Long Distance or Not at all?

SexFeind22 SexFeind22
here is the background story: my boyfriend and i recently broke up because when he gets hired on to full time at work he is the prime candidate to be relocated to New Hampshire, my question for you is, if you feel it would work out would you keep a long distance relationship up or forget it all because its too far away?
02/01/2011
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Crash Crash
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Originally posted by SexFeind22
here is the background story: my boyfriend and i recently broke up because when he gets hired on to full time at work he is the prime candidate to be relocated to New Hampshire, my question for you is, if you feel it would work out would you keep a ... More
How long were you together and how far apart will you be? And for how long? It depends on a number of things whether or not things can last in the long run. Distance causes a lot of tension. You both have to be clear on how far you think the relationship could go. Make sure you have an understanding between you to try work things out before you make any big decisions.
02/01/2011
SexFeind22 SexFeind22
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Originally posted by Crash
How long were you together and how far apart will you be? And for how long? It depends on a number of things whether or not things can last in the long run. Distance causes a lot of tension. You both have to be clear on how far you think the ... More
weve known each other for 18 years and weve been dating for 6 months, we want to stay together but his relocation is in New Hampshire and we both live in alabama, and its too soon for me to just pick up and leave with him, its a long way off and phone and internet just dont seem like enough, its a hard decision and we dont want to make it. lol
02/07/2011
LittleBird LittleBird
I say try it until it no longer works. You have nothing to loose to keep this relationship and you shouldn't let it go just because he moves. You end it if he fucks up, if you fuck up. You may even try to work through it, and it makes you stronger. There are so many variables, but ultimately my advice is: go for it. Do long distance.
03/24/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm with LittleBird. Why not just try and see how it goes if the long distance happens. If it doesn't work, then at least ya know you gave it a go.

The internet is great for distance - especially if ya both have webcam.
03/24/2011
SoBlue SoBlue
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Originally posted by SexFeind22
here is the background story: my boyfriend and i recently broke up because when he gets hired on to full time at work he is the prime candidate to be relocated to New Hampshire, my question for you is, if you feel it would work out would you keep a ... More
Hey, if you two are willing to work at it, why not?
04/01/2011
Velocity Velocity
Always try. Theres no greater pain than knowing you just gave up.
11/07/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
I'd try, seeing as I'm in a LDR for the year now
11/07/2012
Scythe Scythe
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Originally posted by SexFeind22
here is the background story: my boyfriend and i recently broke up because when he gets hired on to full time at work he is the prime candidate to be relocated to New Hampshire, my question for you is, if you feel it would work out would you keep a ... More
I have done the long distance relationship thing and in my experience it does not work.
05/09/2013
SMichelle SMichelle
I'm currently in a LDR now, so... well, I'd give it a try and see how it goes.
05/09/2013
MaximusMax MaximusMax
not at all... too complicated.
05/24/2013
Hentialover Hentialover
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Originally posted by SexFeind22
here is the background story: my boyfriend and i recently broke up because when he gets hired on to full time at work he is the prime candidate to be relocated to New Hampshire, my question for you is, if you feel it would work out would you keep a ... More
It would really depend on how important the relationship, and my partner were to me. I would have to consider if I could manage never seeing them, and I don't think I could manage it, but I would try it, if it seemed worth it.
05/25/2013
melliegirl melliegirl
I was in a LDR from the start with a guy bc he was in the military when we first started dating. Once he got out and moved back home which was much much closer, he ended up seeming farther away and thats why things ended. Try the LDR even though its hard it can be worth it.
06/11/2013
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