Have you stalked an ex on Facebook?

RememberMe RememberMe
Have you stalked an ex on Facebook?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
22  (45%)
No
27  (55%)
Total votes: 49
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11/18/2012
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Istanbull Istanbull
Only three days ago I found an ex who was "The one" I always felt I let get away my entire life. She was a curvy blonde with DD tits, a beautiful face and she did EVERYTHING. But our relationship was more of a friends-with-benefits type and I really felt like she didn't want a serious boyfriend. I admit I wasn't all that good of a guy to her either. One night we were talking and she asked me what I wanted in life. I don't remember what I answered but it was something really stupid a teenager would say. This was one of those moments that stuck with me for the last two decades that I always wished I could go back and change. I would have said "I want you".

Well I am pleased to report that what I found was a 290lbs, crew-cut lezbian married to a trans gendered women who(and I swear) looks like Fat Bastard from Austin Powers.

It took a while for it all to sink in but now I realized I dodged a bullet. All these years I've been seeing the grass as greener on the other side was actually a total train wreck. It was one of the most liberating moments ever so finally know my biggest regret was actually my biggest blessing.
11/18/2012
Istanbull Istanbull
After finding my ex through classmates.com I decided to also look up the "girl who I could never have but wanted more than anything". She was a stunning cherry red hed with a great body. I had such a major crush on her but there was no chance I could ever hook up with her. I was too shy at the time and blocked by other girls in my class who(later I found out) wanted me for themselves. I always wondered what became of her. I always assumed that she probably became an overweight, chain smoking, ghetto mother with ten kids living in a trailer park? It was hard because I didn't have her name's proper spelling and now she had a new last name. After 20 years of wondering and searching, I finally found her and turns out she's not only still very beautiful, She's living only a few towns away, has two daughters who are all grown up, she's a successful psychiatrist, doesn't drink or smoke, even became the same religion as me and (gasp), is single..... and I'm not. If I ever get divorced I will break the internet barrier and ask her out. Considering all I went through in two decades and to always hold a torch for her, only to finally find her and be with her, I think that would be a total storybook ending.
11/18/2012
js250 js250
No--he stalked me.

Living in the same small town I grew up in, I have no desire to look up any ex I have had--they are still here doing whatever it was they did previously. I had one ex--was going to marry the guy and everything that moved and I admit, it was one of the 'ones that got away' deals. I would think about him when other relationships were not going so good, but never did anything about it. He did, though. I found out he was stalking me through his ex wife's account and had set up a facebook like for my child and was keeping tabs on everything in my life. Freaked me the hell out!! I put a legal halt to the issue and now, thankfully, no longer have that issue to deal with!! One reason I will never belong to facebook or any other such site again!!
11/18/2012
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
No, I haven't ever stalked an ex. I don't really care what they're doing with their lives.
11/18/2012
freud13 freud13
No I have not stalked an ex. I wish them the best and don't really want to talk to most of them ever again. I still get facebook friend requests from a few of them....makes me think about deleting my facebook account.
11/18/2012
sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
Nope, I've never stalked one of my exes.
11/18/2012
Taylor Taylor
I said yes, but I really wouldn't call it stalking. I've never had a "bad" breakup and I've remained facebook friends with a few of them. every few months I might check their profile to see what they're up to, but I don't follow their every action or anything like that
11/18/2012
amplified to rock amplified to rock
Not really stalking stalking, but I definitely have got myself into a Facebook k-hole checking out my exes and crushes (and their significant others...I'm not proud )
11/18/2012
married with children married with children
I have never stalked anyone. I am friends with a few ex's on FB. they looked me up and requested we become friends. But I dont really pay any attention to what they are up to.
11/18/2012
Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
Every now and then I'll Google an old friend or two to see what pops up. I'm anti-facebook though. I don't have one and I don't look at anyone else's.
11/18/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
Nope. I don't find that to be healthy. I've blocked exes, because when they are out of my life, I want them to stay out of my life.
11/18/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
Nope
11/18/2012
Chilipepper Chilipepper
I tried looking up my first boyfriend because we lost touch as adults (he was married and had a toddler son the last we talked back in 2005), but haven't found him. I won't lose sleep over it.

My current boyfriend round-about-stalked me through the years since high school ... he was actually laying out internet bait for me to stumble on so he could find me that way (since we had a lot of the same interests), but he never went so far as to look for me outright and I never found the bait (I used websites that he didn't create). We actually just happened to meet at a mutual friend's party a few months ago, so it worked out in the end. Yes, nothing normal ever happens to me ... or him, for that matter ...
11/18/2012
Kitka Kitka
No way
11/18/2012
RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
nope
11/18/2012
The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
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Originally posted by RememberMe
Have you stalked an ex on Facebook?
That is tacky and i cant navagate much on facebook anyways
11/18/2012
MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
Like some people on here, I have looked into "the one that got away" or what not. We never dated, cause I meet and feel in love with my husband at 14, but we always had this sexual tension/chemistry. He was never the relationship kind of person, while I was and in high school we just never seemed to be a line in our thinking. After losing contact (text messages) with him for a few months, I went looking for his Facebook page and found, low and behold, a girlfriend, something he had always told me he didn’t want. What was a little freak was she has the same first name as me. I was suddenly hit with a massive amount of jealous and was feeling kind of lost. Why her and not me etc etc. Then I remembered, my husband and everything was ok. I have the love of my life and I hope he finds the same kind of happiness I have.
11/18/2012
Gdom Gdom
Nope, I haven't.
11/18/2012
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Quote:
Originally posted by MrsHouseWife
Like some people on here, I have looked into "the one that got away" or what not. We never dated, cause I meet and feel in love with my husband at 14, but we always had this sexual tension/chemistry. He was never the relationship kind of ... More
It's really weird when you find they - even old guy friends - have girlfriends or wives that almost look like you, too. At least five of my guy friends (and one ex-boyfriend) from high school are involved with snarky, busty redheads who wear glasses. (But I am dating one of them now.)
11/18/2012
jr2012 jr2012
sure. not creepy stalked though! I only had a few boyfriends before my current, and they were silly highschool type things. I used to look at their pages to see what they were up to, if they got married and had kids, etc. I honestly do feel good when I see they are doing well!
11/18/2012
satinlady550 satinlady550
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Originally posted by RememberMe
Have you stalked an ex on Facebook?
I really don't care too much for my ex husband so I don't care if I ever see his stupid ass again.
11/19/2012
nikki0668 nikki0668
Nope, but he stalked me.
11/27/2012
Genderfree Genderfree
Yeah, I mean, I only talk to her every day... ahaha.
12/10/2012
Real or memorex Real or memorex
I don't currently care enough to social media stalk.
05/09/2013
MaximusMax MaximusMax
nope. I dont care enough to.
05/24/2013
Hentialover Hentialover
Quote:
Originally posted by RememberMe
Have you stalked an ex on Facebook?
I am slightly ashamed to admit, I have done that a few times.
05/25/2013
Sexspark69 Sexspark69
Quote:
Originally posted by RememberMe
Have you stalked an ex on Facebook?
We stalked each other!
05/25/2013
Hummingbird Hummingbird
No but last night for the 1st time in 30 years I wondered about my old boy friend and looked him up. Fing he's still living where I last knew him to be I said ok and moved on to something else.
05/25/2013
bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by amplified to rock
Not really stalking stalking, but I definitely have got myself into a Facebook k-hole checking out my exes and crushes (and their significant others...I'm not proud )
Hey, amplified to rock? "Facebook k-hole" is the best expression I've ever heard.
05/25/2013
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