:57 pm
switzerland switzerland
seeing my friends with their significant others, then having to go home or to bed alone. it really takes its toll on a person
Feb 8, 2:06 pm
Badass Badass
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Originally posted by switzerland
seeing my friends with their significant others, then having to go home or to bed alone. it really takes its toll on a person
I'm glad I'm not the only person who doesn't like going to bed alone.
I love when I get to fall asleep next to someone.
Feb 9, 1:09 am
Elnoa Elnoa
The decrease in income.
Feb 9, 1:52 am
ginger715 ginger715
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Originally posted by Badass
What do you think the hardest part of being single is?

For me it has always been the lack of cuddles, lack of sex, and paying bills solo, what is it for you?
The hardest part is the lack of companionship, sex, laughter, cuddling
Feb 14, 12:28 pm
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Lack of hugs. I mean, I have family that I can (and do) get hugs from, but I can't really sit and cuddle with them, you know? And for a few reasons, the hugs are only a two or three times-a-day occurrence.

For some people that might sound sufficient, but I really, really like hugs!
Feb 16, 1:37 am
Wildchild Wildchild
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Originally posted by Badass
What do you think the hardest part of being single is?

For me it has always been the lack of cuddles, lack of sex, and paying bills solo, what is it for you?
sleeping alone!
Feb 16, 1:52 am
garylangworthy420 garylangworthy420
definitely sleeping alone
Mar 26, 8:25 pm
Voir Voir
No sex. I'm not the type for flings and such and I don't like chancing ruining a friendship for "benefits" so being single's only downfall for me is that there is no sex with another person. heh
Mar 27, 3:01 pm
catsin catsin
Not knowing who might be next
Mar 28, 12:26 pm
SE SE
being so lonely, the fear of having to face life alone and not having the confidence that i can do it.

and a big long list of "fears" about being alone and realizing i'm going to be alone, that i am alone, and i have to take care of myself. my happiness lies in my handss. ugh

laughter, i miss laughter, intimacy, knowing i'm loved, how great it feels to love someone.

i can't wrap my mind around the concept of being happy single. being without the person i believed was "the one". my destiny.
Apr 13, 1:22 am
Geogeo Geogeo
I really enjoy being single, and being alone. I don't want to date, but it sucks not having sex whenever you want it.
Apr 13, 1:36 am
The Geek The Geek
Lack of companionship, sleeping alone, not having a women's opinion on the stupid stuff I do, no cuddling, god I miss the cuddling. Just laying there holding one another for hours, falling asleep and waking up with them still in your arms... Yeah, being single kinda sucks.
Apr 16, 11:10 pm
CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
Cuddling and just random getaways. Going through it right now sadly.
Apr 16, 11:19 pm
Mwar Mwar
I miss cuddles and company during mundane chores.
Apr 17, 12:13 am
SE SE
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Originally posted by Mwar
I miss cuddles and company during mundane chores.
i hear ya on the chores. it was motivating to get stuff done together. chores and errands are horrible for me alone. though keeping the house cleaner alone. one thing i can say is i don't think i ever took any of it for granted. i liked when i got spoiled and he did stuff for me. little things like laying there with a headache without him to bring me aspirin. on the same note, i miss having someone to do stuff for, making a difference with the little things. the love will always be there, but no way to express and show it.

and i miss seeing his face when he was still checking me out. seeing him undress me with his eyes even though he had recently seen me naked. love and lust, miss that. miss him
Apr 17, 6:12 pm
Incendiaire Incendiaire
Definitely the lack of physical affection.
Apr 17, 6:36 pm
CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
sleeping alone
May 2, 3:01 am
Chilipepper Chilipepper
The loneliness gets me the most, and the negative mental tapes that go on and on ... "No one will ever want you", "He couldn't stand you anymore", "You can't hold onto anyone unless they're as dysfunctional as your ex-husband", "You're too ugly for anyone to want", "You fucked it up somehow" ...
May 2, 10:59 am
jennifur77 jennifur77
Quote:
Originally posted by Badass
What do you think the hardest part of being single is?

For me it has always been the lack of cuddles, lack of sex, and paying bills solo, what is it for you?
Not having someone to squash a menacing looking spider.
May 3, 8:40 pm
CindyH CindyH
lack of sex,lonley
May 3, 8:58 pm
JR JR
(EdenFantasys)
Dating is definitely hard!

I would've thought there were more cute nerdy girls online!
May 4, 4:01 pm
hall5885 hall5885
I've always been a loner but what gets me most at times is sleeping alone, lack of cuddling, and not having someone there to lean on when I need shoulder to cry on.
May 4, 5:32 pm
little miss kinky little miss kinky
Being lonely/lack of sex
May 9, 9:44 pm
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